How do you know if the one you meet is your soulmate??
What do you think will happen?
My daughter had a psychic reading and the person said she was with her soulmate..even though he was annoying and a lot of work he was it.
I've been married twice and I loved both men. Very much but for reasons they did not work. I am still good friends with both men and their families. I still love the men but not the way I once did.
So how do I know if the next man is my soulmate or not?

I don't think you ever do,the same feeling/feelings people get when they found them is pretty much the same some of us get when we THINK we found that "soul mate",and sometimes we may THINK we found them only to find out even a couple of well years further down we were wrong!

And also,what exactly IS a soul mate?,The definition may differ a bit depending on you ask!

Soulmate as in your other half? Most ppl don't because they themselves are simply not ready for such a tremendous deep level connection yet. You got to work through basically all your garbage in order to be ready for that.
Not a 100% sure, but I think that automatically would mean your Kundalini channel is properly activated and opened, fully.

Having a relationship with A soulmate (you got quite a lot of those) can happen, probably happens most of the time. Twin-soul = similar thing (you got more than one of those too) relationships as well.
A soulmate can be in your life for anything between 5 minutes to 1 year to a life-time. Throughout life you meet quite a lot of soulmates, some can be friends, some maybe family, some complete strangers you see in a shop and feel an instant connection with etc. etc. (Your true other half is the Twin Ray)

Usually you have a feeling of recognition when you first see each other, you literally feel as if you know each other, sometimes as if you've known each other for hundreds of years (which may be true). Deep trust, way beyond what is normal for someone you just met.
The distinction between a soulmate and a twin soul is rather subtle, so difficult to tell what your dealing with. A twin soul is 'closer to home' than a soulmate though.

Such relationships can be very good, but they can also be very difficult --> Usually they're about learning, teaching each other lessons, by mirroring, and this is not always very pleasant.
But you do have a very deep bond and connection, which enables you to take on the lesson mirrored. You DO have the trust and connection for that.

Anyways, in short (this is not the right place to go into any depth on spiritual issues) it usually starts with feeling a very deep connection. And this is on a deeper level than "just being in love", far deeper.

Read about it online... Google Twin-flame, Twin-Ray etc to learn what it's about, what it feels like and so on.