The word soul-mate is utter garbage. There is not one special person out there for you. There are many. Just get out there, be yourself and find someone you connect with. If it doesn't work out, don't get depressed and think, "Oh no my soul-mate didn't work out, forever alone I shall be." Instead, move on and look elsewhere. Compromise, grow, learn and eventually you'll find someone that makes you happy. But that happiness isn't some fairy tale just waiting to happen. You need to make it happen. I like your wording " You need to make it happen." |
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The Very First Meeting
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I agree. I've read some stories about disappointments when finally meeting for the first time. It ranges from shallow to really serious reasons. From physical (looks) disappointment to lack of "chemistry" or emotional connection, etc. This can be really painful for both when they've already invested a lot of time together online or if there's already serious emotions involved prior to meeting. It can be hard to suppress feelings while still online, but I feel it's best not to have high expectations. It's going to be a lot easier to accept the other person that way; except if the disappointment is something about dishonesty. That's a good advice! Don't focus on your high hopes or dream visions. Reality is gonna be different anyways. So if you're going to meet someone in person the very first time, should be wise to leave your expectations and visions home .. and start from the blank page .. take it as watching an exciting movie or adventure trip, where you two are starring, but no idea, how it might end .. improvisation combined with a good sense of humour should be in place. Also .. a big and warm smile is always a good icebreaker for starters .. the very first meeting doesn't have to end up with 100% success, but would be nice if it won't leave a bitter taste in your mouth - to both of you. Thank you, Earth Girl! Sometimes it was still too difficult to leave expectations. Even Deep down in my heart, those called "chemistry " may be just an illusion. But still desires for it. >.< |
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Topic:
Choose
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It should be one and the same person. Otherwise it ain't love Yes. I believe it should be both. Be with someone who is a cataclysmal force in your life, someone you want to work out issues with, someone you love just as they are now, someone on whom you don’t put any expectations, someone who makes you happy just because they are. |
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Relationship like every other complicated machinery needs a constant attention, all the parts to be in a good working order, a proper fuel to keep the whole thing up and running and a good lubricant to minimize the mutual friction .. If these conditions are met, there should be no big problem .. Agree, it's true that a relationship cannot survive on its own. It needs the care and nurturing of two people, giving to each other in a way that creates a mutually beneficial connection. Otherwise, it may die. |
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Things that can inspire me, life experience, good company ...
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Topic:
Cover Me
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Bo Bruce performs 'Running Up That Hill' - The Voice UK - Live Show 2 - BBC One
www.youtube.com/watch?v=_5Y8rYDv1jU&sns=em |
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Bo Bruce performs 'Love The Way You Lie (Part II)' - The Voice UK - Live Show 4 - BBC One
http://youtu.be/zW57RXj-26w |
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Topic:
Cover Me
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Bo Bruce - The Hands I Hold (Official Video)
http://vk.com/video-35545431_165647939 |
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Topic:
Cover Me
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Madonna - Like A Prayer (Sticky & Sweet Tour in Buenos Aires)
http://youtu.be/LDCJnnkwYbc Like a Prayer - Madonna - Super Bowl (legendado PT_BR) http://youtu.be/s9p2G9PGbiQ |
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Topic:
Cover Me
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Evanescence - Taking Over Me
http://youtu.be/tPsL4ipQyqA Evanescence - My Immortal live in Billboard Music Awards http://youtu.be/G1tJa7aPUZE |
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Topic:
HAPPINESS IS...
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Happiness is to love and be loved. To live without regret.
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I just now is thinking of changing a job. Hopefully, it will be fine to start for a new chance.
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I like dark shadow 1991 tv series, dracula NBC 2013 season 1 , Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles, reign tv series, etc. but just wonder why always no ending story existed and the season was stopped. So regretful !
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"Bring Me the Night" - Sam Tsui & Kina Grannis
http://youtu.be/5ihOCgdarFg |
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Laura Pausini - In assenza di te (video live)
http://youtu.be/l_rVc1cP67g |
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Yanni Until the last moment http://youtu.be/SrJgWB43oA8 Alex Band - Only One http://youtu.be/xZMIpPqnrzg Bo Bruce - Holding The Light - Bush Hall - Live in London http://youtu.be/61MxvQs0MQk |
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Topic:
Age v/s maturity
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Off course it's true. But I think life experience is even more important than age. Experience can affect a person of maturity.
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Edited by
June2014
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Thu 08/20/15 03:01 PM
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Love is like to invest in stocks to some extent, there is a certain risk behavior, if inexperienced, it may still be an extremely risky behavior. Put more risk you want to assume the greater, but the benefits may also follow greater.
People demand nothing but two aspects, one material, the second is spiritual. Life, the ultimate pursuit of these two areas can not escape, but some people focus on material terms, and some people focus on the spiritual aspect. Most of the money as a carrier substance ,it needs substances, we have to find ways to make more money, work paychecks, Office of the company business is to make money more money, and invest in stocks seems to be more efficient one way, it is clear that there is considerable risk, but one of the funds you invest the greater the risk you want to assume the greater.If you derive income through, in order to get more revenue, you put the money where it is possible to more and more, we knew some of you may not rational, and the focus of life, or even put all our energy where possible unable to extricate themselves, you will become more and more passive, which has been caught in too deep, it seems impossible to think to withdraw, at least, very difficult. Until one day, like the stock market crash, you will lose all of his life, lose a step confused. Love is spiritual things. Want to get love, of course you have to give love, give love in fact equivalent to an investment, there are likely to invest only income, there is no gain love give love possible. But investment does not mean that there must be a profit and paid a love does not necessarily gain you want to love, at least not be able to gain love and you pay the equivalent of way, of course you will be disappointed and sad. If you do not put in and pay, or pay less, you end up getting nothing or very little. People want to make big money and do not want to take some risks, both want to see the distant beautiful scenery, but also for fear of the storm struck or unwilling involvement. Can there be such a good thing? I believe love is an adventure, love takes courage. Want to give love must be able to withstand this possible risk, it is impossible not to give love gotta love, little pay, you can not get more. Anyway, you are so brave to start LDR! |
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Topic:
A cure for cancer..
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For two years ago, i heard that there were another ways to kill cancer. It is about natural type of treatment. But I don't know it really works or not. Have anyone heard about it before?
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it's a short video of the Andromeda Galaxy, when they zoom in and show a small(large) portion of the stars it's made from... the picture itself is over 4 billion pixels http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udAL48P5NJU It was an amazing video. Thanks, mightymoe. It makes me feel human is insignificant and tiny. Universe is divine. Do you believe any life form there? |
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