what are you talking about 4 hours ago..lol.. this is my second coffee.. hang on a bit wait 1 2 3 ok fourth cup of coffee today..lol.... but two of them I did not even get a chance to finish them..lol

oh yeah now I'm in my home office.. sitting at my desk..... looking down at a stack of paperwork.... thinking.. how much of this do I really need to get done tonight..lol

Now that sounds like me.. rofl..
I am on the 5th or 6th cuppa and my paperwork is almost done
thank god

yes but are you sitting at your desk naked..lol

okay I'm not really naked.. my pants are just down around my knees

And it is not a big surprise that you have no intetest investing time in those women or chats or relationships...


I can only advise you to be up-front.
if you want a more current photo than her photo that clearly dates from 1984, just ask for one.
If she refuses, drop it.
you are not insecure, why would you put up with an insecure woman?

I wish I could copy and paste you into my bed.

I hope you brought enough popcorn to share with everyone.

oooooo great now my neck hurts from turning my head sideways

thanks a lot OP

IMO it's not.
It's just difficult to get a complete stranger who happens to be a good, honest woman, that you find attractive, to reciprocate that attraction, and want to change her life to include you.


There's this thing called "not on the internet" where most people live where you can go out and meet all sorts of people and they can't post old pictures of themselves.


So are bras, pantyhose, shaving, deodorant, toothpaste and mouthwash, soap, hair dye, etc.
They are all used to manipulate your perceptions of her.

Why don't you go ahead and demand all women stop using those deceptive practices too?

Other than that, photos do more harm than help online.
Photos online build up a false sense of security and attraction at best even though they provide far more information about a person than their profile.

IMO they should only really be used to identify someone when meeting.


1. It doesn't take courage to post a picture online.
2. It's not going to help you to call women deceptive cowards.


If you weren't...would you say anything different?
If not, then it's kind of pointless to say this...because how is any woman going to know if this is true or just another bunch of bs, you're a stranger. People want experience they can couch assertions in to feel secure in their judgments of whether or not these things are true. They want to come up with their own opinions as to how honest, loving, and caring you are. Not just accept your opinion of yourself.


Then go out and meet them.
When you billboard on here you are ultimately saying "look at me, give me attention, I don't want to work, I just want to shout and have you come chase me down!" Or simply "I like to complain when I don't get what I want, when I want it, and it's all those cowardly deceptive women's fault!"

Women don't really do that, or respond positively to that.
At least not the "good, honest, women."

Topics like this always lead to male vs female tension, and the original question almost never gets answered. Seriously, are these contentious posts that pit the sexes against each other really necessary? What do they accomplish other than drawing out the misogynists and misandrists?

No matter how much they deny it, most people thrive on drama.

So GOOD to see you have figured out basic rotating of your picture.

Anything else that makes you stand out as a GOOD man other than you are not the norm?

I'm under your bed.

I'm hiding in your crawlspace.

Exactly. The trolls haven't come out in force yet, but topics like this always draw them out from under their bridges. And it's almost always because "men" do this or "women" do that. Blanket statements cause things to get contentious for no good reason.

Did you mean you or Milo? I may have to reconsider some things now...

Why do I believe you?