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Topic: Is "connecting" or "clicking" important to men too?
red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Fri 12/26/14 12:27 PM
The only reason I can think of why a man would be concerned with such nonsense is simply to please women. In order for a man to have himself a woman he must first be able to "connect" or "click" with them. But if men did not have to pass the test would they still go out of their way to make that connection?

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Fri 12/26/14 12:35 PM
tequila = connecting device

mini1x Joined Sat 11/15/14 Posts: 280	Fri 12/26/14 12:43 PM Edited by mini1x on Fri 12/26/14 12:47 PM
I like your posts Red. And my answer is yes, I require clicking or connecting in order for women to please me.

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Fri 12/26/14 01:43 PM
I don't go out of my way to connect or click. It's either there, or it isn't

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Fri 12/26/14 03:33 PM
The only thing that needs to click for what you're looking for, is your bank card in a debit card machine ..

vanaheim Joined Sun 12/29/13 Posts: 531	Fri 12/26/14 03:37 PM
the term is to clique with someone, not click with someone. Spelling it phonetically as click suggests a freudian slip, where transient mood base is being used to select partners, such as whether you're sexually aroused in their presence. If you spell it correctly as clique and use the term by its concise definition it means you select partners on the basis of whether their personality belongs in your social group. Anyone experienced and aware in relationships has learned that compatability of mind is a better contributor than some allegorical sexual switch being thrown. In one case you become more attracted the more you get to know them, in the other case you become less attracted the more you get to know them even if it starts off fantastic. So it really comes down to if you have any idea what you're talking about when you say "to click with someone" because actually, it's to clique with someone. Connecting itself can mean no more than mutual physical attraction or coincidental arousal. Given the right circumstance I've connected with completely incompatable women one day, totally not understood each other the very next day. It's nothing more than a mood concidence. You can easily connect outside your clique.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 12/26/14 06:29 PM
The only reason I can think of why a man would be concerned with such nonsense is simply to please women. Nonsense?

mini1x Joined Sat 11/15/14 Posts: 280	Fri 12/26/14 07:03 PM
the term is to clique with someone, not click with someone. Spelling it phonetically as click suggests a freudian slip, where transient mood base is being used to select partners, such as whether you're sexually aroused in their presence. If you spell it correctly as clique and use the term by its concise definition it means you select partners on the basis of whether their personality belongs in your social group. Anyone experienced and aware in relationships has learned that compatability of mind is a better contributor than some allegorical sexual switch being thrown. In one case you become more attracted the more you get to know them, in the other case you become less attracted the more you get to know them even if it starts off fantastic. So it really comes down to if you have any idea what you're talking about when you say "to click with someone" because actually, it's to clique with someone. Connecting itself can mean no more than mutual physical attraction or coincidental arousal. Given the right circumstance I've connected with completely incompatable women one day, totally not understood each other the very next day. It's nothing more than a mood concidence. You can easily connect outside your clique. Not to be pedantic Vanaheim, but there is a fitting dictionary definition for click: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/click Check out 7b

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Fri 12/26/14 07:55 PM Edited by m3k4y on Fri 12/26/14 07:56 PM
The only reason I can think of why a man would be concerned with such nonsense is simply to please women. In order for a man to have himself a woman he must first be able to "connect" or "click" with them. But if men did not have to pass the test would they still go out of their way to make that connection? Internet is the answer to connect and click..

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 12/26/14 08:42 PM
who cares about "clicking"?if she's willing to get it on,that's all that matters

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 12/27/14 12:01 AM
The only reason I can think of why a man would be concerned with such nonsense is simply to please women. In order for a man to have himself a woman he must first be able to "connect" or "click" with them. But if men did not have to pass the test would they still go out of their way to make that connection? Well, if a man is not feeling it for a woman then it becomes about pleasing her

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Sat 12/27/14 12:06 AM
those that pretend and morph to get for them self, never find nor attain for them self, what will not fail nor go away from them self.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 12/27/14 01:07 AM
The only thing that needs to click for what you're looking for, is your bank card in a debit card machine .. Want my PIN number?

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 12/27/14 01:21 AM
Red the old saying goes "if you don't make the connection you won't be able to use the erection".

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sat 12/27/14 01:24 AM
tequila = connecting device

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Sat 12/27/14 02:22 AM
The only thing that needs to click for what you're looking for, is your bank card in a debit card machine .. Want my PIN number? Yes please! Love a man who wants to take me.. shopping

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 12/27/14 04:37 AM
Personally, I have to have a connection with whoever I'd want to be with for anything!