did you ever stop to think why your men cheat on you? because you drive them to it with all your hatred... it's called projecting, and you make your men cheat on you because you subconsciously tell them to....

If I say men grow long beards unless they shave, but women aren't like that (usually), is that being a misandrist or whatever.

most of the women i know don't grow beards...

I'll have to look up 'misandry'... my head is still thinking 'vibrator'..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xK_dLOuzw2s

man hater... almost the same thing as vibrator...

Look, just because I had this one relationship where he cheated doesn't mean I think men always cheat. This was a first for me and I don't look at men that way. And btw, we are still friends of a sort. Yes, it took awhile but eventually we were able to be friends.

I don't burn bridges with my exes and yes I do have more than a few.

self fulfilling prophecy. expecting that all men are bad. doesn't look at the good men. gets hurt again. yep, all men are bad.
and the pattern will continue until something is done to break it.


anyway if the question is whether distance affects love. one has to first figure out if it's love. good luck

I can't edit my post now, but I would say 'some' men.. Someone before me said their ex cheated on them, that's why I thought of it. By the way crystal I'm not into 'vibrators' or other embarrassing things you want to throw my way.

Haha, don't worry, Estelle, wasn't planning of throwing vibrators at you, lol. Although it could be fun, a bunch of girls throwing buzzing and humming neon pink vibrators around. Maybe glow in the dark ones Just kidding.
I think I need to really find myself a man

I like you as a human being to another human being, but I wonder if feminism and femininity are at odds, and why are they? That is my current research project for the week because I need to find a way to connect the dots.

ahhhhhh, consumerism and the global currency....let's see...back in Roman times women were respected and could hold their own businesses, ...I think it was the govts then in those times that the Library of Alexandria was burned of most knowledge and only the elites kept the originals, and the conversion from Pagan to Christianity began.

Good question. Not sure myself. I'm not into all that feminism stuff myself. But I do know it was / is needed for mankind to get where we should get: true gender equality.
What I myself am busy with mostly is the inner balance between the masculine and feminine. Also focusing on how to achieve this inner balance and how to be feminine, what it really means to be feminine and how to get there. I've done a lot of reading on that subject, workshops as well. I intend to give workshops on it myself, with an overlap of relationship & dating coaching, as this is strongly related to each other. So many woman are struggling with relationships and dating because they haven't worked out their inner M / F balance. (I know men experience similar problems, which is logical, as it's all connected. But that part is beyond my wheelhouse. Maybe in the future ... )
But this is more the inner processes of women, not the societal 'fight' that's going on. I see and feel the tendencies, the greater good of it all, but don't think it's my 'task' to work in that area.
The societal and inner processes do complement each other. One cannot be achieved or develop without the other. Societal will support the inner processes and vice versa. So in that sense it's important both have similar growth rates.

But I'm not into gender-bashing and for me feminism does have that aftertaste a bit, probably wrongly so, as I don't think the current movement has such views anymore, but still.
Men should be treated equally respectful. The true feminine wouldn't knock them, would understand rather that not everyone is ready to erm .. change, grow, develop. Biting someone's head off is not going to make him/her willing to change their point of view, nor is that the feminine way to go. And I truly don't like gender-bashing.
I've been wrongly accused of being a feminist here by some, long time ago. Doesn't sit well with me, because I'm not. But I also realize those ppl don't really get what I'm talking about, and that's fine. There's plenty of other ppl around. I've already got ppl interested in my workshops, the need and eagerness to learn about this all, is really growing, exponentially I think.

At some point there will be a critical amount of women and men and they will touch everyone else. Change takes times, you cannot 'convert' everyone in one go. It works with a ripple effect: throw a small stone in the pond ...

Wow, love overcoming distance has turned into an in depth discussion about feminism. Gotta love it. And in other news...

Maybe she'd hush up about it, instead of using us for research. lol

Here's an idea: DON'T FEED THE BEAST.

Haha, sorry bout that!
(Have you seen I've also suggested a vibrator-throwing party? )