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well as i said before that is why i am here

but as far as going to a marriage counselor ... pass
i don't need someone else to tell me that it will or will not work , that is up to her and i

but any who
best wishes on your hunt : )

Actually, all forums are open to all who take the time
and make the effort to post.

Marriage-minded or not :-)

what are thoughts on long distance leading to marriage?

as long as both try , it will work
same as close by ones
as soon as one fails to try , then the end is near

yourself ?

I have the same view, it should be a full relationship till your actually together. its a commitment just as if you were there in person.

it is a lot harder then if they are in person

Toxic !

true, but I suppose honesty is the best policy before it goes to far I mean a warts and all conversation to see if its worth starting.

to me it doesn't bother me what color skin you have or where you are from
i was raised to see past that
we are all human
i look more for truth and someone crazy enough to speak there mind <shrug>
it can be hard with others because they are raised to see things different

a simple exzample
my brother meeting his soon to be father in law grabbed his hand to shake it with both hands ... come to find out that was bad ... the left hand was to be held higher the more respect you show the person

so little things can cause big waves , but a lot can be over looked if the 2 people are willing to go with it and look for the end picture

i agree with honesty but all so dissagree
some people cant handle the truth (witch is where i get myself in trouble cause i don't lie)
as well as you have to keep peoples feelings in that thought

i am still trying to learn to keep my mouth shut when i know its something that a person asks me that i know they don't want to hear

oh by the way do these jeans make my butt look big ?
uhm : )
(shut up dat)

I completely understand that. a lot of people split up either in a marriage or not because they cant accept the way someone was or is, but at the end of the day everyone is different and you cant and shouldn't try change someone if there not hurting you or anyone else. you should love them for who they are.

lol what are your thoughts on saving spending and shopping for shoes

my lady's have all ways gotten what they wanted <shrug>
as long as we could both afford it

I completely understand that. a lot of people split up either in a marriage or not because they cant accept the way someone was or is, but at the end of the day everyone is different and you cant and shouldn't try change someone if there not hurting you or anyone else. you should love them for who they are.


i agree
but i wouldn't stay with a cheater or lier or someone that abuses kids or beats animals etc etc etc etc

we all have are fault's
not looking for a perfect lady
there is no perfect human that i know of
well except myself (just kidding)
we all have are fault's and are beliefs , the way we look at things etc etc etc

how boring would it be if we all thought the same <shrug>

Well that's me out, cos i got married in Mauritius last July, then we had a 2nd ceremony back in Scotland, for family and friends. Best of luck to you all though?

Congrats : )
best wishes to you

congrats to you wishing you a happy and harmonious marriage