I'm not that desperate enough to look for a guy, But for now i really want first to have a good talk, Knowing each other deeply through having a decent conversation, Coz i am afraid of getting into a relationship that was not serious, I came from a 5yrs relationship with a lesbian, its beeen so long, thats why fear is there to be with a guy from nearby, maybe i could just hurt him realizing and comparing things i had before, But now i want to look and find for a guy that will help me forget the past and let our spark begins step by step. Is it possible for me to still fall for a guy?

If you are too busy comparing what you had with what you have, you have yet to learn from the former relationship and of yourself..

Long distance relationship thingy or not...

Tis nobody's responsibility to help you forget a past relationship but your own..

yeah i know i guess with the help of someone who will loves me seriously and WILL Show me what does true love really means, Im not really looking im just waiting that someday somehow, Someone will change my perspectives.

Hey...
Realy....
Come with me to chat...

You seem confused....

And that's how it starts......

Steffanie, Singapore is very far away. You are very very attractive young lady and more than enough to fall for you, but that's also the problem.
There are not many things that can fck up the guy more than being in love way over head and then having to face the reality that he'll never be together with her.

Before this christmas I will be in love with someone and that someone shall know what a true love means and we gonna have the best time ever.
But LDR with true love involved, could really end with hell pain.

So Stef... What do you do, when a real man (not these horny 4ssh0les you see in every thread, playing their broken record) takes you from your word and starts LDR with you? Are you willing to move? Or how do you imagine the things will work out with you? or is it just an experiment for you?

I wont say that this shall be an experiment for me, because i wont try it if i am not ready yet, I will be choosing the right path i can possibly be with for the rest of my life. I just wanted it to be slow and secured by knowing him deeply, getting comfortable with him in every way. So if we have the chance of meeting each other it would be the bestest one!

love for me is making some thing together that wont dry up. every thing has to end, so when thats all said and done and you and who ever are in the dumps some where, you still have some thing strong between you. and in my view those will be the memories and little things u did every day for each other

I wonder how did he feel?