When choosing a partner are you fussy ? would you settle ? As far as flaws go, whats a big no no ?

lies and faithfulness and as i just found out a little while ago don't ignore me for long periods of time when i did nothing wrong : ) ~

we all have are falts and breaking points

I've been there and done that, never again.

She has to rub me the right way.

Not breathing
Probably be a downer

a big no no for me is a show of violence or love of it or love of sadistic movies and rudeness as well, even if some kindness is thrown in it is still a turn off, also nit pickiness griping

lol

Absolutely!

I would settle in a heartbeat for someone I felt was worth settling for.


Cannibalism, naziism, schizophrenia, being deaf blind and mute, having the same genitals as me, being a child, being a pedophile, poor health, poor hygiene, living several thousand miles away, an i.q. under 75, downs syndrome, human arsonist, being a sister, mother, grandma, aunt, or cousin, having cats.

There are just soooooo many more I could go on almost forever.

I couldn't agree more

snoring can't be a snore

IDK, I might settle, what do her boobs look like???

Everyone has quirks. But For me, show stoppers are drug or alcohol abuse.

I settled once.
Never again.

Well, yeah... some things wouldn't work out.
But at least you won't have any arguments. And if you start one, you're sure you're gonna win, lol.
No cleaning up after him, no need to cook for him, he don't whinge or whine.. ALmost the ideal partner I say

Settle? Nah.
It's gotta be right. Doesn't have to be perfect, he doesn't have to be perfect. But it has to be right. If it isn't, I'll stay on me own.

Hell No...
I didn't this time around...
I don't want perfect I want perfect for me.
Settling... I think we all have done that a time or two and regretted it...

After all I've been through, I've come to realize that it isn't actually POSSIBLE to "settle."

"Settling" is an exercise in futility, deception, and victimization of the person you "settle" for.

All such relationships fail, either directly, or overall. Because you never truly love the person you settle for, and you never truly respect yourself for having tried to do so.

You would have regretted settling with Goof.

On a serious note though.....if you settle then you simply make you and that other person miserable. Life is meant to be enjoyed yo.

No, no settling at all. period

Big "No's " are pushiness, lack of hearing (doesn't listen), negative or biased attitude toward women, thinks women are inferior, bossiness, thinks he's always right, has to be "one of the boyz" at the expense of his relationship /w his partner, lack of respect and honesty, misrepresenting his intentions, intentionally teases or provokes to try to start arguments (that is abuse BTW)

seems like a long list but really it's not.....just be kind and genuine. That will eliminate most of the above....and know thyself :)

agreed