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of course sex in the relationship, 90 percent if the sex is good then all good Not always. There can be great sex but everything else is in the relationship is lousy. |
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of course I agree with you...
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Dodo _David...
Very agree, and im sure you/ex had beautiful memories... |
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Yes of course larsonc
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of course sex in the relationship, 90 percent if the sex is good then all good Not really, cause then at the end of the day that way you just end up screwed. |
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If you meet someone here then of course you are starting your relationship with no sex....getting to know each other in depth will take priority over anything else and bring you much closer in the long run.. Yes that the point ....getting to know each other well (if possible include family/friends)etc... Thanks aim glad get another good opinion.... |
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yes, i meet the guy , he was the one I like to know better and better, the one I want to be with and moving forward....but when no sex......he disappear.....never talk to me no more....even he was telling me same thing (moving forward only with me) before that happen....... I would like to get to know everything include his friends before too far..... Am I wrong? Exactly why one should wait. Gives it time to know if the other is actually interested in you specifically and not just a good time and or what they can get out of you for their own pleasure. Cowboy 
I think the build up can be worth the wait if two people feel strongly about each other. |
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Is really sex have to comes first for start relationship? No it doesn't. thank you...another good opinion... |
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of course sex in the relationship, 90 percent if the sex is good then all good Not really, cause then at the end of the day that way you just end up screwed. that's true... |
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Sex is just only the effect of intimacy you have for each other. Not a spark to start a relationship.
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I don't believe it has to "come" first . but somebody !!.better be coming at one point or another.. and soon... 
trust me, aim women...I meet dozen guys from online dating...meet for coffee or lunch or dinner...but soon asked sex.... that's very uncomfortable and I don't want it. One of those guy soon we meet, he was very "open words" "you pretty, sexy, you make me horn..... lets go to your place.." What?????? It was disgust me ...I just said ...."I have to go, have good day". |
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It would be a black day in my life if...
I meet a wonderful girl, we hang out together, maybe walk on beach, we laugh and have fun time we visit each other and gett to know each others lives we meet each others parents and family. we get engaged we set a marriage day we have gorgeous wedding... we reach to our bridal sweet. and then in large ubelievably pretty wedding bed decorated with red roses... "Darling please turn all the lights off before coming to bed" and then... "Candles too." (huh? wait a minute...) "ow! watch where you put that knee. Now that ruined the mood!" (still in total darkness) "condoms are on the table beside bed. im not gonna have unprotected sex." (ever tried to put one one in total darkness?) "Ow! wrong entrance!" (still in total darkness) after few more minutes of cold sweat in darkness "Honey, I dont feel a thing, I think we should stop!" The moral of this fictional yet true to life horror story is... Youre free to do what you want ofc but i will NOT postpone the sexual compactibility test on my marriage day. Back to the author: Yes you dont have to do it on first date. in fact you don't have to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. And neither doesn't he. I doubt boys really expect you to say yes to sex on first date. or take no as an offence. Gotta be total moron for that. HOWEVER.. if something about the way you say it gives a clear hint that you are not interested of sex AT ALL. Not now nor later. Then you cant really blame them. It is one of the corner stones of a happy relationship and nothing can substitute it. |
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If you meet someone here then of course you are starting your relationship with no sex....getting to know each other in depth will take priority over anything else and bring you much closer in the long run.. Yes, that what I want...get to know each other well before anything else.... |
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Y did u say so
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You spoke well
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You spoke well
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It would be a black day in my life if... I meet a wonderful girl, we hang out together, maybe walk on beach, we laugh and have fun time we visit each other and gett to know each others lives we meet each others parents and family. we get engaged we set a marriage day we have gorgeous wedding... we reach to our bridal sweet. and then in large ubelievably pretty wedding bed decorated with red roses... "Darling please turn all the lights off before coming to bed" and then... "Candles too." (huh? wait a minute...) "ow! watch where you put that knee. Now that ruined the mood!" (still in total darkness) "condoms are on the table beside bed. im not gonna have unprotected sex." (ever tried to put one one in total darkness?) "Ow! wrong entrance!" (still in total darkness) after few more minutes of cold sweat in darkness "Honey, I dont feel a thing, I think we should stop!" The moral of this fictional yet true to life horror story is... Youre free to do what you want ofc but i will NOT postpone the sexual compactibility test on my marriage day. Back to the author: Yes you dont have to do it on first date. in fact you don't have to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. And neither doesn't he. I doubt boys really expect you to say yes to sex on first date. or take no as an offence. Gotta be total moron for that. HOWEVER.. if something about the way you say it gives a clear hint that you are not interested of sex AT ALL. Not now nor later. Then you cant really blame them. It is one of the corner stones of a happy relationship and nothing can substitute it. I agree we should get to know each other before having sex. But you will be surprised how many boys expect us to say yes to sex on first date. I quite understand what Smileyface said because i also had the same experience, and it certainly wasn't because I didn't want sex at all!!! |
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No, but sometimes it becomes necessary before marriage
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Sun 09/14/14 09:19 AM
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really not sure on how long you wanted to wait op ...
but if they really like you ...they tend to wait till your ready ... jumping in bed with someone does not always mean a relationship goes forward ... you do when u feel more comfortable and it will be much nicer for the both of you ... an if he can not wait then he might have been saying all of that ...just to get you to ... if your not ready your not ready should not have to be forced becouse of another and you do not want to have any regrets if you do ... their still are some that think the way you do ... and more compatible with ... |
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there are all types of different relationships
none of them 'require' sex ,,except marriage where it is kind of the action that consummates things,,, |
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