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| Topic: What r u thinking about right now?? - part 52 | |
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Thinking how beautiful the bond between a grandparent and grandchild is, and how different from parent - child. I'd never seen that before, not like this. Been to my dad with my girl Tuesday last. And I can't remember when I've seen my dad so incredibly happy! I know he loves me to death as well, but I realize that he can also consult me, share his problems with me. He doesn't often, but sometimes, when he feels no one can understand him but me, he phones me. And I treasure that, a lot! Having seen him with my daughter now ... the difference is, he doesn't, hasn't ever, and won't ever, dump his problems on her. So there's only ... love. How beautiful! Brings tears to my eyes! I had not expected him to be so happy to see her, underestimated how deep that bond runs. Absolutely beautiful, fills my heart with joy. Dang, I'm crying now 
 It is the same with my daughter and my mother ...Watching and listening to them interact is one of my greatest joys...Sounds like you are having a wonderful visit with your daughter Crystal!
Hi Leigh! My girl isn't here now, she went to her dad's Wednesday, was his birthday. Right now she's with her best friend. I think she's going to be back Monday, but not sure. And yes, we had a good time! Managed to see my son as well, which is difficult as he works 6 days a week, and can't get time off as it's the busiest time of the year. Must say it was good to have a few days on my own. My neck has gone completely noodle doodle, too many visits and too many chairs that aren't right for my back etc. If my neck gets like that, my head starts doing funky things too (concentration, coordination probs etc.) My girl doesn't really know that, not at gut level so to speak, as she wasn't living with me anymore when I had the accident that caused it. So when she gets back, I'll have to talk to her about it, as I now feel guilty that if I don't do things with her 24/7, I let her down. Maybe she doesn't feel that way at all, but I think it's good to clear it up between us. On the other hand side, it was really good to notice and feel that she just merges into my life. Yes, talk to her about your accident.....Sometimes I think my daughter knows me better than I know myself and when she "detects" something is not quite right, she is ON IT with questions, concern and advice...Sometimes it's a pain in the azz, but 'secretively' I love that about her!... 
Sounds great, although I can understand you don't always like it, haha. And yes, I will talk to her ... She knows about my accident, but since you don't see anything on the outside ... Same thing as trying to convey the message to doctors, medical advisers and employment experts (expert my bum, wankers!). At some point we will have to talk anyways. We had a big major falling out some 5 years ago, only started healing our relationship after she'd gone to The States. But there's many things you cannot really discuss over Skype. I'll just see how it goes, play it by ear, till the right moment is there :) |
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Thinking how beautiful the bond between a grandparent and grandchild is, and how different from parent - child. I'd never seen that before, not like this. Been to my dad with my girl Tuesday last. And I can't remember when I've seen my dad so incredibly happy! I know he loves me to death as well, but I realize that he can also consult me, share his problems with me. He doesn't often, but sometimes, when he feels no one can understand him but me, he phones me. And I treasure that, a lot! Having seen him with my daughter now ... the difference is, he doesn't, hasn't ever, and won't ever, dump his problems on her. So there's only ... love. How beautiful! Brings tears to my eyes! I had not expected him to be so happy to see her, underestimated how deep that bond runs. Absolutely beautiful, fills my heart with joy. Dang, I'm crying now
It is the same with my daughter and my mother ...Watching and listening to them interact is one of my greatest joys...Sounds like you are having a wonderful visit with your daughter Crystal!
Hi Leigh! My girl isn't here now, she went to her dad's Wednesday, was his birthday. Right now she's with her best friend. I think she's going to be back Monday, but not sure. And yes, we had a good time! Managed to see my son as well, which is difficult as he works 6 days a week, and can't get time off as it's the busiest time of the year. Must say it was good to have a few days on my own. My neck has gone completely noodle doodle, too many visits and too many chairs that aren't right for my back etc. If my neck gets like that, my head starts doing funky things too (concentration, coordination probs etc.) My girl doesn't really know that, not at gut level so to speak, as she wasn't living with me anymore when I had the accident that caused it. So when she gets back, I'll have to talk to her about it, as I now feel guilty that if I don't do things with her 24/7, I let her down. Maybe she doesn't feel that way at all, but I think it's good to clear it up between us. On the other hand side, it was really good to notice and feel that she just merges into my life. Yes, talk to her about your accident.....Sometimes I think my daughter knows me better than I know myself and when she "detects" something is not quite right, she is ON IT with questions, concern and advice...Sometimes it's a pain in the azz, but 'secretively' I love that about her!...
Sounds great, although I can understand you don't always like it, haha. And yes, I will talk to her ... She knows about my accident, but since you don't see anything on the outside ... Same thing as trying to convey the message to doctors, medical advisers and employment experts (expert my bum, wankers!). At some point we will have to talk anyways. We had a big major falling out some 5 years ago, only started healing our relationship after she'd gone to The States. But there's many things you cannot really discuss over Skype. I'll just see how it goes, play it by ear, till the right moment is there :) Last word on the subject 'out here'...I will be hold positive thoughts for you, but just from listening to you I know you will sort through it because it is what you both want...I love your strength Crystal!... 
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Thank you, (((Leigh)))!
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hmmmmmmmmmm
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why is it always the hot chicks that either deactivate or turn out to be scammers????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
     
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my normal
if i had a brain what would i be thinking about : ) |
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Why did it say I was already logged on? I remember logging out. I suppose it saves me the job of logging in next time then.
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Edited by
Redbutterfly098
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Sat 07/11/15 04:52 AM
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my normal if i had a brain what would i be thinking about : ) Where you find her. |
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Why did it say I was already logged on? I remember logging out. I suppose it saves me the job of logging in next time then.
that happens to me every time.
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breakfast in indiana
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Spent the morning watching rescue rangers and had breakfast in bed with my little fellas. This ol rainy day ain't lookin too bad after all.
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why is it always the hot chicks that either deactivate or turn out to be scammers????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
I'm not a scammer. I'm not deactivated.
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((((RCB)))) since she had just posted....
*Scooby giggling*
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Hey Scoob!
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the swing in the back yard
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breakfast in indiana  
thinking that THIS just brightened my day  
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i like my eggs over easy and my bacon crispy
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that sounds yummy.
I was just thinking breakfast is calling me. good morning Eric abd everyone
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ok...now I am thinking about breakfast.......
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Breakfast? I am thinking of lunch at 1 pm
Salad and ham sammie |
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