so the moment has come.. for intimacy.. between you and your new partner... now the question is..
after your done having your way with each other.. .. do you want them to spend the rest of the night with you... or would you prefer they just went back home to their own bed..?..... that is if you're not planning on having.... the morning after the night before sex... .. let's just assume you're not going to do that..
.sooo..

rather they stayed the night.dont like the idea of a hit n run job

Ok change up on scenario ...His bed.. It is an all nighter since the anticipation will have led up to hot monkey sex first. which while great and somewhat satisfying just takes the initial urges off. If he is good then the marathon sex is a must.. after that... well no one is going to have any energy left to think about dressing and leaving..
just saying

Ok.... I suppose I should have said.. do you want them to spend... the rest of the day with you..lol.... but yes so true... you get back to their place 12 o'clock 1 in the morning... you have crazy monkey sex till the Sun comes up...... so... yes do you spend the rest of the day are do you just go home after that.... personally I always go home....
. even if we shower together that morning...... I find I need to go home just to.... be alone and .. think about the evening.... you know say to yourself! wow that was awesome..... then pass out in bed...lol...


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spend the rest of the night, and in the morning get jiggy with it again

yes yes yes... there's something about that slow.. awakening morning..
do over sex...
.. it just seems more intense deeper..mmm... spooning..ohhh..my god.. next to having them wake you up with their lips.... you know where.. ... spooning can't beat it..mmmhmm

i agree, spooning is lovely

difficult question ... we had this one before a few months back.
Normally speaking I would say "YES, he spends the night!"

But yeah... normally speaking is not so normal anymore ... From what I understand, it would be the first time we have sex, meaning I don't know him all that well yet. So I'm thinking he's going home.

I may prefer to talk to him about the issue beforehand ... to explain why this isn't "normally speaking" anymore ... and hope he's loving, understanding and caring enough, so normally speaking becomes my new normal again.

To be honest, I dread the moment of spending the first night together with a new partner ...

i will love to take her in my arms and have a little chat with her.

with a full box of condoms?

If we've just been making love, I think it's only fair that we stay in that bed, until he wants breakfast. I like to be hugged, and I love that feeling of being held.

Once again being a voyeur.

Personal between the couple at hand and no one else's business.

this answer depends on if you are in an actual relationship with someone and feelings are involved and you hope to have a future together

or it's just someone you happen to be sleeping with
my answer? truth? ain't no way in hell I would let a man spend the night sleeping in my bed, in my house.
why? because my son is sleeping in the room next door and this mama don't do that

Didn't you have this topic before, grandpa? Just as well, since I didn't answer the last time. I would tell him I need to get up early for work the next day and to scat!!!

.. believe me after a night with me... you would not even be able to walk straight for a week..lol... let alone going to work the next day...lmao. you youngster you..

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Promises, promises.

I look forward to it...

Ohh.. It's a guarantee.. more than a promise.. you can even say it's more of a money back guarantee...lol

Wow, you really are friendly aren't you!

That's because of the roofies he put in your drink, not the sex!

You know what? It's been so long, and my goals and methods have changed so much, I can't give a certain answer. I sure don't have a strategy linked to it, as some people seem to.

I swear, with some of these questions, and some of the answers, I start to imagine everyone putting each other on some assembly line process, or following some sort of formal business plan.

Really, I imagine I'll make such a decision at the moment it's necessary to make, based on whatever has come as a part of it all.

And I'll no doubt muck it up, one way and another. But that mucking it up is a part of the real charm of life, I think. Perfection is a bit suspect.