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what do you think are acceptable age gaps for people in there 30s ?
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what do you think are acceptable age gaps for people in there 30s ? Well I wouldn't recommend robbing the cradle and get jail time... I personally have dated 20 years younger and 25 older.It depends on the person, their lifestyle, compatibility, and down right sex appeal. |
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Actually I feel it is only for the two involved to find what is acceptable to them. Does not matter what others think not their lives...
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is going too old though detrimental to the relationship though especially when children are involved?
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i like older men, but sort of max 45. one experienced i had with a man of 50, was he was very old fashioned and he acted like my nan and granddad. im not saying all guys aged 50 are like this, but he was.
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is going too old though detrimental to the relationship though especially when children are involved? My first husband was 24 years older than me. Age factor never ever came up we had a wonderful marriage til the day he died... Now I haven't dated anything older than 10 since then. I do believe age is subjective since it is about the person as long as it is legal then if it rocks your world then go for it... |
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I am 46 and would probably only go a few years in either direction but that is just me
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is going too old though detrimental to the relationship though especially when children are involved? My first husband was 24 years older than me. Age factor never ever came up we had a wonderful marriage til the day he died... Now I haven't dated anything older than 10 since then. I do believe age is subjective since it is about the person as long as it is legal then if it rocks your world then go for it... |
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I'm 42 and my missus is 34. Works for us!
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my ex is 27 don't see a big deal long as yer not a perv goin wi teens.has to be a man not a wet wipe.love don't have a colour size or age./if yer adults go for it if it makes u happy
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I am 46 and would probably only go a few years in either direction but that is just me : |
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what do you think are acceptable age gaps for people in there 30s ? I think a 7 yrs difference for anyone is weird. But many people have greater than 7. I would be very curious as to the stats on, how long they last.? Myself I always dated (& my ex husband) within a 2 yr range. Anymore or less, I'm not comfortable with. |
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Men 35 - 49, preferably.
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I am 46 and would probably only go a few years in either direction but that is just me : |
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what do you think are acceptable age gaps for people in there 30s ? I think a 7 yrs difference for anyone is weird. But many people have greater than 7. I would be very curious as to the stats on, how long they last.? Myself I always dated (& my ex husband) within a 2 yr range. Anymore or less, I'm not comfortable with. |
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i like older men, but sort of max 45. one experienced i had with a man of 50, was he was very old fashioned and he acted like my nan and granddad. im not saying all guys aged 50 are like this, but he was. Yea.. they are. |
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i like older men, but sort of max 45. one experienced i had with a man of 50, was he was very old fashioned and he acted like my nan and granddad. im not saying all guys aged 50 are like this, but he was. Yea.. they are. ha ha |
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what do you think are acceptable age gaps for people in there 30s ? I think a 7 yrs difference for anyone is weird. But many people have greater than 7. I would be very curious as to the stats on, how long they last.? Myself I always dated (& my ex husband) within a 2 yr range. Anymore or less, I'm not comfortable with. Both my sisters married men 10-12 years older. One had been married 25 yrs. The other 10 & is a widow. I think they think like you But I couldn't. And I was never attracted to other men. |
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Edited by
mikey5360
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Mon 05/04/15 02:44 PM
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You all know our age gap...hehe..it might be a mingle record.....gulp.....maybe not...*shrug*......hahaha....
but seriously, we meet in the middle I have always been very young thinking and acting...definitely not grandad material.... and Mekay is best described as an old soul....that middle ground would be around...38 to 40...I guess... |
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Whatever legal age differences two (or however many) fully self-aware people are okay with, are acceptable to me.
I suspect I personally could enjoy someone fully matured, any age from about 25 on. I've never met anyone who I can seriously imagine as MATE material that young, theoretically someone might learn enough about themselves and life to be on a par with me by that age. The thing is, maturity is NOT directly linked to age in any way. Some people older than I am, are still emotionally and functionally like five year olds. Selfish, resentful, and still set on the idea that the world owes them a fulfilled fantasy. Some people younger than I am, are farther along than I am, and find ME to be too....something. That someone decides to ask this question with the form "Is it acceptable," begs the question... who is the authority that we are trying to please? |
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