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wow how much time do you guys spend on here looking when you could be out having a life? lol, was just posting this thinking about how much time I've spent on here and other sites looking but never really finding anyone that truly stands out above the rest.....am I crazy or just tired of the looking and waiting???
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well if you start your message out by trying and failing to insult people like this
geee i wonder why you are alone best wishes on your hunt |
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was just saying that as people online we spend too much time looking and not enough time living, thats all
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wow how much time do you guys spend on here looking when you could be out having a life? lol, was just posting this thinking about how much time I've spent on here and other sites looking but never really finding anyone that truly stands out above the rest.....am I crazy or just tired of the looking and waiting??? Finding is easy and there are quite few outstanding posters in this forum, but getting them interested of YOU... Thats a whole other matter. And wth you talking about having a life? Payday is still a week away, what kinda life can you possibly have without the roll, man? "Can I buy you a tea, lov?" (shrugs) But yeah, once the roll is in the pocket and its friday, there is no excuse of not trying to get a life. No argument there. |
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was just saying that as people online we spend too much time looking and not enough time living, thats all I understand what you are saying but for me ... |
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I get your point, david_north2013.
I think there are a lot of reasons folks spend time on-line searching...tired of blind dates, tired of the folks friends fix us up with... and wonder if they ever knew us at all, tired of the bar scene, and on and on. I do think it's important not to become obsessed with finding someone, on-line or otherwise, and to continue living our lives, and developing interests that will provide opportunities to meet folks, and not to be in a hurry to make it happen. As the saying goes, it happens when we least expect it, and often with someone we least expected. |
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Edited by
makenwallo
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Fri 09/19/14 12:55 PM
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it doesn't work with me too but i met dear friends
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I get your point, david_north2013. I think there are a lot of reasons folks spend time on-line searching...tired of blind dates, tired of the folks friends fix us up with... and wonder if they ever knew us at all, tired of the bar scene, and on and on. I do think it's important not to become obsessed with finding someone, on-line or otherwise, and to continue living our lives, and developing interests that will provide opportunities to meet folks, and not to be in a hurry to make it happen. As the saying goes, it happens when we least expect it, and often with someone we least expected. i like this opinion |
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Not sure you are using M2 as the tool it is meant to be.
Why not hang out with others in the same boat, while you wait for love to cart you off? Enjoining the forums allows you to spread what charm you have over a wide varied group. That is how most of the hookups on here have happened. You talk to someone, you gain interest in them, then BAM, you can get hit with the love bug. You will be throwing up in no time. |
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well when i was single , i would rather look for love on the net rather then real life
a few reasons are 1 easier to run away from the crazy people 2 life don't come with an ignore button (not that i use it but i do have the option if i want to) 3 single people in real life don't have a sign saying that they are single <shrug> 4 you can get a clue where someone's head is at before you take the time and money to waist on something that isn't going to work |
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was just saying that as people online we spend too much time looking and not enough time living, thats all Your cute. Just making progress! |
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You mean I was looking in the mirror too much?
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I'm looking for a solemate.
It's true, walking is more comfortable, if both shoes have matching tread patterns. |
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I get your point, david_north2013. I think there are a lot of reasons folks spend time on-line searching...tired of blind dates, tired of the folks friends fix us up with... and wonder if they ever knew us at all, tired of the bar scene, and on and on. I do think it's important not to become obsessed with finding someone, on-line or otherwise, and to continue living our lives, and developing interests that will provide opportunities to meet folks, and not to be in a hurry to make it happen. As the saying goes, it happens when we least expect it, and often with someone we least expected. i like this opinion |
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Check out how Amy Fisher met her husband.
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i think a lot of people have that problem.
I have been on many dating site for a few years now and its hard to find some one as there is millions of people on line and more than haft off them are looking for hook ups or endless email for people twice my age. i have been on this site a few days now and i have been using the form mattes but it seem to me people just post in them but they DONT SEAM TO READ true peoples comments so it get very hard to know someone in the community rooms as there are not live chats...........what can i say to the op when im out off ideas ,such as life !! |
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it is all a question of balance... online dating.. supplements real life dating...
.... when I have depleted the local resources in my area..lol... . I start looking online for new source material.lol... cast a larger net so to speak...lmao. |
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You may want to do more than look and wait. Many of us come here for the conversations that can be had. Whether these conversations lead to friendships or romance is for you to discover. Or you could just wait. Sounds kinda boring tho. This medium allows for participation whenever its convenient for you. That way you can go out and enjoy the day and your life, and include online conversation, in addition, and not 'instead of'. Yups....me too!! I work, got bored and then pop into the M2 room to put in my 2cts worth of words! Hope someone finds me amusing and look me up....LOL...but BEWARE!! Just today someone mailed me and says 'why are there so many 'FAKE' people here in M2'......and I said 'WELCOME TO THE CLUB!'!! For all I know he may be a fake too...! |
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I dunno if you are aware of this but some time ago this thing called wi-fi was invented. And with it the ability to go to places, sit amongst the people and surf the net. Oh......and it's on your phone too.
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Ok, maybe I should've worded that a little differently.. my mistake! But I do appreciate everyone's insight on the topic ty
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