okay I know this topic has probably been done to death... so why not beat a dead horse I guess..lol..

. your next partner husband or wife..

. what must haves...

.. are you going to.. insist upon..

. for myself they must like to cook..lol

. not gourmet chef but enjoy and know how to prepare a proper good tasting meal....

.. must know how to keep a house clean... and know that it is their responsibility to keep it that way....lol..

.. I will help out but at the end of the day it's their job...ok..



.. must enjoy sex....ok.. with me..lol

.. not just once or twice a week... but I mean really crave having sex...... basically someone that can match my own appetite....

. must know how to let go and have fun...... without putting some type of restriction on it.... like the saying goes ..you can run the race but you're not allowed to win...noooo... winner winner chicken dinner....


... must like and enjoy being spoiled..
but appreciate it at the same time....


.. someone who can dress up.. Hey look super hot on a night on the town....
. but also does not mind rolling up her sleeves and getting a little dirty...


.. must have good design sense and fashion.. sense.....

. basically knows how to be a woman...

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ok lets have your must haves..ok

.. give it some thought..lol

I DO have a short list, but it seems to keep getting shorter & shorter because it's difficult to find
~Live within 30 miles
~Have TIME for me/us
~Have job and/or settled financially
~WANTS to be in a relationship, not just dating

...that pretty much is it in a nutshell. Anything else, I think can be bargained

oh man this is gonna take some thought...

No.. not what you are willing to bargain on.. what you personally would really really want in your partner... don't be shy don't don't worry be selfish..lol..

Oh, and I forgot one.....IMPORTANT ONE FOR ME....ROMANCE (in other words..thinks about me/us often and lets me know)

Must have sense of humor and goatee. And love dogs. And cook. And wash my car....

A pulse

changed my mind

Must be a good listener, and REALLY listener. Must not smoke. Must make me a priority. Must communicate. Must be my best friend. Must be very affectionate and sexual. Must love to go on road trips. All of this came to me all at once. I can think of more.

Must need, want, desire me without being clingy.

Must be fit and active. I don't like to be with a man with a gut or who doesn't care about how they look physically. What follows with this is fun sexually, I think if you are fit and in shape the sex works too.

Have a good job and be financially responsible.

Enjoy my cooking. lol. I love to bake and cook but I watch my calories because of my size so I end of cooking/baking for coworkers and friends. Can't freeze everything and don't want to.

Must be somewhat neat, I mean not a slob.

Must have a sense of humor, ability to laugh at themselves, able to play, unpretentious, be strong and dominant....

I sound like someone spittin in the wind. lol

Soooo...you're looking for a house maid and cook who looks good in her little maid outfit and is also a Nympho

good luck PhD

I almost had it once before so it is possible..lol.....
. now if she only liked.. extra butter on her popcorn.. perfection..

I need respect, respect and I will say it again respect.
just like Aretha Franklin song Respect.

men don't seem to have this anymore. hmmm
no wonder im still single.

I don't know about that I have tremendous respect for women.. you watch a woman push out a kid.. tremendous amount of respect..lol..

.. you see what having children does to a woman's body... huge amount of respect...

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here's a candidate for you. Tho she looks a little busy ATM she does seem to have all the right tools

ok not my ex is body... she squatted spit them out .. and right back to work... huge huge respect

the proper chromosomes, most everything else is negotiable.

... hang on I have to go get my other phone..lol.
all I see on this phone is blue boxes with a ?..

Yes.. now you're getting the idea..lmao.... you make it sound wrong! for a woman to want to look after her man.. and her castle..
. notice I did not say his castle..lol...

.... I do not expect a woman to slave over me...no.. it's a partnership...
.. but I can cook fairly well.. I don't mind cooking I enjoy it.... but I don't want a woman that almost every time sets the stove on fire...lol.. can do more than boil water..lol


.. I'm not looking for a maid.....

.. I enjoy cleaning the house.. I just don't want to be the only one cleaning the house...lol


.. I enjoy sex... I just don't want to be the only one enjoying sex..lol

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