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Topic: matches
mightymoe's photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:17 PM
why did 59 new matches suddenly appear on my main page? and how do i turn it off? it bugs me to see the red numbers on the black background... do i HAVE to upgrade to turn it off?

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:21 PM
I got 271.
I don't know whether to upgrade and get busy,
or run and hide.
laugh

no photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:32 PM



Yeah - me too - but wow not as many as you guys frown

Just happens to be on the very day that mingle is changing -

I have tried to remove the 'red' but no luck

as usual they will try to bug you as much as possible to make

money.

Forums are still free That's the good news :banana:

Justfun_1's photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:38 PM

why did 59 new matches suddenly appear on my main page? and how do i turn it off? it bugs me to see the red numbers on the black background... do i HAVE to upgrade to turn it off?
I got 59 too.It showed about 8 and then said i had no more.But the 59 is still there ! what

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:39 PM

why did 59 new matches suddenly appear on my main page? and how do i turn it off? it bugs me to see the red numbers on the black background... do i HAVE to upgrade to turn it off?


The site's owners want you to pay $$$ to find out who possibly matches with you.

I think it is dishonest, because if the mutual matches were real, then we would have been notified about them before now.

mightymoe's photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:47 PM


why did 59 new matches suddenly appear on my main page? and how do i turn it off? it bugs me to see the red numbers on the black background... do i HAVE to upgrade to turn it off?


The site's owners want you to pay $$$ to find out who possibly matches with you.

I think it is dishonest, because if the mutual matches were real, then we would have been notified about them before now.


i think it's people that clicked yes to you that you haven't clicked yes to... if i already clicked no to them, then why do i care?

SpicyExcel's photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:47 PM
I ended up with a dozen or so also. I'm with david about this, but also funny about coincidences.

charles's photo
Wed 01/21/15 06:58 PM
This might be a bug I'm looking into it. Thank you.

no photo
Wed 01/21/15 07:29 PM
The number you guys are seeing is for who said YES to you on Mutual Match. These are people you may have said NO to in the past.

If you are seeing 50, etc, that's great news. That means 50+ people have said YES to you on mutual match already.

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 01/21/15 07:32 PM

The number you guys are seeing is for who said YES to you on Mutual Match. These are people you may have said NO to in the past.

If you are seeing 50, etc, that's great news. That means 50+ people have said YES to you on mutual match already.


Uh, pardon my skepticism, but weren't members supposed to be notified previously about any "Yes" selections received?

no photo
Wed 01/21/15 07:39 PM


The number you guys are seeing is for who said YES to you on Mutual Match. These are people you may have said NO to in the past.

If you are seeing 50, etc, that's great news. That means 50+ people have said YES to you on mutual match already.


Uh, pardon my skepticism, but weren't members supposed to be notified previously about any "Yes" selections received?



We don't notify you whenever someone says yes to you. We only notify you IF you said yes to them, AND they said yes to you. Both party have to like each other and said yes, for us to notify both people.

We only reveal who likes you (whether or not you said yes to them) to people who choose to upgrade.

Thank you,


mightymoe's photo
Wed 01/21/15 07:41 PM



The number you guys are seeing is for who said YES to you on Mutual Match. These are people you may have said NO to in the past.

If you are seeing 50, etc, that's great news. That means 50+ people have said YES to you on mutual match already.


Uh, pardon my skepticism, but weren't members supposed to be notified previously about any "Yes" selections received?



We don't notify you whenever someone says yes to you. We only notify you IF you said yes to them, AND they said yes to you. Both party have to like each other and said yes, for us to notify both people.

We only reveal who likes you (whether or not you said yes to them) to people who choose to upgrade.

Thank you,



so why can't we turn it off? there's no one new on the pics page..

SpicyExcel's photo
Wed 01/21/15 07:41 PM
Sounds and reads like a lot of possible dead profiles waiting for someone (man or woman) to reveiw until needed, to deter observations.

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 01/21/15 07:43 PM



The number you guys are seeing is for who said YES to you on Mutual Match. These are people you may have said NO to in the past.

If you are seeing 50, etc, that's great news. That means 50+ people have said YES to you on mutual match already.


Uh, pardon my skepticism, but weren't members supposed to be notified previously about any "Yes" selections received?



We don't notify you whenever someone says yes to you. We only notify you IF you said yes to them, AND they said yes to you. Both party have to like each other and said yes, for us to notify both people.

We only reveal who likes you (whether or not you said yes to them) to people who choose to upgrade.

Thank you,




Thank you for the clarification.

1j9b6c5's photo
Wed 01/21/15 07:53 PM
Hey I got my 72 virgins. Get it? New.

Hopeful13's photo
Thu 01/22/15 02:32 PM
I Don't care How Many Mutual Matches I have!! I just want it turned off!!
And I KNOW I clicked NO to some of the Ones they're trying to match me with!!
No Means NO!!!!!! lolrant

Hopeful13's photo
Thu 01/22/15 02:36 PM
Then It's NOT Free!!!

Justfun_1's photo
Thu 01/22/15 02:48 PM
I decided to go through them.I'm now into the ones that say they haven't been on the site for over a month (so not coming back as far as i'm concerned),but it still says 59 (new).Should i wait until it says 60 (new) before i bother checking again ?

SpicyExcel's photo
Thu 01/22/15 03:26 PM
If I, remember correctly, this happened a while ago also.

SpicyExcel's photo
Thu 01/22/15 03:26 PM
Edited by SpicyExcel on Thu 01/22/15 03:28 PM
If I, remember correctly, this happened a while ago also. Noticed it is only us men who are experiencing this problem.

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