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As for me, when I see her holding a drink, she is done. also been known to invite them to go clubbing, when they say yes i fold. ... but thats kinda off topic.
i like REAL pics, short bios.., and honest conversation.

if his or her post on forums attracted me , good headline on the profile and then the interests so the info more important to me <<<===

something real not a scammer

He has to be taller than me He can be near perfect, but if he's shorter ... not gonna work.
So first thing I check when a guy catches my eye, or sends me a message, is his height ...

When it comes to pictures, someone that has positive feel about him, sparkling eyes (and you can not fake that). Although I read the other day that contact lenses help, as they make your eyes shine a tad more.

I don't like pictures of men shoving pizza slices or food in their gobs, or holding big jugs ... of beer. I find that extremely off-putting.

Profile text should reflect a positive attitude towards life, I am allergic to ppl that feel sorry for themselves. Sense of humour can be nice, although a slightly more serious text can have a positive feel as well.

Interesting post in the forum then i'll checkout the profile...also want to see lots of candid shots,.filled up profiles,.and smile the reaches the eyes... No answer profiles makes me think he/she is lazy,. I mean, cmon, its about you,but you can't be bothered? ..geez!

Pictures...The more, the better ...Short descriptions about where you are in life... as in retired, single mom/dad..career/job...Interests/hobbies...Finally a sense of humor and something unique will peek my interest every time...What's checked in the "boxes" doesn't make or break it for me...I'm going for personality first and, as someone else said, a sense of realness.....

Real pictures, filled-up basic info on profiles plus a good sense of humor

I just show some pics of me in different things; especially a military photo and men run in the opposite direction which suits me fine.