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A lady friend of mine did something very dumb a few months back. She just came off of a relationship with a man that she had been with for almost a year. She loved him.
But in a fit of stupidity and anger, kicked him out. Turned around three weeks later and married another man that she had been friends with for seven years. Now, She wants back with the man that she kicked out about five months ago. Now, as they say, "Hind site is 20/20." She can't seem to let go of the guy she kicked out. She says she is so sorry for doing what she did to him. But the guy she married will not let her go. He won't because of his religious beliefs. She has told him to his face that she doesn't love him like she does the other. She wants to be with the other.
She told him she wouldn't have sex with him. She doesn't let him touch her. She doesn't even let him kiss her.

But here is the real kicker. She sees the other guy as much as she can. For any reason she can find. She has got caught making out with the other guy. And even told the guy she was married to how close she came to having sex with the other guy. She wanted to really bad. The guy she married, She does anything she can think of to try to run him off.
She's mean to him in all forms and fashions.
She has told him to his face that she thinks he is weak. And he still will not leave.
He knows that she doesn't really love him the right way. He knows her heart really belongs to the other guy. So far, with the other guy, she hasn't had sex with him. But with the
guy she married not willing to let her go, It's only a matter of time till she cheats all the way. Why would a man take this crap?".
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And then his 2nd update - Blah - Blah - blah - blah...more crazy blather...until we get this latest update >>>
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3rd post about these quirky humans >>>

Here is another thing I don't get, He can't. It doesn't work anymore. She is 44. He is 57. What she saw in him is beyond me. He has a really bad back from a car wreck several years ago. He takes 9!! different pills a day just to keep the pain down. With him taking so much pain medicine, well, it's not only the pain that stays down. In the state that we live in getting an annulment is almost impossible. Our state just really doesn't recognize annulment.

I'm wondering if a mental problem is rearing its head? The guy she was with, he's 52. And if it wasn't for me knowing her and him I wouldn't know this, but everything works. He doesn't look 52. The guy she dumped him for, Looks like "Biker Santa" I just don't get it. To me, when they are together, They look like "before and after."
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WOW, It just gets worse. The guy that got booted called me today. Up until today he has been pretty quiet. He said he needed someone to talk to. And since he thought I was neutral, he could talk to me. She called him today while hubby was out and gone. He said that at first he thought she was joking. He found out she wasn't.

She wanted to talk to him about Polygamy. She was dead serious. She told him that he gave her the things that the man she married didn't. And we are not talking just sex here. He said that she told him that the guy she married knew nothing about "emotional intimacy" and that he(the guy she booted) gave her that very well. And she missed it.

She missed having someone that paid attention to her. Listened, Cuddled her and was just an all-around good friend. And, gave her what she wanted in bed to boot. My jaw hit the floor. The guy that I'm talking about, He is a good man. He told her to kiss his *** and go jump in the lake. He told me that she did her best to talk him into it. He wasn't having it.

The thing that I don't get, If you do something stupid like she did, that's bad enough. But when you stay with the man, and he gives you nothing, He can't sex you and he knows nothing about intimacy of any kind and you don't really love him, Why stay? Why try to talk the guy you say you truly love into Polygamy? This has got to be the craziest, wildest story I have ever had the displeasure of whitnessing unfold.

kissablekiss
Thank you lol dying to know what's going to happen next :D

Thank you lol dying to know what's going to happen next :D

Charles1962150 stated >>>
I'm friends with all three of these people. I've really known the two guys longer than the woman. We've all double dated together many times. Just hanging out and being friends. Till about a year ago when this other woman came into the picture. She seemed nice enough. We all liked her. It just really floored me when I found out how nutty she really is.

I've told both of the guys that I want no part of this anymore. I told the lady in the center of all this drama that I don't want to be in the middle of this because I fear someone will get hurt in the end. I don't want to know anything about it. But it seems I'm gonna get drawn into this crap anyway.

I find out today that she has turned into little miss stalker. The guy she booted, booted her back when she tried to talk him into a Polygamist threesome. She ain't having it. So now she is passing by his house, calling his phone and begging him to consider her proposal.

I thank God this isn't me. At one time, before she started dating the guy she booted, I considered dating her. It's kinda like passing a car wreck on the highway and thinking, "That could have been me." And then thanking God it wasn't. I thank God it isn't me in the booted ones place or the man she married place. I would have lost my temper already.

Somebody would have been sent up the road. QUICK!!

Charles1962150
Well, Here we go with another installment of as "The crazy woman does"

Now, She wants the guy she booted, The one that she says she loves the most, to be her friend. She wants him to go backwards from what they are, to what they were. You see, Like any other good romance, they started out as friends. He fell in love with her. He had never had a woman to treat him so good. For a solid year almost, to him, it was like heaven on earth. He thought his prayers had finally been answered.

He has spent his life with one crazy,nutty, hard to get along with woman after the other. He was so happy for that year. He thought he had found home with her.
Well, Now after getting booted for no real reason, he finds out that the woman's daughter (22) that had never had a decent daddy all her life. The daughter that he loved like she was his own, actually didn't like him. Even after doing whatever he could to help her any way he could. It really hurt his feelings.
He also found out that her husband didn't like him. Even after putting up with all kinds of drama from them.

Now, They bad mouth him behind his back. And to add insult to injury, The woman that booted him, wants him to be friends with her. She wants him to give her the same support that he gave her while they were together that year. She still complains that she doesn't get it anymore from the man she married.

Now she just refuses to let him go and leave him alone. I fear this is going to get ugly before long if she doesn't leave him be. He told me today that he has asked her several times to go away and leave him alone.

He said she told him that she is addicted to him. He said she told him that, short of leaving the man she married, She would do almost anything to keep him around. This shyt is getting deep.

Yep.. this ***** is toast.

He is going to have have to go in the witness protection program or whack her .

All joking aside, Charles...you desperately need to rid yourself of this situation!
Not only is this got the marks of potential domestic violence in the future {something you've alluded to already by one set of couples} but often the violence will take an innocent friend/bystander/police officer along with them. Oh, I've poked fun at you and the entertainment value has been enjoyed by quite a few here as well --- but none of us want you hurt in any way; please avoid contact with these humans --- we can end this without our 'Need To Know' --- SERIOUSLY! {{HUGS}}

Thank you for the concern. But believe me, I'm out of it. I'm staying away from them until all of this blows over. For some reason, all three seem to want to call or text me and talk to me about it. I'm trying to be the impartial friend here. I don't agree or disagree with anything either one says. I stay neutral. I say nothing about anything to either one. I don't go telling what the other said to either one. I've told all three, DON'T BRING YOUR DRAMA TO MY HOUSE! Talking to me about it is one thing. Bringing it to my house is another.