Topic: Why would a man take this type of crap
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Thu 04/16/15 06:50 AM
Since this guy says he is her friend,
but not involved in the drama directly,
he says she normally does not act like this,
and the story makes no sense,

so, it is safe to say he probably has no idea what's going on so no I can't judge her.

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Fri 04/17/15 05:52 PM
I think you already know the answer here.

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Fri 04/17/15 06:03 PM
Any woman who has ever rejected me...

Never gets a second chance. shades

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Fri 04/17/15 06:25 PM

OP your lady friend is a S l u t


Quoted for troof!

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Fri 04/17/15 06:39 PM
She is psycho and you know way too much...whoa

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Fri 04/17/15 06:48 PM

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Fri 04/17/15 10:23 PM




I got a laugh out of that one. LOL

But seriously, I think you're right. She isn't a slut. But she is nuts.

UPDATE!!

I found out today that even though she doesn't love the guy she married, and he knows she doesn't love him, and he knows that she loves and would be happier with the guy she dumped, She is going to stay with the man she married. She says because "God" wants her too. She also read me a letter that the guy she married wrote her. Pretty much letting her go. She doesn't seem to realize that she is really setting the guy she married up for more hurt. I told her that she was asking to get her brains beat out when this guy finally reaches his stopping point. Didn't seem to faze her.

I've known this woman for over a year. In that year, she seemed to be one of the smartest and most level-headed woman I ever had the pleasure of knowing. It's amazing to me how a person can seem so level-headed, and then just go nuts. Practically overnight. You find out this person is not who you thought they were. The guy she was with is still devastated. It really blew him down. He is still in disbelief. And me, I don't know what to think. All I know, She lost a man that she says she loves better than anyone. She also lost a friend. Me.

I don't want any part of it. This is gonna go BOOM eventually. I don't want to be in it or around it.

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Fri 04/17/15 11:54 PM
I feel like we are not getting the full story.

Why do you call yourself a friend? You talk about her getting her brains beat and that you are no longer her friend. What kind of people is this woman surrounded by? I don't believe any of the 3 men mentioned in her life are good for her. Maybe you all made her go crazy.

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Fri 04/17/15 11:58 PM

why are you asking this question. shouldn't you be asking why she would do this to the two of them? it's almost as if you are defending her...

the guy that married her thought he was entering a MARRIAGE, you know the thing that we are supposed to take a bit more serious? it's obvious to me that she doesn't, so she gets what she deserves, in the end. which should be left alone by both of these fools.

(if trouble comes knocking, we can't be surprised if it enters when we open the door.)


It's not like he is defending her at all. Read the title. This guy is not her friend at all.

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Sat 04/18/15 12:08 AM
Edited by Charles1962150 on Sat 04/18/15 12:11 AM

I feel like we are not getting the full story.

Why do you call yourself a friend? You talk about her getting her brains beat and that you are no longer her friend. What kind of people is this woman surrounded by? I don't believe any of the 3 men mentioned in her life are good for her. Maybe you all made her go crazy.


I've never been nothing but a friend to her. The guy she booted was good to her. She says that herself. She told me out of her own mouth today that she still loved him. And that she didn't love the other. She also told me that the guy she married knows she doesn't love him.(Another thing I can't figure out what makes a man take this crap?) But she still wants to stay with him and try to be a wife to him. Even though, he has threatened her several times. I don't know about what exactly. I think it's because she keeps calling and texting the guy she booted. All I know is, I'm getting drawn into a lot of drama. This kind of drama gets people hurt. That's why I feel like it's time for me to get out of it before I get drawn into it any deeper.

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Sat 04/18/15 12:11 AM
I guess the problem then is she is mentally disturbed by religion.

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Sat 04/18/15 12:14 AM

I guess the problem then is she is mentally disturbed by religion.


I don't know. All I do know is there is some kind of mental problem here that she kept well hidden for almost a year.

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Sat 04/18/15 01:03 PM
Maybe something else is going on but only she knows. It was a string of events that lead her to this. It would be interesting if you could give us more details, this is so mysterious sounding.

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Sat 04/18/15 01:45 PM
Edited by 2OLD2MESSAROUND on Sat 04/18/15 01:46 PM
StikaRains Stated >>>
I think this really messed up.
A if she wanted to cut bait and be free, this isn't the 1700's women can make choices of who they want to be with.

B. If and I have to say If this is all on the up and up.. the dude that she wants now should thank his lucky stars He isn't the one married to her.

All I can say to him is run...forest.... run..


LOOKS LIKE 2 OF US HAD THIS PEGGED SPOT ON~~~~

Charles1962150 stated >>> FROM YOUR 2nd post back there>>>
To tell the truth, I've known her for a good while. She has always been very sensible and level-headed. As a matter of fact, a very smart woman. This just came out of the blue. She has never done anything like this before.


Hmmm...Charles, dear man; if what you stated back there you've just modified to ---
I've known this woman for over a year. In that year, she seemed to be one of the smartest and most level-headed woman I ever had the pleasure of knowing. It's amazing to me how a person can seem so level-headed, and then just go nuts. Practically overnight. You find out this person is not who you thought they were.


She's a PLAYER and You've been PLAYED!

GOOD GRIEF MAN --- she's played you like a stringed violin and not very well either! GEEZE...as I mentioned; you do not want to end up subpoenaed to court to testify for either side as a witness "RUN FOREST --- RUN"

Block that phone # - avoid all contact and let those crazies work it out; this is not your circus!

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Sat 04/18/15 01:46 PM


I guess the problem then is she is mentally disturbed by religion.


I don't know. All I do know is there is some kind of mental problem here that she kept well hidden for almost a year.
Now in all seriousness could there by something wrong with her organically. I am being serious if you have known her and you two are close and you see such a drastic change.. I think for me I would ask myself if there were any other startling changes that could lead me to believe she needs a complete physical... IMO

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Sat 04/18/15 01:59 PM

I feel like we are not getting the full story.

Why do you call yourself a friend? You talk about her getting her brains beat and that you are no longer her friend. What kind of people is this woman surrounded by? I don't believe any of the 3 men mentioned in her life are good for her. Maybe you all made her go crazy.


Maybe it isn't the men. She is the common factor whoa

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Sat 04/18/15 02:01 PM

I guess the problem then is she is mentally disturbed by religion.


Maybe I missed it, but where did the OP mention religion? Are we onto religion bashing this time?

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Sat 04/18/15 02:06 PM
No one is bashing religion. Calm down. I did read that she decided to stay married to someone she doesn't love because of God. So, yeah you did miss something.

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Sat 04/18/15 02:08 PM


I guess the problem then is she is mentally disturbed by religion.
yellowrose10

Maybe I missed it, but where did the OP mention religion? Are we onto religion bashing this time?


OOOPSIE...you missed Charles latest update >>>

Charles1962150 Sat 04/18/15 12:23 AM
I got a laugh out of that one. LOL

But seriously, I think you're right. She isn't a slut. But she is nuts.

UPDATE!!

I found out today that even though she doesn't love the guy she married, and he knows she doesn't love him, and he knows that she loves and would be happier with the guy she dumped, She is going to stay with the man she married. She says because "God" wants her too. She also read me a letter that the guy she married wrote her. Pretty much letting her go. She doesn't seem to realize that she is really setting the guy she married up for more hurt. I told her that she was asking to get her brains beat out when this guy finally reaches his stopping point. Didn't seem to faze her.

I've known this woman for over a year. In that year, she seemed to be one of the smartest and most level-headed woman I ever had the pleasure of knowing. It's amazing to me how a person can seem so level-headed, and then just go nuts. Practically overnight. You find out this person is not who you thought they were. The guy she was with is still devastated. It really blew him down. He is still in disbelief. And me, I don't know what to think. All I know, She lost a man that she says she loves better than anyone. She also lost a friend. Me.

I don't want any part of it. This is gonna go BOOM eventually. I don't want to be in it or around it.


SEE...CRA - CRA - CRAZY R US are all going to stay together and play happy family! Because 'GOD' told her to! Good Grief!

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Sat 04/18/15 02:10 PM


I feel like we are not getting the full story.

Why do you call yourself a friend? You talk about her getting her brains beat and that you are no longer her friend. What kind of people is this woman surrounded by? I don't believe any of the 3 men mentioned in her life are good for her. Maybe you all made her go crazy.


Maybe it isn't the men. She is the common factor whoa


We don't know "She" and maybe neither does this friend..the story makes no sense. He says "why would a man put up with this?" as if he is defending the man, not his friend. Maybe she is lying to him to get him out of her business and she really does love the man she married. We don't know and what this man says is not enough to go on.