lol this is not about me...its a mere factual statement & if anyone could relate to it....as for a dating site im only here for the forums im not even searching....if i do meet someone its cool & if i don't its all good too

ohhh..sorry..I forgot you always have a l It of options. .right???

My first option is my only option.....if i can't have my first option then i guess there are no more options for me until i get that ''one''

Hi

I agree why be someone's constellation prize.

In the modern dating world (OLD, Tinder, meetup groups & plain old bars & clubs) humans market themselves to be chosen just like the marketing in a supermarket. What's the newest/shiniest product?

But think about how people shop at the supermarket. Some just go for the same brands every time, some only shop when they are out of everything & some won't buy anything without a coupon. Same thing with dating: there's a choice of products & you feel like you can pick & choose. Except that there's a human on the other end of that choice (or rejection) & we will all face the experience of being "passed over" at one or another time in our lives. It hurts, & dating should be fun, not painful. I have to say it's too easy to "next" someone these days...