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It's not inappropriate these days,but it would take the tradition and romance out of the proposal if it came from a woman... My kinda guy.. I agree.. 
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Edited by
tealbreeze
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Is it appropriate for a lady to propose to a man? emma003, I have done just a little research for you on your own culture and how this question would pertain to you. Ghanian Marriage Traditions Much has changed over the years, as in many communities the traditions revolving around Ghanaian marriages are becoming modernized, as locals move away from their villages, formal education becomes more important, outside religions influence the country, and certain influences from western culture seep in. According to Ghana Nation, in the past (and sometimes still) it was often tradition for a young man's father to find him a suitable wife based on her medical history, criminal record and work ethic (the woman's family would also look into the potential husband based on these criteria). If the families agreed it was a worthwhile arrangement, the bridegroom would give the bride's family a gift, typically money and ti-nsa (head wine). Another tradition is mainly among Ewe communities for the bridegroom's maternal and paternal aunts to send the bride's father a pot of palm wine, which is essentially a message asking if their nephew can have the daughter's hand in marriage. After about a week or two in which the bride's family researches the potential groom, the father will send his reply. From there, the groom's parents will send the bride's parents a pot of palm wine to thank them if there has been consent. And in the North, it's all about the gifts. If a man wants to marry a woman, he'll start giving her gifts for instance, money, hankerchiefs and towels. And if she accepts the gifts, this means she�'s also accepting the proposal. Sometimes, the man will also send gifts to the bride's family to show them his potential as a son-in-law. Again, these traditions still occur, but less so as Ghana becomes more modernized especially in the capital of Accra. ------------------------------------------------------------------ There you have it. You must have Aunties to help you. |
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Is it appropriate for a lady to propose to a man? You must have Aunties to help you. and they must be local Aunties... |
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I wish Americans had those family values and traditions still..
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It's not inappropriate these days,but it would take the tradition and romance out of the proposal if it came from a woman... Not necessary. It might be even more romantic! We don't have o stick to old traditions in my opinion. I think we should all be equal and respect each others feelings when it comes to "Proposal" Why men have to be the "Macho" in the relationship? I don't agree, because if both work hard to make a living it we should be equal...but maybe this should be another topic  I still love men!!
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Traditions are boring.
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Maria I know what you mean, my ex is Salvadoreno
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It's not inappropriate these days,but it would take the tradition and romance out of the proposal if it came from a woman... Not necessary. It might be even more romantic! We don't have o stick to old traditions in my opinion. I think we should all be equal and respect each others feelings when it comes to "Proposal" Why men have to be the "Macho" in the relationship? I don't agree, because if both work hard to make a living it we should be equal...but maybe this should be another topic I still love men!!
I might be misunderstanding you hear Maria,but where does 'macho' come in to this ? If it is now seen by some to be macho when a guy would rather be the one to propose to his partner,then i will happily be labelled as a traditionalist 
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There's different kinds of macho, some are more obvious some are more subtle.
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Maria I know what you mean, my ex is Salvadoreno Oh nooo! Good thing you're not with him anymore Estelle .
I was married to a Mexican. Maybe is the reason I am so insecure and sometimes I rather be alone than have men in my life. But I have a good heart and feelings for others, I know Is somebody out there for me! |
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Edited by
Maria195
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Wed 02/18/15 07:00 AM
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It's not inappropriate these days,but it would take the tradition and romance out of the proposal if it came from a woman... Not necessary. It might be even more romantic! We don't have o stick to old traditions in my opinion. I think we should all be equal and respect each others feelings when it comes to "Proposal" Why men have to be the "Macho" in the relationship? I don't agree, because if both work hard to make a living it we should be equal...but maybe this should be another topic I still love men!!
I might be misunderstanding you hear Maria,but where does 'macho' come in to this ? If it is now seen by some to be macho when a guy would rather be the one to propose to his partner,then i will happily be labelled as a traditionalist
Justfun_1 Is the reason I wrote...Why men have to be the "Macho" in the relationship? I don't agree, because if both work hard to make a living it we should be equal... >>>>>>>But maybe this should be another topic.<<<<<< |
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It's not inappropriate these days,but it would take the tradition and romance out of the proposal if it came from a woman... Not necessary. It might be even more romantic! We don't have o stick to old traditions in my opinion. I think we should all be equal and respect each others feelings when it comes to "Proposal" Why men have to be the "Macho" in the relationship? I don't agree, because if both work hard to make a living it we should be equal...but maybe this should be another topic I still love men!!
I might be misunderstanding you hear Maria,but where does 'macho' come in to this ? If it is now seen by some to be macho when a guy would rather be the one to propose to his partner,then i will happily be labelled as a traditionalist
Justfun_1 Is the reason I wrote...maybe this should be another topic.  
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Justfun_1
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No woman needs to wait for a man to make up his mind. If he's dragging his feet and hedging his bets, she should come straight out and ask him, "Do you want to get married?" If he says yes, they move on with their lives together. If he says no - or refuses to give a straight answer - she moves on to find the right person. No sense in dithering about when one partner knows what she wants and the other has no idea.
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No woman needs to wait for a man to make up his mind. If he's dragging his feet and hedging his bets, she should come straight out and ask him, "Do you want to get married?" If he says yes, they move on with their lives together. If he says no - or refuses to give a straight answer - she moves on to find the right person. No sense in dithering about when one partner knows what she wants and the other has no idea. 
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I think not, but that's just my opinion. I think it's inappropriate for a man to feel it's inappropriate for a woman to propose to a man. I think it's inappropriate that you think my opinion about tradition is inappropriate, especially since you will never be allowed to date, let alone marry me, so it's none of your damn business. |
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I think not, but that's just my opinion. I think it's inappropriate for a man to feel it's inappropriate for a woman to propose to a man. I think it's inappropriate that you think my opinion about tradition is inappropriate, especially since you will never be allowed to date, let alone marry me, so it's none of your damn business. MadDog, would you ever propose to me? |
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No Vegas quickies though. And honeymoon in Hawaii.
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I think not, but that's just my opinion. I think it's inappropriate for a man to feel it's inappropriate for a woman to propose to a man. I think it's inappropriate that you think my opinion about tradition is inappropriate, especially since you will never be allowed to date, let alone marry me, so it's none of your damn business. MadDog, would you ever propose to me? Maybe. I don't really know you. |
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He said maybe!!!! Woot! *starts shopping for wedding gown*
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