prayers are needed

i have a old bf from
25yrs ago
were still friends
he has had issue with his health for quit
sometime
he been a alcoholic every sense
i have known him

hes been a diabetic a few yrs
and when he was living in nevada
he aparently
had a heart attack
but he doesnt belive that

well he went in for some test
and they said they were surprised
he was still alive
we all have been saying that for along time

but any how hes in the hospitol right now
which hes going in for heart surgery
in the morning
he has the same doc that i had when
i had mine done....
which is a good thing..

i plan on going up there after his surgery

please send prayers

Satan has failed. But, please do you know if the "heart surgery" has been done already?

((( Queene )))


Sending love, light, and comfort to you and yours...

hes in surgry right now
i plan to be there
before he gets
out of surgry

some of his family
is there

Sending prayers your way and hope your friend is okay!!

Queene, it's so touching to know that you still care so much about an old bf from 25 yrs ago.
It's late night where I am. Will remember him in my prayers tonight. G d be with him . . . you.

Queen, you and your friend are in my thought. The Almighty God whom is rich in all things will heal your friend in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen!!!

Queene, it is truly a blessing that this "old bf" is still in your heart.
Alcoholism would have pushed away most people from his life.

May God bless you and your friend!
I will keep you both in my thoughts and in my prayers.

praying for all the best

i went there
and he had just
got out of surgery
of course
he was our of it
i found out
they did a triple
bi-pass
he had told me
prior
that his legs and his fingers
were numb
and i wasent sure why
as to find out
he wasent getting
enough oxygen
his sister
and i went
in first and saw him
for a brief
and some of his
other family members
were there as well
they only wanted 2 people
at a time to go in the room

his niece
just text me
and the way her
response was
hes awake
which is a good sign

Good to hear that he was awake so soon after the surgery. I'll continue to remember him in my prayers. Keep updating.

i talked
to his niece
this morning
and she said he
was awake
talking laughing
joking
and acting
him self

so thats a
good thing
his spirit
is high

That's great. Looks like he's on the right road to recovery. He's in good hands, the doctors as well as The Doctor in heaven!

the doc that
did his surgry
is the same
doc that did
mine
9yrs ago
and i told his sister
hes a awesome doc
in fact hes been
known
in oregon
to be the top
surgon which is great

i talked to his niece
this eve and she going
to take me up
there tonite
so i can see him
for a bit


even though
it has been 25yrs
sense i have known him
and we only were together
for 1yr
i put up
with alot of crap
with him

but he has a heart of gold
and he knew i hated
to be around him
when he was drinking
for a while i didnt hear or see
him for over 3yrs
for he was living in nevada

i have other old bfs that i have known for 36yrs
and were still good friends


that doesnt stop me
from having
other relationships
if i choose to
have one

yes alcoholiSM
can push anyone away

but jealousy can as well

everytime i said hi
to anyone just to be nice
he got jealous

and i told him jealousy
will chase anyone away
and he said no it doesnt
BULL

but what did brake us up
wasent the jealousy part

some of the drinking yes
but his idiot sister
was the one that got him
into drugs( coke)
which i didnt know about
untill later on
and i hsd enough of that

and he still from
this day
has been wanting
to get back together
he knows my answer
will always be.....NO

as for the drugs
he hasent been doing
that in a long time
but he used to be
so paranoid it wasent funny

i remember there was one time
we were going to a yard sale
and there was another car behind us
and he said he following us
and i stated no hes going
to the same sale
which he was...


i remember another time
i was visiting him
at his apt
and a few days before
the meals and wheels van
was there dilvering his neighbor
some food
and he kept saying
hes watching me

heck no he wasent
he was working
with that elderly lady
to bring in her food


he has a beautiful talent
when it comes to music
he plays the guitar
and he does have a really
good voice

Hi sweetie,
I'll keep him in my prayers also. You are a true friend.
May God help all of you, in the various ways that you need it.
God is close to the broken-hearted, and all who pray and call out to Jesus will be heard. God is loving, fair and His mercies are new every morning.
Love and blessings to you, your bf and his family. <3

my ex old bf
you mean

his family
can be strong
despite
his sister
is selfish and greedy

his 2nd to the oldest brother died
last month

and his mom died about
10yrs ago

his dad died im guessing
about 30yrs ago

and he has a older brother
that is a born again christian
or always has been
and he lives in nevada

All will be well.

Queene, reading all your posts above I'ld say all your former bfs, and esp. this guy who underwent a triple bypass, are so fortunate to have been in a relationship
with such a caring person like you . Hmmm, if only any of my former gfs were so caring!
Looks like the cardiac surgeon is not a stranger to you. I have a close friend from the time we were undergrad students in engineering school in Los Angeles. He's quite a bit older than I bcos he put in military service before starting engnrg school. Anyway this guy at age 40, (in 1995) with a wife and 2 kids, went back to school, this time medical school. He's now a kidney, pancreas, and liver transplant surgeon at UC San Francisco Medical Ctr.We talk to each other once in 2-3 mos. Each time he and his 15 person team of doctors, nurses, and technicians go into the OR they perform a small miracle!!!
He puts in only 3 days a week. His day at the hosp. starts at 6:00 am, and by the time he leaves for the day it's 6:45 pm for a two hour drive home in Sonoma County. He's a multimillionare now, but I dont envy him one bit. All his patients basically get a 2nd chance at life!!!
G_d bless.

i have a cousin that
lives in sana ana cal
and she is friends
with the head dialyis surgion
down there
and i was told
if i wanted to visit
she would schedule
me to get my dialyis
with no questions ask