Topic: How real are you?
Dodo_David's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:05 PM
Edited by Dodo_David on Tue 03/17/15 02:38 PM
if they have a rule that you need to be in a pic then all the avatars etc should also be deleted . If there is a rule it should apply to all not just selected profiles.


I agree with Blondey. That is why I have removed all of my pics from my profile.
Now, I will post my pic from another source, such as ...



That way everyone can still bask in the glow of my Melmacian awesomeness. bigsmile

Rock's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:23 PM
Edited by Rock on Tue 03/17/15 02:24 PM
Yay pics!

laugh

As far as profile and about me section, mine are very real, right down to my occupational title. Chief Executive A**hole.

It's actually quite amusing, to see all of the B.S. in some profiles. Knowing the person(s) are overstating their own sense of self importance, perhaps to boost their ego. Perhaps, to aid in their ability, to con/scam other members of the site.

no photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:23 PM
Edited by WonderWoman48 on Tue 03/17/15 02:31 PM

Please STOP!
We are not discussing real or fake pictures.
We are dicussing about the importance of being ourselves in life.

I just can't take it anymore!
I'm going to kill my laptop.

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:30 PM


Please STOP!
We are not discussing real or fake pictures.
We are dicussing about the importance of being ourselves in life.

I'm going to kill my laptop.

Bet you don't? laugh laugh laugh

Godistheanswer's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:41 PM
I aggree one hundred percent, for if they love the fake, only leads to loneliness because who you are is not loved.

Godistheanswer's photo
Tue 03/17/15 02:43 PM
I would answer too that we are who we act and believe we are, and sometimes working toward an ideal becomes what is real.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 03/17/15 03:55 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 03/17/15 03:56 PM
I'm real in real life and online as well. I've even had others concerned about me for being too open and honest online. So I tried to change, but it's just me, I am honest and open. Can't help it.
I don't always tell everyone about ever facet of myself, as some are slightly incongruent, not to me, as they're all part of me, but to other people.
For instance me being rather sexual blushing but I'm also very spiritual and intuitive, into readings, energy work etc etc. Do readings for others, paint blablabla. But there's also the 50 shades side of me.
I got friendships that are based on the spiritual and energy work, I don't really show them the other side of me (which is a substantial part of me as well). I don't lie about it though. And now that my erotic novel comes to and end and I hope to publish it soon, I am started to talk about it more.
May cost me some friendships / acquaintances, but yeah...
I still seem to embody my former company's name: SpiritDuality.
But I'm still 100% real, even though I might seem odd to some
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no1phD's photo
Tue 03/17/15 04:34 PM
I'm real.
....lol

Okoro David 's photo
Tue 03/17/15 04:36 PM
I sometimes don't get it...
Mingle2 have deleted two of my pics...not that my face did not show clearly...but i wnted to have a full photo of myself.

Some have pets and carz in their profile pix...but they keep deleting mine....i only have just my face in my profile pix...cant have a full pix.
Maybe mingle2 only needs just my face.

Not bordered anymore...
Im just myself

DadCat's photo
Tue 03/17/15 04:37 PM
Still waters run deep.

no photo
Tue 03/17/15 04:52 PM
I don't have a good enough memory to be fake.. so what you see is exactly who I am

wouldn't have it any other way.. and I like the same in return

Ytny86's photo
Thu 03/19/15 04:54 PM
I've been guilty of the white lie. I choose be real with most people (as I hate ******** myself), but I've masked the truth before, sometimes simply to be nice and other times just because I didn't care to share.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Thu 03/19/15 05:01 PM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Thu 03/19/15 05:01 PM

Ps27114's photo
Thu 03/19/15 06:44 PM
Being honest/ real and telling all are not the same. Much of my life is boring and certainly too long to narrate to many uninterested parties. It's too long and full to remember all of it at any given time. My sisters will testify to that. But I would not lie to an outright question, just refuse to answer or honestly forget...

no photo
Thu 03/19/15 07:08 PM
my profile is real but NOT my name .....and I didn't upload my picture becoz of this f******g phone

no photo
Thu 03/19/15 07:12 PM
peer pressure is a bi**h it prevents us from being ourselves ....but no more

msharmony's photo
Thu 03/19/15 07:44 PM
I never grasped the term 'real' when it comes to people

we are all real and complex

I am real enough and complex enough to be able to reveal the parts of me that are appropriate in the appropriate surroundings,, not so real that I have to put it all out there in every situation everytime,,


Hannygal's photo
Fri 03/20/15 09:22 PM
Sick and tired of having fake profiles. Stop pm me if u are con man. Will bring u to the authorities

acers72's photo
Fri 03/20/15 10:59 PM
Am real

ALBYAK's photo
Fri 03/20/15 11:25 PM
TOTALLY FAKE....I get all my photos from different hunting and fishing post on the Internet (at the library), and just pretend to do wonderful things outdoors in Florida & Alaska...I really live under an overpass down here and catch my fish by hand and eat them sushi style....can not even afford the matches to light wood with to cook them.....such is lifenoway