Topic: Why are men and women so incompatible? | |
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Edited by
Estelle79
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Mon 04/13/15 03:23 PM
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Most men and women relationships are very difficult to prolong. If children do best with a mom and a dad why do so many relationship fail and fail the kids? Are the incompatibilities due to nature or nurture?
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Most men and women relationships are very difficult to prolong. If children do best with a mom and a dad why do so many relationship fail and fail the kids? Are the incompatibilities due to nature or nurture? i guess some could be "natures" fault... but i blame a general unhappiness that permeates the air of most developed nations, and the abnormal amount of sex people confuse with love... |
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Edited by
TMommy
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Mon 04/13/15 03:29 PM
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are we biological different or have we been socialized into these gender roles?
do you mean incompatible because of differing communication styles? why is it more people divorce nowadays then they used to do and whatever happened to til death do us part? Is it due to the ease of the no fault divorce? is it do to the fast paced world we live and and a need for instant gratification.. |
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selfishness
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selfishness i'm not selfish... and don't touch my stuff! |
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selfishness i'm not selfish... and don't touch my stuff! that's a new spin on "I don't share." ![]() |
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selfishness i'm not selfish... and don't touch my stuff! that's a new spin on "I don't share." ![]() a selfish subcategory... ![]() |
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i have to side with nurture being at fault in this day and age
in my eyes the problem has become the desire or the prevalence of instant gratification. no one seem to want to take the time before jumping in the deep end. add to that the attitude that if it is too hard or we change our minds we will just undo it. it use to be people did not marry with out being totally on board with til death do us part. so courtships and engagements were things that lasted years. today i met him onl;ine last month and we are getting married in the fall. |
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i think it's because...women are like cats, and men are like dogs...jmo
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Hmm.. I always thought we fit together quite nicely...
... even if you turn each other up side down... still a good fit... WHAT.. IT'S TRUE..LMAO |
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i think it's because...women are like cats, and men are like dogs...jmo ![]() |
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Hmm.. I always thought we fit together quite nicely... ... even if you turn each other up side down... still a good fit... WHAT.. IT'S TRUE..LMAO Is that the only way men and women are compatible anymore? |
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well it is one of the funniest ways..
.. not the only way but the funnest..lol |
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When I was younger i used to think when your with a guy you do everything thing around him.
As i got older I learnt that it doesnt have to be that way. I think its good to have some time apart to do what you enjoy with you girl or boy mates. For me I don't think it selfish I think its allowing that person to be who they are. These are my thoughts. Ladies do you really want your guy around when you talking girl stuff? Guys do you really want to be around to listen? |
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Edited by
Estelle79
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Mon 04/13/15 03:49 PM
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PhD,
But that way naturally makes babies that need mom and dad for about 2 decades at least. |
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PhD, But that way naturally makes babies that need mom and dad for about 2 decades at least. ugh... |
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1 word ...vasectomy..
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When I was younger i used to think when your with a guy you do everything thing around him. As i got older I learnt that it doesnt have to be that way. I think its good to have some time apart to do what you enjoy with you girl or boy mates. For me I don't think it selfish I think its allowing that person to be who they are. These are my thoughts. Ladies do you really want your guy around when you talking girl stuff? Guys do you really want to be around to listen? Well, men and women can be different, but there are women who talk about more interesting things, and there are men who can't hold a decent conversation. |
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You 2 guys above reread my question..children do exist, we all used to be children remember? Also remember, children are almost always made through sex between a man and a woman. Children do take prolonged amounts of time to be grown, this is why my question about the compatibility of men and women baffles me. If children are made by man and woman, and they really do best having mom and dad together, why can't mom and dad love each other?
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When I was younger i used to think when your with a guy you do everything thing around him. As i got older I learnt that it doesnt have to be that way. I think its good to have some time apart to do what you enjoy with you girl or boy mates. For me I don't think it selfish I think its allowing that person to be who they are. These are my thoughts. Ladies do you really want your guy around when you talking girl stuff? Guys do you really want to be around to listen? Well, men and women can be different, but there are women who talk about more interesting things, and there are men who can't hold a decent conversation. Lol oh how true you are ![]() |
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