Someone please explain what a mutual match is..

That means they are waiting for you in Vegas! Quick catch a plane!!!!

Supposedly all you profile particulars match the other persons. So they think you should maybe initiate a lil' sumthin.

It is members that come up under your specific search options for you to decide either yes no or maybe (for a match). Then those members are sent your picture and will have the same options if you both choose yes then it is a mutual match, if one is yes and the other maybe then it is a mutual match. If one is yes and the other is no then there is no match made. When you go into your mutual matches and see people there that do not fit into your search criteria, it is because you fit into their criteria and they chose yes for you to be a match so then it is your turn to decide if they are a match for you even though they are outside of your specifics......

Have I totally lost you?

Excellent answer.

FreshMountainAir....do you work for JSH?
Otherwise you must be the single most dedicated poster out there.

LMAO....no I don't php...I have just had to explain it several times in the last couple of days!

FMA, I understand, thanks!

Thank you for all the other responses.

mutual match doesn't work. Maybe it does for four out of five people, but it doesn't for me.

I never get a picture of anyone that says they are interested in meeting me. It just says to go to the Mutual Match and start clicking away with the yes, no or maybe to try and find out who it was that said they were interested. It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack.....but I keep clicking

John, you may be right. My mutal match had an age requirement. I'm a few years too old. Or so he believes.

those specifics seem to me just to include every man in a ten mile radius. this showed me every man i would never want and more. yipee

Cat....any of them that show up and do not meet your search criteria have chosen you as a mutual match.

FMA we need to get you on JSH payroll.

Put my name in w/ the bosses....I could use a side job!! LMAO

I did not know that.

About me being in their search criteria, that is.

I have emails saying that some women wanted to meet me but I am only interested in being friends only. They got mad when I told them that. Why?

I have no idea cool.....maybe if you are only looking for friends then you shouldn't ust the mutual match feature.....

I don't, they just email me

Women are just plain nutty.