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Topic: hard to get..???
plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Mon 08/18/14 05:01 PM
It works sometimes but you get bored pretty quickly.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Mon 08/18/14 05:02 PM
There is a fine line...play to hard to get and they will move on, play to easy and you risk being labeled, well as easy..

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Mon 08/18/14 05:02 PM
I dont believe in hard to get. why. just talk together, enjoy each other and be real with each other. thats what im doing now. it works

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Mon 08/18/14 05:07 PM
There is a fine line...play to hard to get and they will move on, play to easy and you risk being labeled, well as easy.. how about talking and putting it all out there and pace yourself together. honesty

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Mon 08/18/14 05:50 PM
There is a fine line...play to hard to get and they will move on, play to easy and you risk being labeled, well as easy.. how about talking and putting it all out there and pace yourself together. honesty Right on, little sister!

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 08/18/14 06:05 PM
Sometimes I wish guys would play more hard to get....

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Mon 08/18/14 06:06 PM
Sometimes I wish guys would play more hard to get.... But, we do! We play, hard to get to commit.

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 08/18/14 06:34 PM
Sometimes I wish guys would play more hard to get.... Ohh..yeah ryt..i wish they are but women are believe to b men's weakness.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 08/18/14 06:37 PM
Time and again, people are advised to play it cool, and make any potential love of thier life, do the running.. But does playing hard to get really works..? I don't see how it would work. Maybe for some. Oh it works, just for the wrong reasons.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 08/18/14 06:38 PM
They play hard to get, I play hard to want. The only thing I want right now is The Flash.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 08/18/14 06:40 PM
Sometimes I wish guys would play more hard to get.... Ohh..yeah ryt..i wish they are but women are believe to b men's weakness. Thank god for this.

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 08/18/14 08:14 PM
Give a girl time to think, otherwise it will be just random one night stand. Imo, the slower you go the more you'll get. Hello everyone: )

Jarsno Joined Wed 12/07/11 Posts: 6283	Mon 08/18/14 08:15 PM
Give a girl time to think, otherwise it will be just random one night stand. Imo, the slower you go the more you'll get. Hello everyone: )

Jarsno Joined Wed 12/07/11 Posts: 6283	Mon 08/18/14 08:29 PM
Sometimes I wish guys would play more hard to get....

Jarsno Joined Wed 12/07/11 Posts: 6283	Mon 08/18/14 08:32 PM


michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Tue 08/19/14 06:26 AM
Poor guy

vanillapride Joined Sun 08/17/14 Posts: 3	Tue 08/19/14 08:29 AM
Give a girl time to think, otherwise it will be just random one night stand. Imo, the slower you go the more you'll get. Hello everyone: ) I certainly wouldnt respect a woman who gave in on the first date. Would consider her easy, never for a long term relationship. I guess everybody else on this thread, incl. the op, missed you're new here. Welcome to Mingle and the forum. Participate in the forum and you'll get to meet real people. But I dont see many in your age group on the forums. Anyway, good luck and Bienvenue! Thank you for your warm welcome!

vanillapride Joined Sun 08/17/14 Posts: 3	Tue 08/19/14 08:48 AM Edited by vanillapride on Tue 08/19/14 08:49 AM
Give a girl time to think, otherwise it will be just random one night stand. Imo, the slower you go the more you'll get. Hello everyone: ) that's just an innocent girls' dream

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 08/19/14 03:20 PM
I wouldnt do the 'hard to get' routine. Just keep it real. 100%

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Tue 08/19/14 05:57 PM
Poor guy Ouch.!!!