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Topic: A PASSIONATE APPEAL TO WOMEN
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Wed 10/01/14 03:39 PM

Research and experiences have proved that divorce is more stressful to men than women.Many lives of men in their millions have been cut short because of divorce experiences.A Woman's emotion and body was designed to absolve shock and deal with it without much harm,but not that of men.If only you know the havoc you wreck on us when you file a divorce suit over frivolous and trivial issues that could be resolved if only more patience and time are allowed.Pls,consider these when next you are are provoked by our damned ego


80% of all statistics are made up on the spot, to justify some b.s. theory or another.

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Wed 10/01/14 03:44 PM


Research and experiences have proved that divorce is more stressful to men than women.Many lives of men in their millions have been cut short because of divorce experiences.A Woman's emotion and body was designed to absolve shock and deal with it without much harm,but not that of men.If only you know the havoc you wreck on us when you file a divorce suit over frivolous and trivial issues that could be resolved if only more patience and time are allowed.Pls,consider these when next you are are provoked by our damned ego


80% of all statistics are made up on the spot, to justify some b.s. theory or another.


4 out of 5 doctors agree with this.

bashajones's photo
Wed 10/01/14 03:45 PM
LOL at monkey-man.....laugh

uche9aa's photo
Wed 10/01/14 04:31 PM
Edited by uche9aa on Wed 10/01/14 04:38 PM

divorce is worst on the children.
adults have the opportunity to make choices, whether they are positive or not.
the children are the ones who get dragged through it. some parents use children as a bargaining tool for more money or in revenge against the other parent if they move on to a new relationship.
children are caught in the middle when their parents can't be civilized with each other and try to make a child pick one over the other.

Thats the other side of the coin also.But most women rush to divorce,knowing that the law favours them most.Lopsided laws against men in many countries that leave them devastated

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 10/01/14 06:18 PM

But most women rush to divorce,knowing that the law favours them most.Lopsided laws against men in many countries that leave them devastated


And the evidence that supports your claim is ...

mrld_ii's photo
Wed 10/01/14 07:10 PM
Factually-speaking

http://www.divorce-lawyer-source.com/faq/emotional/who-initiates-divorce-men-or-women.html

2/3rd of the time, the woman files for divorce.


Why does a woman file for divorce? Factually-speaking

http://divorcedmoms.com/articles/6-reasons-women-file-for-divorce-more-often-than-men

Generally-speaking, it's because women are the emotional safeguards OF the relationship; when SHE'S had enough and is done trying to work it out, SHE finds the impetus to end it. Generally speaking, men allow their fear of (their perceived) financial repercussions of divorce keep them from filing, long after they've emotionally checked out of the marriage.

Who fares better after a divorce? Factually-speaking

http://divorcedmoms.com/articles/the-financial-and-emotional-realities-of-divorce-for-women

Generally speaking, emotionally SHE does, because don't forget it was SHE who filed for the divorce after being emotionally drained. Generally speaking, if their are children still in the home, she will NOT fare well financially.


BOTH parties should take their wedding vows and commitments to one another equally as seriously, ESpecially when there are children still being raised. This means HE needs to be more in tune when she's reached her breaking point OF continuing her emotional investment IN the relationship and begin "trying to work it out" long before she's uttered the words, "Perhaps we'd be better off if we got a divorce." The three women in the U.S. who woke up on the wrong side of the bed and divorced their husbands simply for sh*ts and giggles need to stop giving ALL us "emotionally absolvable" women a bad name.




You're welcome.


Oh, and all I did to find this reliable information was to Google "Who initiates divorce more", "why do women initiate divorce", and "who fares better after divorce". Then I scanned through the (at least) "over 587,000 results found" looking for the most reputable sources to see what the findings actually were.


It's a great tool to use when one wants to remove emotional, knee-jerking reactionism when forming one's thoughts and opinions on subjects.


drinks





uche9aa's photo
Thu 10/02/14 01:27 AM
Edited by uche9aa on Thu 10/02/14 01:42 AM
Good and objective response

Conrad_73's photo
Thu 10/02/14 01:45 AM


divorce is worst on the children.
adults have the opportunity to make choices, whether they are positive or not.
the children are the ones who get dragged through it. some parents use children as a bargaining tool for more money or in revenge against the other parent if they move on to a new relationship.
children are caught in the middle when their parents can't be civilized with each other and try to make a child pick one over the other.

Thats the other side of the coin also.But most women rush to divorce,knowing that the law favours them most.Lopsided laws against men in many countries that leave them devastated

Man,you really traipsing in it all the time!laugh

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Thu 10/02/14 03:45 AM


Man I love the Enquirer magazine. :thumbsup:


Me too! It's where I get all my news.

Love the picture Ruth.
Wizard of Oz, my fav movie of all time.
A little off topic but I don't give a flying f+++

Conrad_73's photo
Thu 10/02/14 03:50 AM


divorce is worst on the children.
adults have the opportunity to make choices, whether they are positive or not.
the children are the ones who get dragged through it. some parents use children as a bargaining tool for more money or in revenge against the other parent if they move on to a new relationship.
children are caught in the middle when their parents can't be civilized with each other and try to make a child pick one over the other.

Thats the other side of the coin also.But most women rush to divorce,knowing that the law favours them most.Lopsided laws against men in many countries that leave them devastated


you really need to put some Lenses in those Spec-Frames!bigsmile

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Thu 10/02/14 07:00 AM

Research and experiences have proved that divorce is more stressful to men than women.Many lives of men in their millions have been cut short because of divorce experiences.A Woman's emotion and body was designed to absolve shock and deal with it without much harm,but not that of men.If only you know the havoc you wreck on us when you file a divorce suit over frivolous and trivial issues that could be resolved if only more patience and time are allowed.Pls,consider these when next you are are provoked by our damned ego


As others state, this^^ is bullchit...laugh laugh laugh

I think it's about Mars and Venus, not right and wrong or who loves the deepest...How many of you ladies have experienced this, last night you had a fight with your man and this morning he acts as if nothing happened?...Men and women are different so we process and react to things differently...No one, not even our partners can decide the depth of our love or the amount of emotional pain we experience when the relationship ends...Who ends it is not necessarily the deciding factor either...I can only speak for myself here, but I have never walked away from a relationship yet because I stopped loving him...Believe me, I wish that was what happened, it would have been so much easier that way....

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Thu 10/02/14 07:01 AM


Man I love the Enquirer magazine. :thumbsup:


Me too! It's where I get all my news.


That and Facebook.....same thing if you ask me. :wink:

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Thu 10/02/14 07:20 AM



Man I love the Enquirer magazine. :thumbsup:


Me too! It's where I get all my news.

Love the picture Ruth.
Wizard of Oz, my fav movie of all time.
A little off topic but I don't give a flying monkey f+++

fixed that for ya. :wink:

Leigh, I don't believe you ever stop loving anyone. That's why there is grieving.

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Thu 10/02/14 07:22 AM




Man I love the Enquirer magazine. :thumbsup:


Me too! It's where I get all my news.

Love the picture Ruth.
Wizard of Oz, my fav movie of all time.
A little off topic but I don't give a flying monkey f+++

fixed that for ya. :wink:

Leigh, I don't believe you ever stop loving anyone. That's why there is grieving.


Morning ((((((Fleta))))))flowerforyou ..For the most part, I agree...Unfortunately, experience has taught me that love can be destroyed....brokenheart

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Thu 10/02/14 07:29 AM
Edited by fleta_n_mach on Thu 10/02/14 07:30 AM
The ideal of love destroyed, yes, I agree. Sad but true. There's that Metallica song....:tongue: (((Leigh)))flowerforyou

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Thu 10/02/14 11:49 AM
Edited by uche9aa on Thu 10/02/14 12:05 PM

The ideal of love destroyed, yes, I agree. Sad but true. There's that Metallica song....:tongue: (((Leigh)))flowerforyou
For the good of all,learning purposes and precautions,what are those factors that "destroy love" Can we read the list?

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 10/03/14 07:47 PM
If a married woman has a good reason for filing for divorce, then it doesn't really matter what a complete stranger thinks about the situation ...

... especially if the complete stranger hasn't revealed his own marital status (Hint, hint!).

Mdarlene's photo
Fri 10/03/14 07:57 PM
oh grow up there are always two sides to every story, just remember I can still hide your cats:banana:

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