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Topic: Am I scaring people away or what?
SacramentAl Joined Mon 02/23/09 Posts: 160	Thu 02/26/15 05:25 PM
Well that would be the opposite of being negative, wouldn't it? It's hard to do that when it's not in person though. It's a lot easier when it's spontaneous and situational.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48969	Thu 02/26/15 08:55 PM
SacramentAl, for a guy, your profile is, in general, one of the best that I've seen. I consider your main profile image to be perfect for an adult male Human.

SacramentAl Joined Mon 02/23/09 Posts: 160	Sat 02/28/15 09:12 AM
I'm getting a little discouraged, nobody's contacting me. Am I supposed to do the contacting? Not sure how gender roles play here, do women expect men to make the first move or is it more equal nowadays?

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Sat 02/28/15 09:40 AM Edited by WonderWoman48 on Sat 02/28/15 09:52 AM
Looks fine to me Agree with Debbie love. Your profile is fine, teddy bear Debbie

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 09:50 AM
I'm getting a little discouraged, nobody's contacting me. Am I supposed to do the contacting? Not sure how gender roles play here, do women expect men to make the first move or is it more equal nowadays? Yes try contacting people, you'll get more luck doing that.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 09:50 AM
Looks fine to me Agree with Debbie love. Your profile is fine Debbie Awwwwwwww to cute

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sat 02/28/15 10:00 AM
I'm getting a little discouraged, nobody's contacting me. Am I supposed to do the contacting? Not sure how gender roles play here, do women expect men to make the first move or is it more equal nowadays? You might not like this, but I guarantee you that when they look at your profile pic the first thing they see is your size, ( as you are a big lad ) and move on. Some people may skirt around it and try to sugar coat it around you, but that's the truth my friend. My pal was around 25 stone (156kgs) and lost around half that weight and the guy has women coming out of his ears these days!!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 10:11 AM
I'm getting a little discouraged, nobody's contacting me. Am I supposed to do the contacting? Not sure how gender roles play here, do women expect men to make the first move or is it more equal nowadays? You might not like this, but I guarantee you that when they look at your profile pic the first thing they see is your size, ( as you are a big lad ) and move on. Some people may skirt around it and try to sugar coat it around you, but that's the truth my friend. My pal was around 25 stone (156kgs) and lost around half that weight and the guy has women coming out of his ears these days!! Your pal did really well loosing all that? Has he got any loose skin? Or was he young and he toned back up, that and excercising. ??

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 02/28/15 10:15 AM
okay what was SpongeBob's friends name on the cartoon...?.... .. some women are a big fan of that dude.... so just play off of that.. I'm kidding.... wow them with your sense of humor..

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 10:33 AM
I'm getting a little discouraged, nobody's contacting me. Am I supposed to do the contacting? Not sure how gender roles play here, do women expect men to make the first move or is it more equal nowadays? I saw you joined the site in 2009, are you saying no ones contacted you at all for all those years? And have you contacted anyone over all these years?

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Sat 02/28/15 10:33 AM
Just be yourself! The right people will love you just for being you. Good luck, teddy bear

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 10:41 AM
Just be yourself! The right people will love you just for being you. Good luck, teddy bear Hey wonder woman, thanks for the kitty picture. You ok love?

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Sat 02/28/15 10:52 AM Edited by WonderWoman48 on Sat 02/28/15 10:54 AM
Just be yourself! The right people will love you just for being you. Good luck, teddy bear Hey wonder woman, thanks for the kitty picture. You ok love? I'm fine thank you, and you?

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 02/28/15 10:54 AM
Awww... you know what would make this extra special girls..... perhaps a little kiss between the two of you.. .... just a suggestion.... squeezes his box of Kleenex..jk.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 10:56 AM
Just be yourself! The right people will love you just for being you. Good luck, teddy bear Hey wonder woman, thanks for the kitty picture. You ok love? I'm fine thank you, and you? I'm ok thanks.

WonderWoman48 Joined Tue 01/27/15 Posts: 1560	Sat 02/28/15 10:57 AM Edited by WonderWoman48 on Sat 02/28/15 10:59 AM
Just be yourself! The right people will love you just for being you. Good luck, teddy bear Hey wonder woman, thanks for the kitty picture. You ok love? I'm fine thank you, and you? I'm ok thanks.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 11:02 AM
Just be yourself! The right people will love you just for being you. Good luck, teddy bear Hey wonder woman, thanks for the kitty picture. You ok love? I'm fine thank you, and you? I'm ok thanks. rofl:

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sat 02/28/15 11:08 AM
I'm getting a little discouraged, nobody's contacting me. Am I supposed to do the contacting? Not sure how gender roles play here, do women expect men to make the first move or is it more equal nowadays? You might not like this, but I guarantee you that when they look at your profile pic the first thing they see is your size, ( as you are a big lad ) and move on. Some people may skirt around it and try to sugar coat it around you, but that's the truth my friend. My pal was around 25 stone (156kgs) and lost around half that weight and the guy has women coming out of his ears these days!! Your pal did really well loosing all that? Has he got any loose skin? Or was he young and he toned back up, that and excercising. ?? He had to get some skin removed Debbie, but not a lot. He was 23 and started playing 5 a side football with us. A wee bit at a time though, but he perservered with that and running also. Then he was lasting full matches and the weight was tumbling off him and it was great to see him achieve, what he and most of us thought impossible!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/28/15 11:23 AM
I'm getting a little discouraged, nobody's contacting me. Am I supposed to do the contacting? Not sure how gender roles play here, do women expect men to make the first move or is it more equal nowadays? You might not like this, but I guarantee you that when they look at your profile pic the first thing they see is your size, ( as you are a big lad ) and move on. Some people may skirt around it and try to sugar coat it around you, but that's the truth my friend. My pal was around 25 stone (156kgs) and lost around half that weight and the guy has women coming out of his ears these days!! Your pal did really well loosing all that? Has he got any loose skin? Or was he young and he toned back up, that and excercising. ?? He had to get some skin removed Debbie, but not a lot. He was 23 and started playing 5 a side football with us. A wee bit at a time though, but he perservered with that and running also. Then he was lasting full matches and the weight was tumbling off him and it was great to see him achieve, what he and most of us thought impossible! Wow he did great.

SacramentAl Joined Mon 02/23/09 Posts: 160	Sat 02/28/15 03:22 PM
So I'm not going to find someone unless I drop 100 pounds? That's not why I'm on here. If people are still going to be that shallow then what's the point?