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Topic: It Depends On Your Attraction
Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sat 10/04/14 06:39 PM Edited by Awatersign on Sat 10/04/14 06:48 PM
This is why I a woman with a good sense of humor can easily steal my ,WAIT,not easily,no,but steal it!! a sense of humor has nothing to do with the attraction factoring into compliments. For me it does,those were the ones I found myself more attracted to,even at some point ,best of friends,sooo,actually it does to some degree! you mean is a compliment depends on how the receiver will view it?? I simply was trying to say that,most people with a good sense of humor ,usually are more easier going,(you can compliment them without it being some big deal ect),and those are the ones I dig!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 10/04/14 06:40 PM
well I think the op.. is speaking on.. .. connection.. how if you have a connection.. with someone physically or emotionally.... how your compliments are words.... can be taken.. as a sincere form of a..compliment... but if there is no attraction... those same words.. can be taken... are seen to come off as creepy.... at least that is how I'm reading it.... but my question still stands to Klc... this is the title of the thread: 'It depends o.n your attraction'. ...ohhh.. come on!! that's it.. .. that's all you are going to give me.. .. I was expecting at least a spanking.. .. maybe a firm kick in my butt...hmm . are you feeling okay..?.. you're not sick or anything...?.. oh I know... there's somebody there with you with a gun... keeping you from.. letting me have it...ok... just blink twice if I'm right.... and scratch your nose if I'm wrong...lol...jk.. .. truly hope you're okay though..

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sat 10/04/14 06:47 PM
This is why I a woman with a good sense of humor can easily steal my ,WAIT,not easily,no,but steal it!! a sense of humor has nothing to do with the attraction factoring into compliments. For me it does,those were the ones I found myself more attracted to,even at some point ,best of friends,sooo,actually it does to some degree! the thread isnt about what you like about a partner...its about whether attraction to the person making 'advances' etc will decide whether you find them complimentary, or creepy. And far as what the thread is about,I say what I want,you're NOT the site monitor,and the way I see it,almost ever topic ,people go waaayyy off topic,so you need to sit small !!

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Sat 10/04/14 07:01 PM
it's all pheromones beach, all pheromones :)- Hi bastet long time no see. They sent you away...didnt they? Pheromones? Yeah you think so. So you talk to someone once and if it goes well you guys exchange underwear through the mail. Was that lewd?..lol I know its 100% subjective. Some like Bill Cosby and some like Richard Prior and some can enjoy all . I'm not convinced its a "Cosby crowd" and the dynamics change about as ofter as you mail your pheromones...jk IDK How often do you mail your Pheromones snickers;) nice to see you again.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Sat 10/04/14 07:06 PM
it's all pheromones beach, all pheromones :)- Hi bastet long time no see. They sent you away...didnt they? Pheromones? Yeah you think so. So you talk to someone once and if it goes well you guys exchange underwear through the mail. Was that lewd?..lol I know its 100% subjective. Some like Bill Cosby and some like Richard Prior and some can enjoy all . I'm not convinced its a "Cosby crowd" and the dynamics change about as ofter as you mail your pheromones...jk IDK How often do you mail your Pheromones snickers;) nice to see you again. hey pony, haha!! you need to upgrade to the scratch and sniff mingle2 :)- good to see you back in usual humor, and pryor was riot!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sat 10/04/14 07:10 PM Edited by Awatersign on Sat 10/04/14 07:16 PM
This is why I a woman with a good sense of humor can easily steal my ,WAIT,not easily,no,but steal it!! a sense of humor has nothing to do with the attraction factoring into compliments. For me it does,those were the ones I found myself more attracted to,even at some point ,best of friends,sooo,actually it does to some degree! the thread isnt about what you like about a partner...its about whether attraction to the person making 'advances' etc will decide whether you find them complimentary, or creepy. And far as what the thread is about,I say what I want,you're NOT the site monitor,and the way I see it,almost ever topic ,people go waaayyy off topic,so you need to sit small !! when did I tell you what you could or couldnt say? what are you on about? I get that you now see you went off topic. Thats all I was trina help you with. That was NOT ,off topic!!,And I was sayin if that even were to be the case,what's the biggie!! What I was sayin IS related to the topic!!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 10/04/14 07:13 PM
.. Dave.. where's David with the popcorn when you need him..: flowerforyou:

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Sat 10/04/14 07:59 PM
it's all pheromones beach, all pheromones :)- Hi bastet long time no see. They sent you away...didnt they? Pheromones? Yeah you think so. So you talk to someone once and if it goes well you guys exchange underwear through the mail. Was that lewd?..lol I know its 100% subjective. Some like Bill Cosby and some like Richard Prior and some can enjoy all . I'm not convinced its a "Cosby crowd" and the dynamics change about as ofter as you mail your pheromones...jk IDK How often do you mail your Pheromones snickers;) nice to see you again. hey pony, haha!! you need to upgrade to the scratch and sniff mingle2 :)- good to see you back in usual humor, and pryor was riot! Oh really! Pheromones via scrach n sniff. ..do I ever feel stupid now with my mailing comments. people will think I'm from the bush yes Pryor and Carlin swap for the #1 stand up Comedian of all time on a few top 12 lists. clean comics;Cos at #8 and Seinfeld is #11 do I bother you? I'm doing a survey. (On topic) I agree with The OP "Life's funny that way" and it may be rare for many to find that mutual connection through their lives. Ok a Priest a Rabbi and a donkey walk into a bar...

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 10/04/14 08:01 PM
doesn't it? "I really really like that picture of you in the pink blouse/blue shirt!" (innocent and banal enough statement) If you're attracted to the person, it is incredibly flattering and makes you smile, and feel a "certain way". If you are NOT, it suddenly is "creepy", and makes you feel a whole DIFFERENT way. Sad but true. No? beach I love that tshirt yur wearing.!!!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 10/04/14 08:07 PM
doesn't it? "I really really like that picture of you in the pink blouse/blue shirt!" (innocent and banal enough statement) If you're attracted to the person, it is incredibly flattering and makes you smile, and feel a "certain way". If you are NOT, it suddenly is "creepy", and makes you feel a whole DIFFERENT way. Sad but true. No? beach I love that tshirt yur wearing.!!! or beach I love that tshirt yur wearing.

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Sat 10/04/14 08:17 PM
beach I love that tshirt yur wearing.!!! or beach I love that tshirt yur wearing. or beach I love that tshirt yur wearing.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Sat 10/04/14 08:23 PM Edited by ridewytepony on Sat 10/04/14 08:25 PM
doesn't it? "I really really like that picture of you in the pink blouse/blue shirt!" (innocent and banal enough statement) If you're attracted to the person, it is incredibly flattering and makes you smile, and feel a "certain way". If you are NOT, it suddenly is "creepy", and makes you feel a whole DIFFERENT way. Sad but true. No? beach I love that tshirt yur wearing.!!! Lol...I didnt see it...you must be talking about the pink blouse he makes reference to in his OP...if he doesn't put it back up we will know your sincere and thoughtful comments make him feel uncomfortable.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sat 10/04/14 09:59 PM
doesn't it? "I really really like that picture of you in the pink blouse/blue shirt!" (innocent and banal enough statement) If you're attracted to the person, it is incredibly flattering and makes you smile, and feel a "certain way". If you are NOT, it suddenly is "creepy", and makes you feel a whole DIFFERENT way. Sad but true. No? Are you asking if you're right or wrong? Cuz, you know you're wrong.....

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24716	Sun 10/05/14 01:12 AM
doesn't it? "I really really like that picture of you in the pink blouse/blue shirt!" (innocent and banal enough statement) If you're attracted to the person, it is incredibly flattering and makes you smile, and feel a "certain way". If you are NOT, it suddenly is "creepy", and makes you feel a whole DIFFERENT way. Sad but true. No? Are you asking if you're right or wrong? Cuz, you know you're wrong..... No, I actually...and completely know I am wrong!!!!........I just feel so incredibly privileged that a woman like you would even look my wrong azz way!!!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33412	Sun 10/05/14 03:24 AM
Hmmm... you do come up with real good questions. It can work that way, but it doesn't always, not for me anyway. A compliment is still a compliment. And yet ... sometimes it does work that way. So I think the determining factor is what you yourself aim to achieve with a picture. If the goal is to have a nice piccie, you'd prolly take a compliment as a compliment, regardless whom it's from. However, if you aim to attract a specific type of person and the 'wrong' person compliments you, you may feel it's creepy & "eewww!" So I think, yes, your own expectations have a lot to do with it.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24716	Sun 10/05/14 10:48 AM
doesn't it? "I really really like that picture of you in the pink blouse/blue shirt!" (innocent and banal enough statement) If you're attracted to the person, it is incredibly flattering and makes you smile, and feel a "certain way". If you are NOT, it suddenly is "creepy", and makes you feel a whole DIFFERENT way. Sad but true. No? beach I love that tshirt yur wearing.!!! or beach I love that tshirt yur wearing. Aaaaw Shucks!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 10/06/14 11:20 AM
Here's what I know about it: indifference/nonchalance = not attracted.