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SO WHAT exactly were the problems.......if you dont mind me asking.....
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I see the guys point... but on this one, I'm going with the ladies. Jenn's looking for advice knowing we only see the pieces she's giving to see... The ladies are right on this guys. Way too many red flags for a long distance relationship.
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sooooooooooooo do you want to elaborate?
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Hmmmm...dating for almost a year, and parted ways four times, and you are interested in seeing who else might be out there, while you keep him on the backburner, just in case?
Hello????? Am I nuts??? Did I just read that right??? Walk away, it sounds like you are keeping him as a plan B, from how you've told it here. |
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Just because you have a long history with him does not mean he's "right" for you. Keep the lines of communication open with him, but I think you should take some time to date other people before you decide to devote yourself to him. Good luck!
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sure i can elaborate. he cheated on me and i caught him. his mom dont like or trust me. he has a lot of stress that cant seem to be able to handle right now. we both dont have the money to keep making flights cross country right now. and i am nt saying that i want him as a plan b.
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ok well cheating.........big time red flag!!!!
Next!!! I could not and will not ever be with someone who would cheat on me.......the choice is yours........ But in my eyes, once a cheater, always a cheater!!! Good luck!
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Ok. i have a lot to think about so im going to sleep on it. thanks for all the thoughts. nite everyone.
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He cheated?!? 
Trust is the hardest thing to build and the quickest thing to lose. You know your situation best, but regardless of why you're having problems, I still think it's wise to date more before you commit to anyone. Finish your degree and establish your career first. You'll have plenty of time to establish a relationship after you've done that.
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lose 150 lbs and get literate
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Please I beg you to stay with this guy.
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If you love each other, yes. Relationships are based on friendship and love. But when you go back together is, when you're ready to. You have to decide if what you're learning is really what you want to learn, or if you can continue going to school. With the cost going up, all the time. If it wasn't for that, I'd still going to college.
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