I met this girl a while back and to be fair, she did tell me that she was insane but I got involved anyway.

Last time I spoke to her on the phone she just hung up on me and sounded depressed, so I didn't know if that was it or not and spent months thinking about her and trying to make sense of her behaviour by reading up on the personality disorder she said she had been diagnosed with.

Anyway, I met another girl through a mutual friend and was checking out the crazy ex's Facebook from time to time to try to find out what was up with her. She posted a few things about someone that she seemed to be involved with and then officially anounced that she was in a relationship with a woman that happened to have the same first name as the new girl I was seeing. I asked her if she was her girlfriend and she seemed shocked and said no but at one point she told me a story about hitting a swan with her car and the crazy edx had said something about that on Facebook. Then the ex apparently made a fake FB acount with the same first name as the other girl's dog.

The other girl said that she went to see her about it and was told that she had just been doing it to wind me up. A bunch of her friends were in on it, posting congratulatory messages and her aunt even did as well, although the aunt probably didn't know that it was total BS and from her posts seemed to know that the girl is so crazy that she can't make a relationship work and that this fictional one wasn't likely to either.

Now, admittedly I was stalking her on Facebook but I never mistreated her and we always had good times together when we were seeing each other, so I don't think that I did anything to deserve being treated like that.

How exactly did you want to be treated? You're stalking her mate lolll

I'm confused Tawt, Is this now a threesome or did you just get dumped by two women you were dating who ran off together?

U stalked her and now ur complaining cause u got dumped? Im confused

Maybe it's a bit confusing but I never had a proper dumping and I was concerned about her, as well as wanting to know if she had met someone else or whatever. I messaged her twice to wish her a happy birthday and to say that I missed her on Facebook. She must have assumed that I was stalking her and please bear in mind that this is an insane person that might have killed herself for all I knew.

You don't know the half of it. I haven't even said anything here about how she treated me when we were seeing each other and I never hassled her and mostly just let her call me.

She also told me about a long string of ex partners that were hassling her, so it's not just me that she's sucked in and led on and then just dropped through some crazy whim.

And no. I didn't get a threesome out of it.

FB - has this wonderful security option to 'BLOCK' people! It works really well...blocks them - friends of friends from seeing you and any images that you post!
But 'SERIOUSLY DUDE'...you ventured into the danger zone and thought you would be OK? Sounds like you were meant for each other - ODDLY!

I don't even like Facebook and only went on there to find out how a girl that wasn't calling me anymore was. During the "relationship" she wouldn't call me for weeks on end, so it wasn't entirely unreasonable of me to think that it might not be over.

Just because I used the word "stalking" that doesn't mean that I did anything wrong by looking at an ex girlfriend's Facebook page a few times and messaging her a couple of times, without saying anything spiteful or vindictive. I actually wished her all the best.

We all seek closure in our own ways. I think that trolling me like that and leading me on was nasty but the girl is psychotic. Maybe I'm weird but when you care for somebody and they have serious problems and tell you that they don't talk to anybody when they're depressed I thought that it was possible that she might have come to her senses and got in touch with me again, so I was in limbo and having trouble moving on.

She really did totally lead me on and told me that whatever happened that we would always be friends. That last time when she hung up on me I had waited a week, worried out of my mind that she had done something silly because she told me that she had atempted suicide in the past.

I don't think that there's really anything that you can reproach me here for apart from getting involved with a loony tune in the first place but it's not that easy to turn a twenty three year old nympho down when you haven't had a girlfriend for months and the thing with these people is that they can be extremely nice and make you feel great about yourself until something switches in their heads and they start hating you for no good reason.

TAWT!!!!!!....You're back!...And just as brilliant as ever!....

Screw em, neither woman deserves you....

Thanks Leigh.

I haven't seen the other one either for a few weeks now and I'm a bit sad about that because I was seeing her about twice a week for about a year and I did like her and she didn't seem to be nuts, like the other one.

Maybe she's met somebody else. I don't know and she could have been run over by a bus for all I know but nothing that I can do about it really if she won't call me and she's not even on Facebook, as far as I'm aware.

Well honey, look at it this way...You were gettin it twice a week for about a year and that in itself puts you way ahead of most of us around here...WAY ahead!!!

Sure it hurts - it's confusing - it eats away at humans that have a SOUL; and that's the nightmare of those that care --- becoming food for the 'GAMERS/PLAYERS'...they don't care!

Whether it be male or female; they just use and abuse and leave the remains behind and carry on looking for their next victim; predator vs prey! Chalk it up to another experience and just keep moving forward...lesson we learn in this search for love can be hurtful but you have a good just don't keep returning to the scene of the CRIME! OK???

You can say that again.

Have a pint and you will forget all about it.

Your way with words is so endearing Leigh

Graceful as always

Hehe, thankies JoeJoe!!...

Actually, I'm going to stuff my face with cream puffs and a bucket of ice cream.

My ex did Something similar on facebook after she found out i was chatting up her cousin....my ex called me some **** to make her cousin hate me so the cousin came to me with daggers like i did Something to her & my reaction was ''you both crazy biatches should just go f**k yourself''