what do you do! when your lover or partner...
gives you the proverbial... cold shoulder..... that is throughout the day or week.. depending on your sex drive..you drop hints.. that you need servicing so to speak..lol....
. you get into bed with them..
... thinking that your.. subtle. but provocative hints.have worked..
. their magic... and they give you the cold shoulder..... what do you do then..
... yes this.. probably won't stay up for a long.. ohhh..
the topic I mean...lol
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Lol.. .. yes don't we all..
. glad you're home safe from your party.... unfortunately or fortunately alone.. ... have a great sleep..

Oh ... one more before bed.
What I do? Kill him! Then throw him out the window. Never get involved with someone with a low sex-drive ... ever again!!
I need my quality time, lol. Regularly.

I don't believe in using sex as a weapon.


Having said that, I DO believe foreplay begins the moment our eyes open and we say "Good Morning" to each other...and continues throughout the day; it is NOT an act that begins 5 minutes before the Main Event.

Thank you :)
And yes, I guess we all do need that.. also depends how often you get the cold shoulder. For me it was 9.9999999999 out of 10 times. I need a bit more than 6 times a year on average.. and that would be a good year ..

Hmm.. that's just a little too much information...lol..jk.. I feel your pain.. ... a man should always keep his woman satisfied..
. even if he has a headache..lol

Agree, sometimes it begins in the morning, sometimes 2 minutes before the Main Event, lol.
I got Venus in Aries ... I can't help myself, lol

* I think I best go to bed now, haha *

Awww.. you don't have to go to bed..
... just go slip into something comfortable.... get into bed all comfy..
and continue to mingle...mmmm

sorry .. I'm shattered, I can get blunt when I'm tired
I'll go to bed and leave you be ..

Nahhhh, I was more alluding to men who spend the day barking out orders to their little women, criticize what she's wearing, b*tch about her 3 grey hairs/5 extra pounds/2 laugh lines around her eyes, sit on their arses while she cleans the house top-to-bottom, does the laundry and mows the lawn

and then suddenly realize they're horny and wanna get some, so they start laying it on thick as the lights start getting turned off for bedtime.


Rumor has it there's one or two of THOSE kind in this world.

I did mention subtle hints throughout the week right..�?....
.. but yes! that seems to be a common scenario, I here all the time..
.. men tend to want servicing.. when they want servicing.... no pre warm up required..... ok along the line of this topic.... how much pre warm up do. you require...... is it as simple as helping out with the dishes... helping with the housework.... or do we need to send flowers and take you out for dinner... or does spooning up against you work.... perhaps a little oral pre warm up for you.....lol

My ex had giving "the cold shoulder" perfected.
I got careless once, kissing her on the shoulder.
Lips stuck...had to pour warm water over them, to get free.

I will have to get back to you on that as my friend is going through that right now with his wife for the last 3 years; cut off completely but still married after 29 years so I guess its not that bad or he would have left her by now.

I"ve never really dealt with the cold shoulder when it comes to sex and i have a very high sex drive and no partner has ever turned me down regarding that....
however i have had the cold shoulder in other issues but even that didn't last long.....



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Oh, c'mon now...you truly believe ALL women require/desire the same treatment from each and every man, each and every time.

AND, you truly believe I'm going to put out on the internet, for all eternity, "First, I want you to ______, then __________, and finish it off with a _________ and a tongue-swirl to the left"?!?

~Pfffffttttt~ Mystery, my dear. And, that's part OF the getting to know each other part. AND, it changes with each man.





Oh, and YES...a little "oral pre warm up" DOES work for me. "Oral" as in not talking *like* an arsehole all the while simultaneously not acting *like* one, too.



Thanks for asking!!!

oh you're very welcome...lol..
and there's nothing wrong with a little oral.. pre warm up.... I mean apart from the... flattering words the bit of flirtatious.. back and forth thing.. while doing dishes or making supper.. the very enticing quick little shoulder massage.. as a tease......

. the soft neck kissing and ear nibbling..... perhaps just listening to her tell you about her day....

..... asking if there's something you can do to help.... lighten her load so to speak.....

.. but then when it comes to the bedroom.... I prefer working my way from the top down to the bottom....
.. just let her know that she "....."comes "first in my life..
so to speak..
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Ahhh, well, then. No mystery there, for all eternity (or until the internet is replaced by The Next Great Thing).

No mystery as to why the adage is "Nice guys finish last", either. If it was anything else, he wouldn't be a called a "Nice Guy"...


...he'd be labeled a "Selfish Lover".

The cold shoulder,..the silent treatment,...I don't get either one... Don't do it to others and can't stand it done to me...just don't see how someone who truly is supposed to care about you would want to reduce you to a groveling, begging fool...and usually that kind of behavior is only done when the person who is giving the cold shoulder/silent treatment is the one who is wrong in the first place,..forcing you to go against what you believe to be right...just my opinion..and if someone does it to me...I would poke them with a pin...bet it would make them spit something out..or drop the shoulder for a minute...lol

and as far as "my needs"...wouldn't give him the satisfaction of begging...God didn't make humans like
T-Rex probably for that reason...sic..lol

Well see....there is this thing called porn that was 69% created for this very reason.