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Topic: Narcissistic Pass
Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 08/30/14 08:04 PM

Ya know, it is really a great thread subject matter :-)
People never see us as we see ourselves.

I have run into guys that I knew in High School.
They will say things like, 'man I had such a crush on you',
or 'you were above us all.'

When in reality, I did not wear my glasses so I rarely
actually saw people hahaha and must have seemed full
of myself. And I had no clue that it appeared perhaps,
snobbish?

Well, for you HS guys, I don't have a snobby bone in me body.
So there.


Thanks Fabflowerforyou

I can imagine the "pretty girl" in HS who really didn't think "that way"....Possibly even getting passed up for the dance because of misguided intimidation. Oh well "Pretty Girls are Boring" right?laugh flowerforyou

dreamerana's photo
Sat 08/30/14 10:37 PM
well, im nerdy and I don't know how to talk to people. so people think im an azz or standoffish because I'm more of a people watcher.

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Sat 08/30/14 11:48 PM
I have no idea how people see me.

Pretentious poet? Probably.

dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 08/31/14 12:17 PM
I think scammers see me as an easy target and a pushover :tongue:

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Sun 08/31/14 12:24 PM
No one has ever told me what they think of me, which, thinking about it, is a little worrying.
However, my dog thinks I'm awesome, and that's a fact.

dreamerana's photo
Sun 08/31/14 12:40 PM


No one has ever told me what they think of me, which, thinking about it, is a little worrying.
However, my dog thinks I'm awesome, and that's a fact.
You are fiesty, smart, funny, and passionate.

all if the above and with a beautiful heart

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 08/31/14 03:06 PM
I sometimes worry that flippancy and sense of play have come across as insulting and insensitive....and it has indeed happened. No excuses. Many times "the joke" is not worth it......Especially in such a conjecture filled medium.

"I" need to watch it!

dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 08/31/14 03:08 PM

I sometimes worry that flippancy and sense of play have come across as insulting and insensitive....and it has indeed happened. No excuses. Many times "the joke" is not worth it......Especially in such a conjecture filled medium.

"I" need to watch it!


Maybe so Beach! But we all must do so!

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 08/31/14 03:10 PM
Thanks for the honest and firm...but somehow "Pass" Missy!flowerforyou

dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 08/31/14 03:15 PM
Edited by dcastelmissy on Sun 08/31/14 03:17 PM
I totally understand Beach!! Same here at times! I know what and whom I want and won't deviate. Therein lies wisdom my friend! flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 08/31/14 03:17 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sun 08/31/14 03:17 PM
I'm actually not sure how ppl see me?
Most see that I am happy and positive, some will see/know that I can be insecure, others will prolly think I'm a ***(*. Not entirely sure.
I AM sure that ppl who know me, know that I talk a lot :tongue:

nonstopcraigster's photo
Wed 09/03/14 04:18 AM
I hope people don't take my humor as annoying, and or being a pushover for showing extensive politeness.

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