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Topic: Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums?
mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Wed 12/17/14 06:54 PM
"Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums?" Absolutely. The written word is simply the black-and-white product of one's thoughts... ...and of one's thought processes. Online, there are no tonal inflections, no facial expressions, no hand gestures, and no body language to soften/change the blow of what one's really saying.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Wed 12/17/14 09:28 PM
No I look at it like who am I to judge anyone because everyone has different outlooks on different subjects. However I do see who is compatible with the way I view life.

Chrissyboy2702 Joined Sat 12/06/14 Posts: 275	Wed 12/17/14 10:42 PM
Chatting with someone over a length of time, brimgs out there personality as they can no long hide behind the words they have written, if that makes sense. We all hide stuff or protect ourselves & when you feel comfortable with someone this come out. Just my personel opinion.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 12/18/14 12:01 AM
I'm judging all of you right now. I judged you last night.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Thu 12/18/14 01:12 AM
Chatting with someone over a length of time, brimgs out there personality as they can no long hide behind the words they have written, if that makes sense. We all hide stuff or protect ourselves & when you feel comfortable with someone this come out. Just my personel opinion. i agree

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Thu 12/18/14 05:37 AM
I'm judging all of you right now. I judged you last night.

Someonejust4me Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 1	Thu 12/18/14 06:17 AM
At first yes but, eventually what is written or said must match. But, since this is real life people don't always keep it real. Generally speaking people want you to know the good or what that want to be good in them.

graywolf55 Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1259	Thu 12/18/14 06:26 AM
At first yes but, eventually what is written or said must match. But, since this is real life people don't always keep it real. Generally speaking people want you to know the good or what that want to be good in them.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 12/18/14 06:43 PM
I'm judging all of you right now. I judged you last night. And it felt all tingly.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Thu 12/18/14 06:53 PM
Yes. Hey...don't judge me...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Thu 12/18/14 06:58 PM
"Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums? It depends on whether or not people are being serious with what they say. For example, if a woman here is actually being haughty (instead of pretending to be) in her comments, then I suspect that she is haughty in real life.

lovealbin Joined Sun 04/29/12 Posts: 40	Thu 12/18/14 08:58 PM
I just say. Yes v can. I am writing here what my heart says. So i think it is better to decide a person from forum's.

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Fri 12/19/14 11:53 AM
"Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums? It depends on whether or not people are being serious with what they say. For example, if a woman here is actually being haughty (instead of pretending to be) in her comments, then I suspect that she is haughty in real life. RAWWWWRRRRRRR

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Fri 12/19/14 11:57 AM
"Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums? It depends on whether or not people are being serious with what they say. For example, if a woman here is actually being haughty (instead of pretending to be) in her comments, then I suspect that she is haughty in real life. Do you mean Haughty or...Hottie...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 12/19/14 01:41 PM
"Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums? It depends on whether or not people are being serious with what they say. For example, if a woman here is actually being haughty (instead of pretending to be) in her comments, then I suspect that she is haughty in real life. Do you mean Haughty or...Hottie... On the advice of my lawyer, I plead a Fifth.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 12/19/14 01:53 PM
I'm judging all of you right now. I judged you last night. +1

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 12/19/14 01:55 PM
I'm judging all of you right now. I judged you last night. And it felt all tingly. Something tingled.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 12/19/14 01:58 PM
Online, there are no tonal inflections, no facial expressions, no hand gestures, and no body language to soften/change the blow of what one's really saying. That is why I prefer to use score cards.

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Fri 12/19/14 07:44 PM
"Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums? It depends on whether or not people are being serious with what they say. For example, if a woman here is actually being haughty (instead of pretending to be) in her comments, then I suspect that she is haughty in real life. Do you mean Haughty or...Hottie... On the advice of my lawyer, I plead a Fifth. Take your pick...

zzzippy56 Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 7307	Fri 12/19/14 09:34 PM
Yes for the most part.... Always with a grain of sand..... I mean you definitely see consistency in what some post....