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WonderWomen48 - love that lol. I think Mightymoe and Mickeyspace sucked each other's brain cells. omg wow you crack me up! Thank you very much for proving my point. I'm not looking "for the one" if you read my profile you'd know that. And yes requirements: 1) to live in my city. I've done the long distance thing and although might work for some, it doesn't for me. 2) to have a pic. That's it. If you can't have those two very simple things that I clearly state on my profile, I will not reply to you, simple. And if someone compliments me on my smile or says that I'm beautiful, I ALWAYS say thank you regardless. that's the only thing on your profile, is what you don't want... and that wouldn't even be needed to be said if you set your email filters... being pretty doesn't matter if your not nice to go with it, and by your profile, it didn't seem very friendly... but your right in the fact it doesn't matter as far as I'm concerned, i'm definitely not going to canadia, plus I'm not into controlling women. I'm just saying this so you can help yourself and maybe be happy with other people that might not fall into your categories... i'm not trying to be rude or mean, for some reason i would like to see you happy... |
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they are just silly. They only look at pics and say yes. Some try to be ur friend and want to scam . They do not know the meaning of FRIENDS ONLY Not silly, it is a man thing....... just like driving, they don't read...... maps or anything that has too many words in it! 
OK OK....joking, I'm not man-bashing!  But it is true, the ones who try to scam us just don't read the profiles, men & women alike ..... they never remember what you are, what you are looking for, what you do for a living, married/single/kids/etc etc...everything that you put in your profile. But that is also a good indicator of what they are, and your scammer red flag should be up after that.
i never read profiles, most are just a generic copy of the same thing over and over... i can find out more about a person in 5 minutes of chatting than reading all the things they say about themselves in a profile... profiles are an advertisement, a way to sell yourself, so whatever is in them is just a sales promotion...may or may not be true... |
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no1phD - I'm glad you're smart enough to eat your Flintstones vitamins :) WTF....Where did that come from?? Am I blocked by him or something,,,,do not even see him posting on this one 
Ooops he turned into a dog...sorry Omg! I missed his post, too! LMFAO He keeps changing his main profile photo! Lol |
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Edited by
Amelinng
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Wed 02/25/15 07:15 PM
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they are just silly. They only look at pics and say yes. Some try to be ur friend and want to scam . They do not know the meaning of FRIENDS ONLY Not silly, it is a man thing....... just like driving, they don't read...... maps or anything that has too many words in it!
OK OK....joking, I'm not man-bashing! But it is true, the ones who try to scam us just don't read the profiles, men & women alike ..... they never remember what you are, what you are looking for, what you do for a living, married/single/kids/etc etc...everything that you put in your profile. But that is also a good indicator of what they are, and your scammer red flag should be up after that.
i never read profiles, most are just a generic copy of the same thing over and over... i can find out more about a person in 5 minutes of chatting than reading all the things they say about themselves in a profile... profiles are an advertisement, a way to sell yourself, so whatever is in them is just a sales promotion...may or may not be true... FYI, MMoe.... mine is true! No reason for me to say something not true in there.... and the profiles are what we supposed to write about ourselves, at least, that was the purpose it was designed for. And not all the profiles are the same thing over and over (you probably didn't notice, cos' you stopped reading  ), except the scammers who probably copy & pasted. Some of the profiles of the genuine people here are very interesting, and says a lot of the person behind that photo, that cartoon character or anything else they put in that profile picture. It reveals a lot of the person, and that is what you will depend on to gauge whether to be friends/match with the person...... and also tell you whether that person is here for the forums, friends, match....... or just looking for fun and sex!
Then again, some of the profiles can be so so so lengthy.... I try to read to the last line if the flow is great! And at the last line, they will tell you you made it, thank you or something to that effect....great sense of humor! I like that!
(Footnote: Just noticed that MightyMoe and Mikeyspace looks alike.... even your responses are alike..... are you related???  )
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they are just silly. They only look at pics and say yes. Some try to be ur friend and want to scam . They do not know the meaning of FRIENDS ONLY Not silly, it is a man thing....... just like driving, they don't read...... maps or anything that has too many words in it!
OK OK....joking, I'm not man-bashing! But it is true, the ones who try to scam us just don't read the profiles, men & women alike ..... they never remember what you are, what you are looking for, what you do for a living, married/single/kids/etc etc...everything that you put in your profile. But that is also a good indicator of what they are, and your scammer red flag should be up after that.
i never read profiles, most are just a generic copy of the same thing over and over... i can find out more about a person in 5 minutes of chatting than reading all the things they say about themselves in a profile... profiles are an advertisement, a way to sell yourself, so whatever is in them is just a sales promotion...may or may not be true... FYI, MMoe.... mine is true! No reason for me to say something not true in there.... and the profiles are what we supposed to write about ourselves, at least, that was the purpose it was designed for. And not all the profiles are the same thing over and over (you probably didn't notice, cos' you stopped reading ), except the scammers who probably copy & pasted. Some of the profiles of the genuine people here are very interesting, and says a lot of the person behind that photo, that cartoon character or anything else they put in that profile picture. It reveals a lot of the person, and that is what you will depend on to gauge whether to be friends/match with the person...... and also tell you whether that person is here for the forums, friends, match....... or just looking for fun and sex!
Then again, some of the profiles can be so so so lengthy.... I try to read to the last line if the flow is great! And at the last line, they will tell you you made it, thank you or something to that effect....great sense of humor! I like that!
(Footnote: Just noticed that MightyMoe and Mikeyspace looks alike.... even your responses are alike..... are you related??? )
no, i don't like calling women sluts...even if they are 
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they are just silly. They only look at pics and say yes. Some try to be ur friend and want to scam . They do not know the meaning of FRIENDS ONLY Not silly, it is a man thing....... just like driving, they don't read...... maps or anything that has too many words in it!
OK OK....joking, I'm not man-bashing! But it is true, the ones who try to scam us just don't read the profiles, men & women alike ..... they never remember what you are, what you are looking for, what you do for a living, married/single/kids/etc etc...everything that you put in your profile. But that is also a good indicator of what they are, and your scammer red flag should be up after that.
i never read profiles, most are just a generic copy of the same thing over and over... i can find out more about a person in 5 minutes of chatting than reading all the things they say about themselves in a profile... profiles are an advertisement, a way to sell yourself, so whatever is in them is just a sales promotion...may or may not be true... FYI, MMoe.... mine is true! No reason for me to say something not true in there.... and the profiles are what we supposed to write about ourselves, at least, that was the purpose it was designed for. And not all the profiles are the same thing over and over (you probably didn't notice, cos' you stopped reading ), except the scammers who probably copy & pasted. Some of the profiles of the genuine people here are very interesting, and says a lot of the person behind that photo, that cartoon character or anything else they put in that profile picture. It reveals a lot of the person, and that is what you will depend on to gauge whether to be friends/match with the person...... and also tell you whether that person is here for the forums, friends, match....... or just looking for fun and sex!
Then again, some of the profiles can be so so so lengthy.... I try to read to the last line if the flow is great! And at the last line, they will tell you you made it, thank you or something to that effect....great sense of humor! I like that!
(Footnote: Just noticed that MightyMoe and Mikeyspace looks alike.... even your responses are alike..... are you related??? )
no, i don't like calling women sluts...even if they are
So.......DON'T! Even if they are! 
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everyone is different, read or don't read, it's all the same in the end... after about the 4000th profile I've read, they just all started blending as the same one, so i quit reading them and stopped emailing them as well...
i'm happy just annoying people here on the threads, and i'll be just as happy being alone as i would being with someone i really don't want to be with anyway... |
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everyone is different, read or don't read, it's all the same in the end... after about the 4000th profile I've read, they just all started blending as the same one, so i quit reading them and stopped emailing them as well... i'm happy just annoying people here on the threads, and i'll be just as happy being alone as i would being with someone i really don't want to be with anyway... OMG.....that many??? OK OK...I understand what you mean! I stopped reading and replying to those not on the forums and I didn't even reach 4000, not even 400, I think. I know most who view and send messages to me and not from the forums are, if not 99%, then at least 90%, are scammers! Yeah..... your responses are annoying to those who don't know your sense of humor, except for us regulars on the forums, and so the beginners may feel offended. Hahahaha..... you foul mouth chit, but I bet you are adorable behind all those foul words! 
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I'm sick and tired of men not reading my profile before they contact me. I only have a couple of requirements but they are 90% of the time ignored. Dear men, it's not so hard so why do the majority of you not read it?! Well I've seen profiles with a lot more stipulations that yours OP. This seems to have degenerated into an us v them, as usual, men v women. I don't know that one side or the other is worse or better but I understand that you - as a woman - can only say that you wish the men would read your profile. Because it is men your profile is aimed at. A lot of the replies you are getting may be automatically generated or just a 'blanket' response by the good old scammer crew. Either way I can see that it's annoying and yes as mentioned previously here, the filter option is great. You should use it. You are entitled to ask for what you want - Good Luck
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Edited by
mightymoe
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Wed 02/25/15 07:50 PM
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<--- look at the date... way too long here, lol...
i joined when it was named something else, i forgot what... 
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no1phD - I'm glad you're smart enough to eat your Flintstones vitamins :) WTF....Where did that come from?? Am I blocked by him or something,,,,do not even see him posting on this one
Ooops he turned into a dog...sorry Omg! I missed his post, too! LMFAO He keeps changing his main profile photo! Lol I scanned through the whole thing twice before posting that...guess it is OK for him to change but don't you do it 
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no1phD - I'm glad you're smart enough to eat your Flintstones vitamins :) WTF....Where did that come from?? Am I blocked by him or something,,,,do not even see him posting on this one
Ooops he turned into a dog...sorry Omg! I missed his post, too! LMFAO He keeps changing his main profile photo! Lol I scanned through the whole thing twice before posting that...guess it is OK for him to change but don't you do it
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be carefree, break the rules, live and be happy. 
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They just look at photo) That`s enough
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they are just silly. They only look at pics and say yes. Some try to be ur friend and want to scam . They do not know the meaning of FRIENDS ONLY Not silly, it is a man thing....... just like driving, they don't read...... maps or anything that has too many words in it!
OK OK....joking, I'm not man-bashing! But it is true, the ones who try to scam us just don't read the profiles, men & women alike ..... they never remember what you are, what you are looking for, what you do for a living, married/single/kids/etc etc...everything that you put in your profile. But that is also a good indicator of what they are, and your scammer red flag should be up after that.
I agree with you
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Wow, I was just about to go off on all of you...... But you're right.
Moe especially. |
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Get what you're talking about and fair enough, up to a point. When it's scammers, just delete and don't let it wind you up.
But not all are scammers... Contrary to popular belief, men in general feel, woman think when they're looking for a partner or go on a date. If it don't feel good for a guy, he's off, while the gal is thinking and (over)analyzing things --> Could it work between us, because he lives so far away? Would my mom approve of him? If we'd move in together, would he .. blablablar. We are planning a possible relationship with our date, while he's simply feeling. So .. maybe some good guys see your picture and what they see FEELS good to them. And they contact you... without reading your profile. It ain't always so black and white. It can be a compliment of sorts...
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Get what you're talking about and fair enough, up to a point. When it's scammers, just delete and don't let it wind you up. But not all are scammers... Contrary to popular belief, men in general feel, woman think when they're looking for a partner or go on a date. If it don't feel good for a guy, he's off, while the gal is thinking and (over)analyzing things --> Could it work between us, because he lives so far away? Would my mom approve of him? If we'd move in together, would he .. blablablar. We are planning a possible relationship with our date, while he's simply feeling. So .. maybe some good guys see your picture and what they see FEELS good to them. And they contact you... without reading your profile. It ain't always so black and white. It can be a compliment of sorts...
In terms of relationships, I agree. With most other things, it's reversed. |
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Get what you're talking about and fair enough, up to a point. When it's scammers, just delete and don't let it wind you up. But not all are scammers... Contrary to popular belief, men in general feel, woman think when they're looking for a partner or go on a date. If it don't feel good for a guy, he's off, while the gal is thinking and (over)analyzing things --> Could it work between us, because he lives so far away? Would my mom approve of him? If we'd move in together, would he .. blablablar. We are planning a possible relationship with our date, while he's simply feeling. So .. maybe some good guys see your picture and what they see FEELS good to them. And they contact you... without reading your profile. It ain't always so black and white. It can be a compliment of sorts...
In terms of relationships, I agree. With most other things, it's reversed. Yes.. but don't fully agree with the bit on relationships. Can happen, sure, but I think it mostly happens in the 'finding a partner' or 'first (few) date' areas. I think in a relationship you may find it when there's a situation and the woman feels uncomfortable. Cos that's what it's got to do with, mostly.. Feeling uncomfortable and closing the doors to her heart and feelings in order to protect herself. |
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aw man now i gots to dig out dem spelling books and study up on my reedin
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