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Topic: If Age Gap Is 20 years ? Will It Be Ohkey
Kwanita Joined Tue 08/26/14 Posts: 7	Fri 09/12/14 11:50 PM
In my opinion a Relationship is the way in which two people are connected, regard and behave toward each other. Regardless of age, it is what and how you feel and think about yourself and towards the other person. Best wishes!

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4976	Sat 09/13/14 02:22 AM
If age difference matters to you best to look for someone within your preferred age group. Providing the two people involved are able to marry , age difference does not matter in my opinion, there are many more important partner characteristics to consider before marriage.

FunnyJ Joined Mon 08/25/14 Posts: 426	Sat 09/13/14 02:42 AM
Does she offer you candy atleast?

FunnyJ Joined Mon 08/25/14 Posts: 426	Sat 09/13/14 02:45 AM
No, I'm not that kind of guy.

FunnyJ Joined Mon 08/25/14 Posts: 426	Sat 09/13/14 03:19 AM
Wait, would I be entitled to ride on the back of your motorcycle if I call?

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sat 09/13/14 03:41 AM
I've never really considered cruising retirement homes for a date.

makenwallo Joined Fri 08/01/14 Posts: 264	Sat 09/13/14 07:12 AM
doesnt matter

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 09/14/14 08:31 PM
If The Girl Is 30 Years Elder Than Boy , Will The Relation Go On I think the odd age gap might work but I have heard that most don't. Too many differences due to their age.

ridewytepony Joined Sun 04/14/13 Posts: 3697	Mon 09/15/14 12:00 AM
I do not believe such a relationship could and would last. Maybe there's infatuation at first, maybe love. But a 30 yr old with a 60 yrs old woman? Nah ... Difference in experience, dreams, wishes etc is way too big. One big issue could be having kids together. And indeed social outings. Always getting weird looks, ppl thinking you're your partner's gran, pfff... In my case 30 yrs would mean getting involved with an 18 yr old. What the he(k would I do with that? Apart from the obvious (and to be honest wouldn't even want that with a snot-face. And at some point the guy'd be 50, usually still strong, healthy, active at that age and your missus would be 80? I mean, bluddy hell! Or a 78 year old!! ....I don't think the odds are favorable, but the minute you say they can't or don't work, someone proves you wrong...It depends on the two peeps involved...Also, who decides what a successful relationship is anyway?.. Why Mother does thats who. DEAR OP, Mother" Mother, do you think they'll drop the bomb? Mother, do you think they'll like this song? Mother, do you think they'll try to break my balls? Ooooh aah, mother, should I build a wall? Mother, should I run for president? Mother, should I trust the government? Mother, will they put me in the firing line? Ooooh aah, is it just a waste of time? Hush now, baby, baby, don't you cry Mama's gonna make all of your nightmares come true Mama's gonna put all of her fears into you Mama's gonna keep you right here under her wing She won't let you fly but she might let you sing Mama's gonna keep baby cosy and warm Ooooh, babe, ooooh, babe, ooooh, babe Of course Mama's gonna help build the wall Mother, do you think she's good enough for me? Mother, do you think she's dangerous to me? Mother, will she tear your little boy apart? Oooh aah, mother, will she break my heart? Hush now, baby, baby, don't you cry Mama's gonna check out all your girlfriends for you Mama won't let anyone dirty get through Mama's gonna wait up till you get in Mama will always find out where you've been Mamma's gonna keep baby healthy and clean Ooooh, babe, ooooh, babe, ooooh, babe You'll always be a baby to me Mother, did it need to be so high? ~Pink Floyd

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 09/15/14 10:49 AM
I do not believe such a relationship could and would last. Maybe there's infatuation at first, maybe love. But a 30 yr old with a 60 yrs old woman? Nah ... Difference in experience, dreams, wishes etc is way too big. One big issue could be having kids together. And indeed social outings. Always getting weird looks, ppl thinking you're your partner's gran, pfff... In my case 30 yrs would mean getting involved with an 18 yr old. What the he(k would I do with that? Apart from the obvious (and to be honest wouldn't even want that with a snot-face. And at some point the guy'd be 50, usually still strong, healthy, active at that age and your missus would be 80? I mean, bluddy hell! I'd love to date judge Judy!!!!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 09/15/14 10:57 AM
if it doesnt matter to you or your partner then age is not the hurdle. One must respect the other, for a relationship to be successful. anyone who says 'age doesnt matter' is not respecting the many people it does matter to, so they are mistaken. anyone who says 'age doesnt matter to me' is speaking only of themself and that is perfectly dandy. its never been a right or wrong issue as long as the two are consenting adults who respect each other. ...Simple as that!!

AmberM3 Joined Wed 09/03/14 Posts: 2	Thu 09/18/14 07:17 AM
20 year gap will work, my grandparents did it and were together until he passed, but that is where I see the problem... He passed and she is still going, 2 decades later. Other than that, all was good. :)