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Topic: What do you ladies really want ?
Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:01 PM
What I really want is a truthful meaningful relationship with that one special lady I've been celebate for 3 years and it really doesn't bother me that my life is sexless I refuse to give that energy to someone again until it's reciprocated whole heartedly if I'm giving you my mind my body and soul then I expect the same so tired of the mind games ,manipulation and so forth I'm old school old fashioned. When I love I love hard when in a relationship if there is something you want your partner to do you should tell them if the relationship has lost its life do something to bring life back into it seeking outside of the relationship for satisfaction is not the answer so tell me what do you ladies really want?...............prodigalsondc

JohnB86's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:11 PM
You sound frustrated.

This will always be a question without answer.
Be yourself and don't ask yourself what they really want.
Someone will eventually accept you, as you are....

no photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:12 PM
although I'm new to this site, I have been on others with no luck. It's the same with the guys saying they want a relationship but all they really want is some one to talk/text/email dirty sex talk. No one commits to actually meeting in person.And I'm shocked that so many complain they get no hits on their profile but yet they don't respond when I send them a message. If there's no interest just say so. I'm hoping this site will be better but not getting my hopes up.Wishing you luck in your search.

Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:16 PM
its not about acceptance it's a women's intuition to change her mind And they do that a lot

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:19 PM

its not about acceptance it's a women's intuition to change her mind And they do that a lot


The saying is it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind. But all women are individuals so the answer isn't generic

TMommy's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:20 PM
I want a piece of candy bar..or red shoes..or coffee

uh or maybe a new hair do and a pretzel

ya I may need to get back to ya on this one bigsmile

JohnB86's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:24 PM
Well that is one thing you will never change, it depend's what kind of woman you found. I have lived with a girl, everything was ok and one day she tell me that she don't want a commitment and that she has done abortion. She wanted first a family then she has realize that she want to be a famous artist, so marriage and kids would slow her down and she destroyed everything. Imagine how i was feeling that moment.

That is my story and i still didn't loose hope that i will find some girl who share same thoughts like me.
Someone will show up bro, don't worry, you will find a girl who knows what she want's, there are not all the same.

Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:24 PM
I stand corrected you are right it's there perogotive I'm not saying all women are like this from experience I've seen where a woman wasn't getting what she needed from that relationship instead of verbally telling the partner she stepped out

Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:30 PM
My point exactly been through it too bro

Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:40 PM
You don't want much meaningful huh?

Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:41 PM

I want a piece of candy bar..or red shoes..or coffee

uh or maybe a new hair do and a pretzel

ya I may need to get back to ya on this one bigsmile
you don't want much meaningful huh?

TMommy's photo
Mon 08/31/15 08:57 PM
Edited by TMommy on Mon 08/31/15 09:00 PM


I want a piece of candy bar..or red shoes..or coffee

uh or maybe a new hair do and a pretzel

ya I may need to get back to ya on this one bigsmile
you don't want much meaningful huh?
google sense of humor and try to lighten up that is sarcasm

and..if ya had taken the time to actually read my profile instead of just visiting it..ya you would have figured this out already


have fun in mingle land bigsmile

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 08/31/15 09:01 PM
"What do you ladies really want ?"

Weird Al says that girls just want to have lunch. indifferent

Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 09:24 PM



I want a piece of candy bar..or red shoes..or coffee

uh or maybe a new hair do and a pretzel

ya I may need to get back to ya on this one bigsmile
you don't want much meaningful huh?
google sense of humor and try to lighten up that is sarcasm

and..if ya had taken the time to actually read my profile instead of just visiting it..ya you would have figured this out already


have fun in mingle land bigsmile
i did read it after I posted this its all good mine to was sarcasm :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::joy::heart: No love lost I'm going fishing

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 08/31/15 09:38 PM
Honestly and totally no B.S what one woman wants will be different than the other wants.
I know that at times it may seem hopeless but we are human's so we continue to strive to find that other half of ourselves.

I think we all want basically the same things.
Our best friend,
Our playmate,
Our lover,
Our companion that will grow old with us if
we ever decide we will grow old.

I personally have seen so many that are in such a rush not to be alone that they choose someone that they believe will be the one eventually and then ultimately heart ache sets in... Because they aren't and then two people and hopefully not children get hurt.

I say take the time hell 3 years isn't nothing dude try almost a decade.. I needed that time to work on me and what I needed and before I could decide what I wanted and needed in a man I had to figure out just what and who I was.

best wishes to you


Trish I want part of that candybar..

Prodigalsondc's photo
Mon 08/31/15 09:59 PM

Honestly and totally no B.S what one woman wants will be different than the other wants.
I know that at times it may seem hopeless but we are human's so we continue to strive to find that other half of ourselves.

I think we all want basically the same things.
Our best friend,
Our playmate,
Our lover,
Our companion that will grow old with us if
we ever decide we will grow old.

I personally have seen so many that are in such a rush not to be alone that they choose someone that they believe will be the one eventually and then ultimately heart ache sets in... Because they aren't and then two people and hopefully not children get hurt.

I say take the time hell 3 years isn't nothing dude try almost a decade.. I needed that time to work on me and what I needed and before I could decide what I wanted and needed in a man I had to figure out just what and who I was.

best wishes to you


Trish I want part of that candybar..
wow thank you great insight I'm not rushing into anything hell if I never get anymore sex it's alright with me I've had enough to last a lifetime it's ironic that you mentioned children cause in my relationship 2 lil boys are hurting 4&9 I pray everyday for them that God gives them strength and wisdom about our situation again thank you I'm going to continue to work on me

dreamerana's photo
Mon 08/31/15 10:10 PM

"What do you ladies really want ?"

Weird Al says that girls just want to have lunch. indifferent


chocolate, a satisfying nap a massage and then a cold lemonade

Ladywind7's photo
Mon 08/31/15 10:17 PM

What I really want is a truthful meaningful relationship with that one special lady I've been celebate for 3 years and it really doesn't bother me that my life is sexless I refuse to give that energy to someone again until it's reciprocated whole heartedly if I'm giving you my mind my body and soul then I expect the same so tired of the mind games ,manipulation and so forth I'm old school old fashioned. When I love I love hard when in a relationship if there is something you want your partner to do you should tell them if the relationship has lost its life do something to bring life back into it seeking outside of the relationship for satisfaction is not the answer so tell what do you ladies really want?...............prodigalsondc


What women have wanted from the beginning .... Respect, protection, leadership and a man worthy of our respect, who puts his family first and not his own needs and wants.
There is more of course but at the heart of it we all want to belong, be loved and lead productive lives nurturing our old and young in peace.

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 08/31/15 10:19 PM


"What do y

you ladies really want ?"

Weird Al says that girls just want to have lunch. indifferent


chocolate, a satisfying nap a massage and then a cold lemonade
DAng it I thought he was talking spiritual not material

If we are going material I want a hot toddy... My sheets warmed it is cold here tonight blankets turned down
and some dark chocolates please...oops

OP just funning around

4feelings4filled's photo
Mon 08/31/15 11:22 PM
They don't wanna cook
They don't wanna clean....
They don't want to tell you want they want ...there you go..

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