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Topic: You can't see me
IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 08/09/15 12:10 AM
Basically !!I try not to step on anyones toes ..and do the best of living my own life as I can.... as far as perception how people see me... it matters that my loved ones see me in the best light possible.. although they have seen the darker uglier side of me.. and they are still here.. so I guess that counts for something.... it is like looking into the mirror you see your reflection one way.. but to others perceive you the same way.. oh god I hope so.. or all the years of telling myself I'm so pretty would have just being lies lol ...your very pretty...pretty handsome, pretty funny, pretty smart... Please, don't butter him up. I have seen his ugly side and it's not pretty. I you, anyway, Daddy. Am I a fool? ...wouldn't say buttering up as much as paying him a much earned compliment...when I first got on here he boosted up my self esteem and he had a way of making me smile..probably a good thing I will never live near him...would have broke my heart ...stupid L word would have had him at a dead run for sure...lol...and his admiration of all the pretty ladies and the ladies that adore him...yup..just stick to admiring the veiw... Oh yes. The pesky L word. I told him that months ago. You know what he said to me? "Do you expect me to say it back?" Hahahahaha I know you heart me, Daddy. No need to say anything.

Jo6045 Joined Sun 07/05/15 Posts: 9	Sun 08/09/15 05:32 AM
What difference does it make? I'm not here to please the world. I really don't give a rats *** if ppl like me or not. I'm happy, my kids are happy so that's all that matters

NorCalSwe Joined Sun 03/09/14 Posts: 2438	Sun 08/09/15 09:02 AM
What difference does it make? I'm not here to please the world. I really don't give a rats *** if ppl like me or not. I'm happy, my kids are happy so that's all that matters Ha ha...yes...I finally know what ppl means, People, makes aense. Sorry, I'm old and slow. Glad you realize to be yourself.

Soaur Joined Mon 08/10/15 Posts: 21	Tue 08/11/15 01:22 AM
people close to me see me as distant, possibly dangerous and strange. Sigh

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 08/11/15 02:12 PM
Do you know or ever wonder how other people see you in their eyes? I think it is easy to say we don't care what others think of us. Which I don't believe totally.. I think it is easy to say and hard to do. IF we didn't care what others thought about us totally why would we need the interaction of others.. I do care to a point what others see and think of me. The bigger point is what I see of myself, how I rate and value who I am as a person. What I project and what I believe of who I am and what type of a footprint on this earth? I do believe in doing no harm or as little harm as possible since I believe it is a ripple effect in this world. So if I am causing undue harm to others I would want that brought to my attention if someone doesn't like my drawl then will please don't listen

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Tue 08/11/15 02:17 PM
I do believe in doing no harm or as little harm as possible since I believe it is a ripple effect in this world. So if I am causing undue harm to others I would want that brought to my attention if someone doesn't like my drawl then will please don't listen i believe in that too. No harm to anyone....only love & peace

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Tue 08/11/15 02:20 PM
people close to me see me as distant, possibly dangerous and strange. Sigh i've had people that thought of me that way but they didn't really know & i didn't care anyway

oiyoya Joined Tue 08/11/15 Posts: 2	Tue 08/11/15 02:21 PM
What a beautiful woman with a nice smile keep it up beauty.

oiyoya Joined Tue 08/11/15 Posts: 2	Tue 08/11/15 02:21 PM
What a beautiful woman with a nice smile keep it up beauty.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Tue 08/11/15 02:23 PM
It is important to be helpful to others, genuine, and kind.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 08/11/15 02:26 PM
I do believe in doing no harm or as little harm as possible since I believe it is a ripple effect in this world. So if I am causing undue harm to others I would want that brought to my attention if someone doesn't like my drawl then will please don't listen i believe in that too. No harm to anyone....only love & peace I try to live my life this way... In my profession I have had to make decisions that would hurt families deeply hoping in the long run that it helped reunite of possible... As IAM it has to be genuine if not then it is more harmful than good.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Tue 08/11/15 02:27 PM Edited by unknown_romeo on Tue 08/11/15 02:29 PM
It is important to be helpful to others, genuine, and kind. yes true, & i would be helpful to you in various ways .

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Tue 08/11/15 03:13 PM
It is important to be helpful to others, genuine, and kind. yes true, & i would be helpful to you in various ways . I am sure that you would, sweetheart.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 08/11/15 07:50 PM
People see me how they want, I have no control over that,its more important how I see myself.