Hmmm.... I don't have bad dates.
.. I've met women I have no interest in.. but I always.. give them a good evening.. regardless... just no second date.... and I have heard.. a lot of storys from a lot of women..
about the bad dates they have been on.... and I am always.. saddened to hear how my fellow brothers behave..

.... I just cannot.. believe.. the stuff.
. they try to get away with..
.... like Tmommy's story...
I have heard similar stories from other women.... men pressuring women. into sexual acts on the first date...omg......


. I never pressure women...
. although I have had some women try to pressure me... into. performing.
such acts on them..... so I guess it's not just men... who behave poorly on first dates...

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Yeah, but that's your own fault ... If you wear tight T-shirts that hug your chest and shoulders ... and tight jeans that are ... revealing ...

that would be last fall. met her on the other site. we did the meet and greet no problem. asked her to one of the local town fairs and she said yes. we were having a wonderful time right up until she said oh you really did mean a date

what does what I'm wearing have to do with anything...hmmm..lol

. I like to dress comfortably...
... women wear tight fitting clothing all the time.. are you saying we should grab at them because they do....

.... ok just because it looks like my clothes are painted on my body...
.. that does not give a person ...
. a woman.... the right to put her hand on my crotch... well we're sitting at the restaurant table..... trying to rub one out of me...... are asked me to stand up at the side of the table..
so she can.. feel how firm my assets are..lol... and followed that up with a nice slap on my behind.....

.. are push her nose up to my neck..
saying she just wants to smell how good I smell... and then bite my neck..

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Nope, but women often get told it's their own fault for wearing particular clothes or behaving a certain way... * remember "the Accused"? *



If I'd get to do all that ...I may yet develop a liking for a submissive man ...
Best book a table in a secluded corner of a somewhat dark restaurant ...

if I did that.. Booked a table in a dark corner somewhere... you would want.
. to have me take you right there on the table.... turn around and straddle me in the booth....

Noooo.. I have fallen for that trick once before... ok three or four times before....

Take me or be taken? Make up your mind, cowboy... You may swing both ways ... I don't

I am still not going on date...

Well, there was this one guy.... wanted to call me mommy and talk baby talk to me

Hilarious... I've been out of the dating scene. For a bit but is it really this dog eat dog type of an affair?

lol, when's the last time you dated.

I'm doing this after 30 years of marriage, it's a whole new ball game now capn'

I've been doing this 4 years now, 3 relationships and counting, and I don't regret any of them, but this last one's gotta be just that, the last one

25. Years. Married... 3 years divorce settlement finalized all said and done 28 years.. I have no clue what to expect.

will you be my mommy? lol

ok, here it goes, this is my worst date and I'm glad it happened early in my life. I was 17, she was 14. She told her parents she was going to stay at a friends house and I picked her up in my Volkswagen. On my way to pick her up I had a porche challenge me to a race. I had an 83 ml bore kit in the bug and it moved. I took the challenge and shifted into second to hard and got it stuck. The whole night we drove to get out in the desert and spend the night together............in 2nd gear. It was my first time but she was already sleeping with a Marine. It was a disastrous night and neither of us even got off and we drove back that morning.......in 2nd gear. I don't think we said 2 words the whole way back.

You can't rape the willing .

The only problem. I see here.. Is I she is so willing in such a early stage then how important is the giving up the goods. If you take away the value of intimacy that it should represent in a relationship what do you have left and how easy will it turn on you to someone else?

I know I have told this before but it helps to share with the newbies. I was talking to this fella from another site. He asked me to dinner at a place halfway between whee we lived. Once I got there he did not like the place. Said it was too dead. So we drove separately around the corner to another "family type" restaurant. We were seated right away. After the waitress took our order we chatted about our family,siblings, and the
Like. Moms,dads,grangrandparents and kids of all ages sat around us. As the waitress approached he leaned across the table and asked ,"what would you do if I crawled under the table and licked your c1!t?". I did not answer. I just got up and left the restaurant. I heard him laugh as I walked out.

Wow... Are there really guy out there like that, I feel for you justme659.. There are things out there know one should be subjected to.

Then there was the guy I meet at MickeyDs for coffee. He did not get anything to eat or drink. So when I was done with my coffee,I got up and he walked me to my car and proceded to put his hand on my chest. I had to jam my knee in the jewel vault to get loose.

Or, how about the fella that asked me to dinner. We were to both drive an hour to meet at the restaurant. I talked to him on the phone 10 minutes before I got there. He said he was just pulling into the parking lot he will get us a table. When I got there he was not there. Never was.

I could go on,there are lots more like that.

Yes there are people out there like that and worse. Thank goodness I am made of tougher stuff.