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I personally dont need a man for money, since I make good money.......
But there will be no room for a guy who can't handle his money.....been there done that wont do it again! |
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I've dated money, they guy was the most, cold , unfeeling person I have ever met ...
A nice hard-working-, honest, thoughtful, considerate, passionate, and compassionate man will do just fine for me Is that too much to ask?!? |
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When I win the lottery, I will bring this post up again!!!!
LMAO |
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And I also agree with willy. Hard work cost me too.......
Now I just work 5 days a week instead of 7!!!!! |
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I agree Unsure...thank you...
Hi Gypsy... Yeah..he needs to be mature & responsible.. .It seems that the more money SOME men have.... the tighter they are with it... and the more control they want in your life. and SOME think that all women are after his money, which isn't true... I'd just like a good honest faithful man. If he has some things...cool... we'll use them as tools.... but, that is not my first goal when seeking as mate... and I dont base my self worth on how much money I have. I have never been a gold digger kind of woman, or I could easily have a lot of things, and a string of ex-husbands... like some vicious deceitful, money-hungry women I've known and heard about... and it is those kind of women who try to give good woman a bad name, and visa versa... and if I were only after material things, I could easliy have a string of ex husbands... but, I want to marry someone for love.. |
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i NEED A man who let me control the money because normally i am the smarter of the 2!!! hahaaaaaaaaaa!!!
Actually years ago people thought I should be a financial advisor because I could live a decent life and still go on trips twice a year.......and live off $12000 a year......so ya I need someone extremely smart and if they are smart then they would let me control where the money goes..... Its all logistics!!! |
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Raising 6 kids pretty much alone, I learned hard work and tolerance. It's been 2 years since the last one left home, and my "dates"..... well, let's just say, what I know is hard work and caring/providing/love. Someone changed the rules about dating while I was being a father. You see my user name, you can imagine my surprize!
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exactly...
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i meant that for gypsy
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and yea..Ken....
..there definitely are a lot of psychos around... & child molestors... & human predators... It's a zoo out there... gotta be so careful... |
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Yeh, it's a new world out here! Still trying to figure it out!
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I'm a simple man with a creative mind, dreams and desires. If you take the time to know me, I am the poetic heart, I seek the beauty in all things, the wonder. It is my "rock" I seek. The heart that inspires. Dreams are simply realities yet unfulfilled. In my dreams, I am not alone.
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wow a lot happened in here since my first post.I think maybe a few of you have been taken and now think that most of us are just like that.I've lived a comfortable life but not a lot of money only paycheck to paycheck.I think a lot of us live like that.Never really had a lot of material things and could care less if I ever did.Money is the root of all evil.The people I do know that have a lot of money are not happy.I would take love and happiness over money any day.With all that said NPP will you marry me LOL
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I couldn't give a toss about money, income or what kind of car he drives, house he lives in...etc etc..
I do however care about the choice of work he does, from an ethical place....not that I can judge him for his choices. Some jobs dont sit well with me...it's something I have to learn, I guess, to be more tolerant. Hardworking? Passionate about the work he does is more important to me. Compassionate about the world he walks in is the main factor for me. |
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I have met some gold diggers, used them as they used me. When what I was getting wasn't worth what I was taking, I told them so. No one can be used unless they allow it. Men or women, no difference. Have also met some very WONDERFUL ladies, that wanted the type of relationship, I am not ready to give. We are still friends. Money is a tool, we all use as WE chose.
I downsized for peace in my life & am MUCH happier. |
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Myself have always worked for what I have never had money per say but have always had a roof over my head and food on the table. My kids have always had the things they needed and to me that was good enough for me. I've never been a material person in life just as long as I live a comfortable life I'm happy. Money does not buy you happiness.
As far as passing one by for what they can give you never have have passed them by for what they say in there profiles. Or because I don't feel as if I would be there type. |
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