I have fallen in love with a wonderful and beautiful woman and she tells me she loves me so much and wants to marry me she's a little older and lovely dovely stuff but gorgeous woman but I don't know how to tell if she truly loves me? I been hurt and used and cheated on before and afraid she might just be saying it and probably don't mean it like that last woman I was with...

Humm is this about the same one you asked if she was real?

Only time will tell. Good things and bad things come in time. Don't rush into anything. I have been hurt too and I am being lied to now by my husband so my biggest advice is do not rush into anything. If she loves you she will wait until you are comfortable.

Ask yourself these questions.

Can we fight well, do we have great make up sex??? LOL
Do we communicate well,
Do we play well
Does she stay in my mind when I am working.
Is there stupid mundane things I want to share with her.
Has she given you a reason not to believe her. if not that would drive me crazy if someone doubted what I had to say

Then has it been 6 or more months if not then it is lust.
just kidding

It comes down to that a person has to let the past go and live for the future we all have been hurt if we have dared to live. Personally if I told someone that I loved them and they told me they couldn't believe that because of the past. I would sadly shake my head and tell them to get their back yard cleaned out and look me up.

you don't know if someone loves you?

words mean nothing, actions will show you...

rains what about 6 houra?

That will get a mmm... possibilities

What? No Wesley and Buttercup?

Don't those commercials tell you to contact a doctor if it lasts more than 4 hours?

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