Oooo man now all I can picture is that dumb Jim Carey movie when he wakes up in morning to go pee and sprays everywhere

Its the same as having a male dog that licks his own b***s. You just shake your head... but you still love that stupid bastard anyway Lol.

If men could do that there wouldn't be a one of us online right now and there wouldn't be no discussion about pram pushin cause there wouldn't be no babies!

lol... doubtful, but always a chance, i suppose...

yellowrose10, you are just now finding this out?

Me, Myself and Irene...

Nah...I posted that to warn the newbies lol

Of course it is.

People adapt to the groups by which they identify themselves and hold important.

You ever hear of people and their pets start looking alike?

You ever hear accountants are boring and only talk about accounting things?

Same thing.

You spend the majority of your time around or doing anything you start adopting traits that facilitate what you're doing.

People are a group species.
The group doesn't really adapt to the individual.
Individuals adapt to groups.
Or they leave and find another group.
A group can be as little as 2 people.

Although the interactions of the individuals define the group, the interactions of all the individuals will have an influence over each other.

So you will also see women taking on traits that could be deemed "masculine."

Give and take, adopt and adapt, compete and cooperate.


They've just learned new rules to what triggers shame.

When?????

I'd pick up jock itch cream for my guy, no problem

It only gets worse. The next thing you know, they start wearing high heels and spending more money than I do on makeup....ugh

it shouldn't be an everyday occurrence, but I think INTENT mattters, I also still think that most women are attracted to alpha male traits, and that they try to find this out even subconsciously even if they don't know it themselves.

Example: New guy in office asks secretary too coffee down the street
Secretary "no thanks but could you bring me....."
New guy "sure...." she just established she's the more dominant of the two

now same scenario different approach,
New Guy: "there's a coffee shop down the street want to join me?"
Secretary: "no, but could you bring me..
."
New guy: "sorry, but when I go for coffee, it's to relax, not to run errands, perhaps another time"

I don't think any woman really is attracted to errand boys.

I think if you allow yourself to become one, you're taking away the qualities that she was initially attracted to,

but doing things 'on occasion' means that it's not expected but appreciated instead,

my opinion is that when it's expected instead of appreciated is when it crosses the line


on a side note, you could always ask her to go to the dirty store, and pick you up a copy of "lesbian lust" and lube..... see if she REALLY wants to do your shopping as well lol

You mean those 80's pornos were all lies?

Chicks don't go crazy for the pizza delivery guy?

scrap plans to go to work at pizza place...


I got an alpha male scenario for you:

Newbie: Hey, you wanna get some coffee at this place down the street?

Sexytary: Sure, why not.

Newbie: Great, bring me back a large. Shouldn't cost you more than a couple of bucks.

Redmist to himself: "Mission accomplished."

That is 'one' perspective, I guess. Another perspective could be: 'Men simply become endowed with a far greater sense of responsibility & togetherness (as a family), once they get married!'