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Edited by
Biscuit85
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Fri 04/10/15 02:59 PM
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I would never send money to anyone. The plan was to go see him this summer, but he pushed twice with ideas and twice I resisted (pat on the back?) Now I guess, as one of my friedly minglers said is that he not only was trying to get me involved in money, but was also playing psychological "warfare" and in a way I want to retaliate. Even though I am a caring guy, I feel that this guy stole from me. And I know an eye for an eye is not the right thing to do, but I am angry. How do you just say goodbye to someone like this after you have shared so much with the person.... your personal thoughts fears and experiences. Best thing to do is block them so you dont ever have any more contact with them. Such people dont deserve to be a part of your life or anybody else's for that matter. |
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Edited by
WonderWoman48
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Fri 04/10/15 03:04 PM
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It's a Voodoo Magic Spell that they put on their victim's.
Google SAKAWA IN GHANA. |
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It's easy, report him, block him, delete him and if you feel like you have to have the last say, just say "outtahere" or "Amf". This person never cared.
Then just move on! |
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Edited by
Cracker813
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Sun 04/12/15 12:46 PM
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I did the Western Union thing with a lady. All I got for two hundred was more sad stories and a very important lesson. Ironically it seems that all the scammers that I have met usually use the same pattern. I would not advise you to send anything, and when you first meet your potential love. I would do it in a Police Station in front of the Police camera. Neat thing about Mingle is that you can communicate by the message board until the time is right. If you do no want people from overseas or even across the country message you all you have to do is set your email filters. It is pretty easy, I think that if you Google it you can find out. If you go to the 30 and under category you can read my post "how to keep old guys from contacting you". I have successfully have used the filters to keep men from contacting me. Just not into that scene (no offense). Good luck!!!
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Edited by
SitkaRains
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Sun 04/12/15 01:26 PM
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but I am angry. How do you just say goodbye to someone like this after you have shared so much with the person.... your personal thoughts fears and experiences
Well now to be honest you are angry at him for not being what you wanted him to be right? You are also angry at yourself because you didn't listen to your gut. Which both are perfectly normal to be. The one thing I can say about sharing with someone, you have to go with our gut. For example in the professional world I have so many filters up that I am considered stilted. In my inner personal world I have no filters because if I did then I wouldn't be me. IMO... Just be a bit wiser who you allow to come into your inner world. Let it go slowly or naturally... How do I let go I get busy, when I am letting go of something or analyzing it I deep clean my house right down the polishing baseboards. Pick out a new quilt pattern to do anything to let the energy of pain, anger expel. I do wish you well and I do hope you find that special person you're looking for. Best wishes |
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Follow your instincts ,not your wants & desires.
If something feels wrong, then it is wrong for YOU. If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. |
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