Hey babe .. we were all 18 once. Trust us, we know the frustration and awkwardness.

It'll happen in due time. Just ENJOY life

Blain just be yourself....I can tell your a sweetheart.....and it's better to wait for the right one (doesn't like the badboy)then to get a gal that expects you to act like one.

Joe: I have also known Judy Fade2black for a very long time. And Im sorry sweets but you reap what you sow. And this lady could'nt be mean to anyone unless they deserved it...So I would look hard and deep in the mirror and then if I were you I would publicly apologize to her....Its seems to me knowing Judy like I do, it was you that was mean, and didn't get your way......Try being a lil more subtle with the ladies.......giggle.....heart ya Judy-Roo

good afternon all

why do guys have to be so difficult and stubern

why do gals have to be so difficult and stubborn?
never i mean never make that kind of questions one way.
and never i mean never generalize
not everybody is the same.

people for God's sake, think before talking.

remember this:

"I think, ergo I am."
Shakespeare

i never said women were difficult im just saying how do you find the right love

how old r u?

im 24 why?

good
there is not a definite answer on how to find the right love.
that is something you have to feel with your whole being.
Nevertheless, i would suggest (and this is just my personal opinion) that before allowing your whole being to feel, you should screen that person very good with your brain. Once your brain is sure that the person is right, then let your whole being feel.
And if everything feels good and wonderful.
then i would say it's real love.

ok thats understanable but my comment still is how do you get over youre ex why is it so hard

Can I share something you dude? (Guy who wrote this topic) You are young man. Women around your age go after the asshole guys. But when they get about 25+ they begin to look for a personality. Guess what? That is what you are going to have because you have so much more to say. While everyone was going out and experimenting with drugs, and kill brain cells from excessive drinking, you are going to still be fresh. You will have time to get to know yourself and find what you are best at to highlight for other women when the time is right. Don't worry, I was there once, and now....... I find myself getting noticed more by those very same girls who finally grew tired of being treated like crap and chasing the wrong men. :-D

because u put your whole being into it.
i have no answer on how u can get over it.
for me and just for me, when i feel like that, and not just 0over past and failed relationships, this is just what i do to get over everything.
I just keep moving, I never stop, i try to keep my mind busy with whatever i can find. I don't allow myself the time to think in the things that hurt.
I just keep moving and moving.
After a while when i go back to check, the hurting feeling is gone.
But that is just me.

faustine has a lot of truth in his comment

ok but what if you feel like you were never suppose to love because you always get in the wrong relationships and you just lost something you thought you loved and now all the guys that talk to me want sex

excellent post Random!

u see ondrea
that should be ur main signal
if they just want is sex runaway
now if u give away sex, then u have to look at urself, and answer this question: where are u standing as a person?

i dont give out sex im a simple girl and trying to find the right guy sucks but also trying to get youre ex back at the same time as trying to get over him why does it have to be so difficult dont get me wrong i apperiate you helping with this i dont know where to turn or what to do

Problem with that Random is that by then they have one or two youngins and an ex!!!!

i don't know ur circumstances, but if it were me. I would not try to get my ex back.
I would just try to move on.

exacitly most guys dont want to date women who has kids