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| Topic: Do you judge people based on their posts in the forums? | |
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I would assess that they choose to present arrogant and rude behavior in the thread in real life, they may be much different, or they may be going through some serious life changes,,,which contribute to their choice I am very hesitant about judging or feeling I can judge the person, when there is so much more to know,,, 
so if i demand something of you, you would not be a beautiful person if you judged that as unacceptable? such is but Utopian wishes of trying to think of one self as a "good person", so not to judge... if i steal from another, are they the "not beautiful", because they judged my actions as unacceptable... biblical notions of "judge not" are the only things typically defined as such that leave mayhem and chaos untouched, saying one should not judge. for good people to judge not allow mayhem and brutality to exist. such are notions believed by what cares only about it's own emotional happiness most, so seek and promote to judge not, but such has nothing to do with creating a better environment for all to live in. for what be more beautiful than a better environment for all, by stopping the actions and words of those whom only care about a good reality for them self. 
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not at all to me.
acceptance of different belief's, taste buds, taste in clothes, preference of employment, colors... that is acceptance of differences... acceptance of malicious intent, rape, murder, thieves, liars, con's, takers, abusers, pedophiles, scum bags... nah... only those that care about none of those things happening to others would say accept all differences as some good moral fiber, and use such as connotation of what constitutes "good people"... 
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not at all to me. acceptance of different belief's, taste buds, taste in clothes, preference of employment, colors... that is acceptance of differences... acceptance of malicious intent, rape, murder, thieves, liars, con's, takers, abusers, pedophiles, scum bags... nah... only those that care about none of those things happening to others would say accept all differences as some good moral fiber, and use such as connotation of what constitutes "good people"...
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I would assess that they choose to present arrogant and rude behavior in the thread in real life, they may be much different, or they may be going through some serious life changes,,,which contribute to their choice I am very hesitant about judging or feeling I can judge the person, when there is so much more to know,,, Yeah, I get that...I said the same thing earlier....But if you're judging words and behavior, you're judging the person... judging them as what? a bad behavior, is a bad behavior on its own,, regardless of who the actor is it is separate from judging the (unique) actor themselves,,, |
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No I don't because most of the time what is written is in responce to other situations or topics. Only when I personally get to speak to them do I form an opinion.
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not at all to me. acceptance of different belief's, taste buds, taste in clothes, preference of employment, colors... that is acceptance of differences... acceptance of malicious intent, rape, murder, thieves, liars, con's, takers, abusers, pedophiles, scum bags... nah... only those that care about none of those things happening to others would say accept all differences as some good moral fiber, and use such as connotation of what constitutes "good people"...
what does "good will always be ridiculed", have to do with stopping harmful actions, by judging them unacceptable and un caring actions with our VOICE, that are perpetrated upon others? did not we judge racism, and stop slavery? who should have walked away? do not we judge each action lawful or unlawful in every court in the land? and are not those judgement's based upon what actions are caring and harmful unto others? are all those judges "not good people", because they judge? but you hit the nail on the head with "it is easier to walk away"... but that just allows another and another to be harmed, while one claim it self be "holy", and a "good person", because it "judged not". such came most from religious doctrines and dogma, propagated by pastors and priests who did not wish for any to JUDGE THEM, so to believe such was "not of god"... but then do they not "judge you', for judging? and as well, in the same book, it was said to "judge all things"... but that one never gets quoted. how convenient. well, many wrongs will indeed happen to one self, since wrongs all around one self will grow, affecting your life, and the lives of all you care about, and all in the world. peace |
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I would assess that they choose to present arrogant and rude behavior in the thread in real life, they may be much different, or they may be going through some serious life changes,,,which contribute to their choice I am very hesitant about judging or feeling I can judge the person, when there is so much more to know,,, Yeah, I get that...I said the same thing earlier....But if you're judging words and behavior, you're judging the person... judging them as what? a bad behavior, is a bad behavior on its own,, regardless of who the actor is it is separate from judging the (unique) actor themselves,,, maling a judgement call as to the "character, values, priorities, integrity, what they deem acceptable and not acceptable, ect ect ect... every aspect of a person is divulged right from their mouth. thing is, not talking about actors, as their real people, doing real things, saying real words, that totally and really effect others, and tell about that person. actors on a screen act. but even that, effects dramatically the mental notions and perceptions believed by people... and what is believed by people, dictates in all ways what they will do. it is not hard if one deems words REAL, to know what any other will do, even long before they actually ever do a physical action.
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OMG,
 ,I feel like I'm back in school again,right now I'm judging some of you folks,and some y'all smart,oo yeah,CRAZY,but smart!   #LOVE DA FORUMS  
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I would assess that they choose to present arrogant and rude behavior in the thread in real life, they may be much different, or they may be going through some serious life changes,,,which contribute to their choice I am very hesitant about judging or feeling I can judge the person, when there is so much more to know,,, Yeah, I get that...I said the same thing earlier....But if you're judging words and behavior, you're judging the person... judging them as what? a bad behavior, is a bad behavior on its own,, regardless of who the actor is it is separate from judging the (unique) actor themselves,,, maling a judgement call as to the "character, values, priorities, integrity, what they deem acceptable and not acceptable, ect ect ect... every aspect of a person is divulged right from their mouth. thing is, not talking about actors, as their real people, doing real things, saying real words, that totally and really effect others, and tell about that person. actors on a screen act. but even that, effects dramatically the mental notions and perceptions believed by people... and what is believed by people, dictates in all ways what they will do. it is not hard if one deems words REAL, to know what any other will do, even long before they actually ever do a physical action.
except this is not my belief people can grow and evolve, they can surprise, disappoint, and make proud there is no real reason to believe that there is KNOWING of a person,, only observing of their actions in isolated moments of their entirety,,, |
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kindlightheart...
you say, "not to walk around with vengeful thoughts"... couldn't AGREE MORE. revenge, OR vengeance, is wishing PAIN FOR ANOTHER, because someone may have harmed "me"... and eye for an eye... that is not the same as "judging others words and actions", for an accurate perception of all they value and hold dear, to acquire and accurate perception of what they will do them self, and will be ok with all others around them self doing... TO STOP HARMFUL ACTIONS BEFORE THEY OCCUR. is that not the idea of a happy place for all. seeking to STOP harmful actions, of all kinds, to protect one's loved one's and others, to keep a good environment for all, cannot be done without first accessing or judging individuals as either encouraging and accepting of "bad", or standing for what are deemed "good" actions and words... our entire society, every civilized society, is built upon not accepting "bad" actions as "good" actions, for the betterment and quality of life FOR ALL... why we deem it "civilized", and what keeps it civilized. well, it once was. obviously not so much anymore. hehehe... smiles...
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sorry Leigh2154...
know that is a lot of words. smiles |
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I would assess that they choose to present arrogant and rude behavior in the thread in real life, they may be much different, or they may be going through some serious life changes,,,which contribute to their choice I am very hesitant about judging or feeling I can judge the person, when there is so much more to know,,, Yeah, I get that...I said the same thing earlier....But if you're judging words and behavior, you're judging the person... judging them as what? a bad behavior, is a bad behavior on its own,, regardless of who the actor is it is separate from judging the (unique) actor themselves,,, maling a judgement call as to the "character, values, priorities, integrity, what they deem acceptable and not acceptable, ect ect ect... every aspect of a person is divulged right from their mouth. thing is, not talking about actors, as their real people, doing real things, saying real words, that totally and really effect others, and tell about that person. actors on a screen act. but even that, effects dramatically the mental notions and perceptions believed by people... and what is believed by people, dictates in all ways what they will do. it is not hard if one deems words REAL, to know what any other will do, even long before they actually ever do a physical action.
except this is not my belief people can grow and evolve, they can surprise, disappoint, and make proud there is no real reason to believe that there is KNOWING of a person,, only observing of their actions in isolated moments of their entirety,,, nobody is saying they can't do "good things" too. 
say no, and if there is "anger", pressure, coercion, demands, than you KNOW, how much they have to learn, in the now and real, to make create a good life, FOR THEM SELF, and all others that KNOW THEM. and who cares about another having an awesome life for them self, cares if they make ONE SELF PROUD?
"only observing of their actions in isolated moments of their entirety"...... that's abstract... not sure the essence of that meaning... but one thing is for sure, compartmentalizing others words and actions into such will but allow one to know isolated moments of true real reality.
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Edited by
Amelinng
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Tue 12/16/14 02:02 AM
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After getting to know some people from the forums, it was a surprise sometimes to find that the person that posts and the person I talk to can be absolutely different.
Some who are devils on the posts are actually angels in disguise, but then again, some are as we read them in the posts.....so, it is best not to 'prejudge' based on their posts. |
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 we are all that and MORE....
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we are all that and MORE....
  ...Wishing your and your family a Beautiful Holiday Season!...
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You too lovely!
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I'm judging all of you right now.
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I'm judging all of you right now. Good, can you send me the breakdown?....I'm behind schedule....
(((((Matt)))))... |
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It's top secret.
(((((Leigh))))) |
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yes
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