Topic: okay all ya regular minglers..
TMommy's photo
Mon 07/13/15 03:19 PM
Edited by TMommy on Mon 07/13/15 03:20 PM
I have empathy ...sometimes
I can be nice...in small amounts



it's not that I have to right all the time..

just that I am pretty sure most of the time
the other person is wrong

no photo
Mon 07/13/15 03:39 PM
Believe me, you'll know when you've been around one. It's a shame that they always want everyone listening to them only. God forbid if you put yourself first. They will try to overtake conversations. If or more like WHEN they hurt your feelings, it's a constant cycle. Hence why I don't talk to a certain someone anymore.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/13/15 03:53 PM
Women aren't narcissists, men are.
Like men aren't borderliners, women are.

An NPD would do great here, as they want attention and thus are great at being social, nice, charming, funny etc. They usually do great with people and groups, as long as they feel comfortable in the setting. That way they feel they have control (over the group, interaction etc.). They're usually good at becoming the nr 1 cool guy real fast. As soon as they feel out of their depth, as in an environment that is really alien to them, or ppl that don't warm to them within a flash, meaning they have no control, they get weird and want to leave (normally they never want to leave and abandon being the centre of everyone's attention). I think they actually get scared then, although they'd never admit it.

Also, there's levels of narcissism. Some should be locked up in an asylum as far as I'm concerned. A menace to society, what they do to women who fall victim to them, is unbelievable. Heartbreaking and gut wrenching.
Others are okayish.

Most got a serious sexual problem. Either they don't want it or they're addicted to it. Overly flirting with every woman is a nice characteristic too.

All in all, online sites are great if you want to get hooked on a narcissist ...

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 07/13/15 03:55 PM
Huh? Both men and women can be narcs. It isn't gender specific.


cajunman1985's photo
Mon 07/13/15 04:04 PM
I am not narcisstic. I care more about others than myself.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/13/15 04:09 PM

Huh? Both men and women can be narcs. It isn't gender specific.



Yes it is.
There are some exceptions to the rules, not many.
Same thing goes for borderline. That is mostly women, hardly ever men.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 07/13/15 04:11 PM


Huh? Both men and women can be narcs. It isn't gender specific.



Yes it is.
There are some exceptions to the rules, not many.
Same thing goes for borderline. That is mostly women, hardly ever men.


There is research and diagnosis of female narcs. Most men don't speak up about the abuse.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 07/13/15 04:13 PM
Sorry TMommy. This is meant to be a fun thread. I will bow out because of triggers. I know narcs from 1st hand experience, research and assisting in support groups. I am still battling ptsd from it

TMommy's photo
Mon 07/13/15 04:18 PM
no worries..threads tend to bend and twist in their own direction

feel free to talk serious about it if you want to flowerforyou

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 07/13/15 04:18 PM
Humm no it seems I got lost in the maze and can't figure how to to get out.....



Rock's photo
Mon 07/13/15 04:41 PM
Being a narcissist, takes more effort than I'm willing to put in.

However, I have decades of training in
Existential A-holeism... errrr...
I mean operations management.

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 07/13/15 06:00 PM
No I'm bored and you guys have a better life than me.
The entertainment has me laughing till I am crying
Sometimes in deep sadness
This is addictive
I am wondering maybe we could make a movie. Lol
Maybe like you have mail with a lot more stories around more people?
Yep our TV is dumb the mentalist is not on.
DEEP down i love my mingle family.

jacktrades's photo
Mon 07/13/15 06:14 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Mon 07/13/15 06:15 PM

if you spend your days and let's be honest..most of your nights on here..

does that make you a narcissist? (jk)


inquiring minds want to know bigsmile



For myself the answer is no. I like to read others thoughts on subjects( I mean I already know my opinions) and some threads make me laugh out loud, I think its fun....Side note to Pinkbunny, I think mingle is a better site because of people like you.flowerforyou

Datwasntme's photo
Mon 07/13/15 06:26 PM

does that make you a narcissist




before I fall in to this trap I need to fall into which definition or manual we are defining Narcissism?:angel: bigsmile flowerforyou



Ok Dang while I was pondering you posted which way you were going.

A true Narcissist nope I don't think so they wouldn't be able to handle the rejection that happens on the internet unless they were delusional also...






Datwasntme's photo
Mon 07/13/15 06:32 PM
came here to look for a life
wall mart still says they are sold out and to come back and ask them again

they are all ways sold out of a life and a brain <shrug>

maybe i will get lucky one of these times

Kindlightheart's photo
Mon 07/13/15 07:55 PM

if you spend your days and let's be honest..most of your nights on here..

does that make you a narcissist? (jk)


inquiring minds want to know bigsmile
...lol...I am a sucker for a narcissist..hmmm...what

TMommy's photo
Mon 07/13/15 07:59 PM

TMommy's photo
Mon 07/13/15 08:03 PM

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 07/13/15 08:04 PM
Love the 1st pic TMommy and the 2nd is sooooo me laugh

TMommy's photo
Mon 07/13/15 08:09 PM

Love the 1st pic TMommy and the 2nd is sooooo me laugh
bigsmile great minds bigsmile