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Topic: Worldwide dating possibilities? Your preferences/limitations
aarvin1985 Joined Mon 08/23/10 Posts: 51	Tue 08/18/15 12:34 AM
Oh, I think American women use their brains & their money... wiser that you think. And with so many people, the 3rd most populated country in the world, most women have a rainbow selection of men, to choose from. Which is surely why many classy, successful American men choose to partner with their more feminine, classy, intelligent, well educated and highly cultured female counterparts from Europe, Russia etc ...

chronicliar75 Joined Sat 07/25/15 Posts: 694	Tue 08/18/15 07:46 PM
oh dear.. must have struck a nerve.. My take: i always admire "stylish and sophisticated'people my definition of classy.. While we always strive to be a better version of ourselves, i have to accept the fact, that even if I will live a hundred and 20, 'stylish' & myself is not a happy combination Sophisticated on the other hand, is something that can be work on, if you put your mind on it.. "Well-educated and highly cultured" a highschool geometry for me.. OUTSIDE MINGLE: First handshake: equiangular triangle tooooo Warm Hugs goodbye: Scalene Triangle 60 degrees to Educational attainment 60 degrees to Respect 60 degrees to My hard-earned money Education, phd's and masterals..is always impressive BUT, I am very particular with MY money.. No matter, how well educated you are and highly cultured, you cant intimidate me if.. I have more - save up 'blood&sweat' hard-earned euros in my savings account Whaaamm..Scalene triangle! Respect would always be in 60 degrees though.. For me they represent the academic world.. The academe.,they deserve respect whoever u are, wherever you are.. INSIDE MINGLE: overrated Highly cultured?- duh..semantics eh? 'more feminine (best part ever)' Matter of tastes,standards & kinks.. too broad a spectrum to discuss.. Since I just made a blunder on another thread, the other day: FALLACY AD HOMINEM, id' rather not push the envelope, while I wanted to be just really myself.. being my 'obnoxious' self.. would be 2 words: ominous and circus I'll concede, I'm more masculine than other men..more masculine than you.. That is why, I joined mingle.. I need 1 good man, more masculine than I am now. Preferably, someone who can bring out the 'more feminine' side ofme.. Compensations of not being 'more feminine': Fun.Food.& chess..metaphors or no metaphors Either "my take" inspires you in a positive or negative way, or makes you shrug.. ...Im just glad it makes your heart pump more blood.. Good for blood circulation.

aarvin1985 Joined Mon 08/23/10 Posts: 51	Wed 08/19/15 01:00 AM Edited by aarvin1985 on Wed 08/19/15 01:06 AM
oh dear.. must have struck a nerve.. Based on the length of opinionated ramblings(R.I.P logic and facts) I was seeing from far (yes I actually stopped after reading a couple of lines deprived from any logic and facts), and time put into writing it , i'm sure that it was "MY" nerves which got stuck. Which again supports the reason of why successful American men choose to partner with their more feminine, classy, intelligent, well educated and highly cultured female counterparts from Europe, Russia etc ... I really can't blame them

SassyEuro2 Joined Wed 04/29/15 Posts: 11102	Wed 08/19/15 01:23 AM Edited by SassyEuro2 on Wed 08/19/15 01:25 AM
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chronicliar75 Joined Sat 07/25/15 Posts: 694	Wed 08/19/15 09:37 PM
oh dear.. must have struck a nerve.. Based on the length of opinionated ramblings(R.I.P logic and facts) I was seeing from far (yes I actually stopped after reading a couple of lines deprived from any logic and facts), and time put into writing it , i'm sure that it was "MY" nerves which got stuck. Which again supports the reason of why successful American men choose to partner with their more feminine, classy, intelligent, well educated and highly cultured female counterparts from Europe, Russia etc ... I really can't blame them Aha! Gotcha.. Is it really hard to admit? that you read the whole post..and dont like the opinions/ramblings? You could just say. I disagree with u.. and say why you disagree:) On a serious note though: Brand is just a perception, and perception will match reality over time. Sometimes it will be ahead, other times it will be behind. But brand is simply a collective impression some have about a product. -Elon Musk You are a man. Your God designed you to be one. Work hard for your own money. Example: A $2000 is a $2000. On a lighter side! Two thousand grand is 2,000 GRAND.. Try harder.. uhm i mean work harder

2bhappy4ever Joined Tue 08/18/15 Posts: 62	Wed 08/19/15 09:48 PM
The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ... Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ? Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like. I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ... The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation. Certainly if she was the one I would travel the globe for her. Still it would be hard to leave family behind for me.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Wed 08/19/15 11:10 PM
oh dear.. must have struck a nerve.. My take: i always admire "stylish and sophisticated'people my definition of classy.. While we always strive to be a better version of ourselves, i have to accept the fact, that even if I will live a hundred and 20, 'stylish' & myself is not a happy combination Sophisticated on the other hand, is something that can be work on, if you put your mind on it.. "Well-educated and highly cultured" a highschool geometry for me.. OUTSIDE MINGLE: First handshake: equiangular triangle tooooo Warm Hugs goodbye: Scalene Triangle 60 degrees to Educational attainment 60 degrees to Respect 60 degrees to My hard-earned money Education, phd's and masterals..is always impressive BUT, I am very particular with MY money.. No matter, how well educated you are and highly cultured, you cant intimidate me if.. I have more - save up 'blood&sweat' hard-earned euros in my savings account Whaaamm..Scalene triangle! Respect would always be in 60 degrees though.. For me they represent the academic world.. The academe.,they deserve respect whoever u are, wherever you are.. INSIDE MINGLE: overrated Highly cultured?- duh..semantics eh? 'more feminine (best part ever)' Matter of tastes,standards & kinks.. too broad a spectrum to discuss.. Since I just made a blunder on another thread, the other day: FALLACY AD HOMINEM, id' rather not push the envelope, while I wanted to be just really myself.. being my 'obnoxious' self.. would be 2 words: ominous and circus I'll concede, I'm more masculine than other men..more masculine than you.. That is why, I joined mingle.. I need 1 good man, more masculine than I am now. Preferably, someone who can bring out the 'more feminine' side ofme.. Compensations of not being 'more feminine': Fun.Food.& chess..metaphors or no metaphors Either "my take" inspires you in a positive or negative way, or makes you shrug.. ...Im just glad it makes your heart pump more blood.. Good for blood circulation. wish there was a round of applause icon.

aarvin1985 Joined Mon 08/23/10 Posts: 51	Thu 08/20/15 01:34 AM
The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ... Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ? Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like. I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ... The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation. Certainly if she was the one I would travel the globe for her. Still it would be hard to leave family behind for me. Many things which are worth it are pretty hard ;)

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Thu 08/20/15 01:51 AM
you can get round trips cheaper than that half that. I've flown to china to have dinner with a woman china was fantastic!!! Google says eastern Europe n Asian make best wives.

June2014 Joined Tue 02/18/14 Posts: 26	Thu 08/20/15 02:57 PM Edited by June2014 on Thu 08/20/15 03:01 PM
Love is like to invest in stocks to some extent, there is a certain risk behavior, if inexperienced, it may still be an extremely risky behavior. Put more risk you want to assume the greater, but the benefits may also follow greater. People demand nothing but two aspects, one material, the second is spiritual. Life, the ultimate pursuit of these two areas can not escape, but some people focus on material terms, and some people focus on the spiritual aspect. Most of the money as a carrier substance ,it needs substances, we have to find ways to make more money, work paychecks, Office of the company business is to make money more money, and invest in stocks seems to be more efficient one way, it is clear that there is considerable risk, but one of the funds you invest the greater the risk you want to assume the greater.If you derive income through, in order to get more revenue, you put the money where it is possible to more and more, we knew some of you may not rational, and the focus of life, or even put all our energy where possible unable to extricate themselves, you will become more and more passive, which has been caught in too deep, it seems impossible to think to withdraw, at least, very difficult. Until one day, like the stock market crash, you will lose all of his life, lose a step confused. Love is spiritual things. Want to get love, of course you have to give love, give love in fact equivalent to an investment, there are likely to invest only income, there is no gain love give love possible. But investment does not mean that there must be a profit and paid a love does not necessarily gain you want to love, at least not be able to gain love and you pay the equivalent of way, of course you will be disappointed and sad. If you do not put in and pay, or pay less, you end up getting nothing or very little. People want to make big money and do not want to take some risks, both want to see the distant beautiful scenery, but also for fear of the storm struck or unwilling involvement. Can there be such a good thing? I believe love is an adventure, love takes courage. Want to give love must be able to withstand this possible risk, it is impossible not to give love gotta love, little pay, you can not get more. Anyway, you are so brave to start LDR!

chronicliar75 Joined Sat 07/25/15 Posts: 694	Thu 08/20/15 08:17 PM
The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ... Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ? Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like. I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ... The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation. Certainly if she was the one I would travel the globe for her. Still it would be hard to leave family behind for me. Take heart Sir. Choose someone who would accept and understand your priorities. If she truly loves you.. then she will meet you halfway and compromise. If I may suggest: It is sensible though, if you would take time to get to know women, nearer your location, more accessible in terms of budget, or women you find, wouldn't be too culture shock with the lifestyle you have. I'm quite positive, there is someone who would be more than willing to meet you halfway, nearer and not across the world, if she really believes in her heart, you are the one for her. Saves pain and time in both parties. She could just be the woman in the same supermarket with you, the one you always feel incredulous, the way she chooses her meat and vegetables..lol All the best:)

aarvin1985 Joined Mon 08/23/10 Posts: 51	Fri 08/21/15 01:53 AM
Love is like to invest in stocks to some extent, there is a certain risk behavior, if inexperienced, it may still be an extremely risky behavior. Put more risk you want to assume the greater, but the benefits may also follow greater. People demand nothing but two aspects, one material, the second is spiritual. Life, the ultimate pursuit of these two areas can not escape, but some people focus on material terms, and some people focus on the spiritual aspect. Most of the money as a carrier substance ,it needs substances, we have to find ways to make more money, work paychecks, Office of the company business is to make money more money, and invest in stocks seems to be more efficient one way, it is clear that there is considerable risk, but one of the funds you invest the greater the risk you want to assume the greater.If you derive income through, in order to get more revenue, you put the money where it is possible to more and more, we knew some of you may not rational, and the focus of life, or even put all our energy where possible unable to extricate themselves, you will become more and more passive, which has been caught in too deep, it seems impossible to think to withdraw, at least, very difficult. Until one day, like the stock market crash, you will lose all of his life, lose a step confused. Love is spiritual things. Want to get love, of course you have to give love, give love in fact equivalent to an investment, there are likely to invest only income, there is no gain love give love possible. But investment does not mean that there must be a profit and paid a love does not necessarily gain you want to love, at least not be able to gain love and you pay the equivalent of way, of course you will be disappointed and sad. If you do not put in and pay, or pay less, you end up getting nothing or very little. People want to make big money and do not want to take some risks, both want to see the distant beautiful scenery, but also for fear of the storm struck or unwilling involvement. Can there be such a good thing? I believe love is an adventure, love takes courage. Want to give love must be able to withstand this possible risk, it is impossible not to give love gotta love, little pay, you can not get more. Anyway, you are so brave to start LDR! This is clearly the most intelligent and wise piece of writing I saw on this site till now! You are spot on, top notch analogy! Wow finally some brains in here!

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Fri 08/21/15 10:00 AM
explore the world if I had it all to do over again I do what I'm doing now. don't be afraid to jump on a plane a meet someone. you get to experience different cultures different ways of life. yeah I want more than coffee at starbucks

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Fri 08/21/15 10:48 AM
would I be willing to fly to other side of the globe...wtf..I ain't even willing to drive to other side of my state

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Fri 08/21/15 11:05 AM
...................And me not even willing to go out of my study room....just stuck up with lappy

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Fri 08/21/15 12:19 PM
strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at. we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Fri 08/21/15 12:24 PM
strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at. we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over. well now you are just being silly

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Fri 08/21/15 12:27 PM
strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at. we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over. have you been to a place its 80 degrees every day all year, have fresh water stream that runs into the sea, food so damn fresh meat is slaughtered daily. medicine grows on trees. people trying to survive life and actually friendly because they depend on each other. I have no clue why Americans think USA is the best place to live. to each their own.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Fri 08/21/15 12:29 PM
strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at. we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over. exactly. im very happy in the uk, and I wouldn't live anywhere else Im looking for a relationship with some more local to me. I don't want long distance, and I CAN afford it, I just don't want it, its not for me.

aarvin1985 Joined Mon 08/23/10 Posts: 51	Sat 08/22/15 05:04 AM
strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at. we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over. have you been to a place its 80 degrees every day all year, have fresh water stream that runs into the sea, food so damn fresh meat is slaughtered daily. medicine grows on trees. people trying to survive life and actually friendly because they depend on each other. I have no clue why Americans think USA is the best place to live. to each their own. Absolutely :) But hey, some people have low standards, some have higher standards :)