Doesn't choose you as their first option then you shouldn't be around to be there other option...

true dat!

I would never want to be second choice.

In the past I have confronted all at one time or another when I've felt pushed away and then they come back to you. I guess its our ego and good common sense as what self respecting person would want someone else that was reasently rejected from someone else. especially if she was with you to begin with.

If they expected me to accept that i was their 2nd best, they'd be very much mistaken! In fact there's more chance of me burning my crown jewels off with a blowtorch, while pedalling a 3 wheel bike, blindfolded in a blizzard, than accepting 2nd best, to anyone else!

That ^^ goes without saying....

Sometimes women don't really know what they want

.

Sometimes men don't really know what they want...

It kinda sucks when that happens....especially if that person was your first option

Life isn't always fair...

I do? The World and everything in it chico! Couldn't resist that, just wanted to sound like Tony Montana, for 2 seconds!! Leigh,

Hehehe!!...You sound like Tony Montana most of the time hot stuff!! ...(((Messi)))

I'm so prepared to see a bunch of platitudes like, "I have no time to hang around. I'm outta there." or "There's plenty of fish in the ocean."

I think to deny that sometimes we have longing beyond common sense in matters of the heart is dishonest.

Also sometimes there is something to be said for persistence and tenacity. It's not being a doormat either. It's more like waiting or proactively demonstrating to "them" what they are missing.

That mutual feeling when someone finally "gets it" is incredible!

A VERY good point my friend ...And when that person does finally win the other, there is enhanced feeling on both sides...The one who did not give up finds love...The one being pursued has that incredible feeling one gets when they know someone was willing to do what ever it takes to win their heart....Sweet!!

Mornin Beach!

Morning Ms Brilliant

Yes Ms., I wonder if some of the youngers are aware of the concept of "wooing"?

Younger for you or younger for me? ............................

You are one of the youngest people I know

and sometimes I feel so old (not to be mistaken for wise)

You should have other options available, tho. Like fries or something?

I know there is someone special for me out there I just have to be patient

Many people go through their fair share of joys & heartache in life...makes many learn & grow...happend to me too & people come & go....but at one stage in a mans life there can be no woman who can ever weaken him emotionally....perhaps sexually too.... except for that 1 woman that can actually bring him to he's knees

In the case of pre manogamous dating then yes.These days It may not be uncommon to date someone that is also dating many people before they enter into monogamy (For argument sakes) If your one of the front runners and your falling for her and her you
and others, then pursue? So you pursue,one guy doesn't have the stomach for it and drops out.The 'main guy' meets someone else.
So now you have finally entered into a monogamos relashionship by default.
What do you think? a win is a win.
Its a pretty common scenario now adays.

The 'gorillas' in the tryst..lol sounds like a good porn title.

seriously I know many woman on here have said before:
"If he's dating someone else then he's not that interested in me" I think thats what dating is for? (described above)
It doesn't fit my character eigher though.

I loved the answers on "how do you say goodbye" Expresing ones method Is cool but what a bunch of BS if I ever heard it.

(told ya I had a sheep coat! See how close I am in my profile pic?)