Topic: Do Women prefer men to make contact first?
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Mon 10/15/07 01:19 AM
Yeah I agree, if someone adds you as a favorite, it makes it much easier to contact them. It's like an ice breaker to let you know that you won't look like a complete jerk if you e-mail them lol.

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Mon 10/15/07 01:21 AM
I can usually make first contact...but have a hard time following through after that...like I just don't know what else to say beyond the initial, "what's your sign?"

Kind of like "A Night at the Roxbury" when they finally get some girls to go with them, but they can't carry on a conversation beyond generic pick up lines...

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Mon 10/15/07 01:25 AM
What's my intent????


Hmmm...can you say green card?????laugh laugh laugh laugh

That's not my intent, but there are plenty who thinks it is...

The forums are where I can hook up with friends I have known for a year or so, who are dotted all over the world, and the forums are also where I can add my little bit of aussie insight, for others to do with as they wish.

I am on this site, to do that thing called communicate...with other people, you know, the one's on the other side of the monitor..:wink:

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Mon 10/15/07 01:26 AM
flowerforyou

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Mon 10/15/07 01:27 AM
Look!!!! There's one now!!!! Hi Harry!!!flowerforyou

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Mon 10/15/07 01:29 AM
hi Leeflowerforyou
We don't have green caeds here in Canada. Come on over whenever you like.drinker

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Mon 10/15/07 01:30 AM
bigsmile That's cause we share a Queen...and are so easy-going, Harry...:wink:

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Mon 10/15/07 01:30 AM
Hint..... if you cant keep the mail flowing because of lack of conversation then she both of you arent giving each other the opening for a response to the email you wrote

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Mon 10/15/07 01:30 AM
laugh laugh laugh
whoever wants to say hi first

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Mon 10/15/07 01:33 AM
I prefer the forums just for the fact that I don't have to worry about all of the e-mail crap. The forums are more fun anyway.

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Mon 10/15/07 01:35 AM
laugh laugh laugh I've mailed some people, and I can hear them running away, screaming from here.bigsmile

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Mon 10/15/07 01:35 AM
The only way to know beyond profiles is to ask Sizematters9. Yes, distance is a factor and knowing if the person is available for dating. I met all sorts of age group and genders. We met for various reasons, some are cheeky, interesting, love their writing, love how their mind tick, inspiring, similar interests and like Jess and I, just love seeing another Aussie on the site.

I haven’t actually gone out of my way to browse, I only click on the profiles of the people I cross paths with on the forum. Maybe later I will do that…for now, a little bit here, a little bit there…lol

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Mon 10/15/07 01:36 AM
Sorry Jesse, I was not implying that kind of intent, I just am saying, I am looking for a soulmate and your not a resonable consideration for dating.

I would thing you were trying to hook up with other aussies

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Mon 10/15/07 01:39 AM
Size, up until two weeks ago, the site wasn't open to internationals....I've been here since March...and there was one other aussie on the site...a galfriend of mine...

We were invited to the site, and vouched for by some other members..so we could access the forums...

I'm not looking for souls, or partners, I have a soul, and don't require a partner....the mates part is about right for me.

And g'day aussie chick!!! Where's me Milo?:wink: drinker

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Mon 10/15/07 01:40 AM
Now, I am curious,I will click on Sizematters9, new victim to add to my e-mailing list hahabigsmile

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Mon 10/15/07 01:44 AM
Too hot for a milo right now Jess ...I think someone pissed off the sun gods because its a hot day here. Pre-summer

Met some awesome people on the forums!

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Mon 10/15/07 01:46 AM
IS that where our hot weather went, Sin, south for the summer?

It's quite cool here tonight...almost need a tshirt...on-shore breezes have cooled things right back down, must be about 22 degrees.grumble bigsmile

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Mon 10/15/07 01:50 AM
Yea, hot and dry here.....I sure missed the seabreeze, the sound and smell of the sea.

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Mon 10/15/07 02:25 AM
yawn

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Mon 10/15/07 02:51 AM
sin u got mail