looks simple but a smart ques.

may of you will now start thinking
what are they actually dreaming off in a relationship

Adventure, chaos, enlightenment, conversation, sex. No particular order.

same

some one to share hopes and dreams with.

Closeness
Openness
Understanding
Peacemaking
Loyalty
Esteem
Love
Respect

. Faithful
. Honesty (words, actions and transparency)
. Committed
. Forgiving
. Giving

Five languages of love:
. Quality Time (Intimate talking, spending time)
. Physical Touch (Not just sex; do you enjoy hugging and
kissing?)
. Gifts (Self explanatory)
. Affirmations (as in compliments and the like)
. Acts of Service (Serve and/or cater to eachother)


Which of the above five ‘languages of love’ makes you feel ‘the most loved’ or cared
about ??? These ‘languages’ go a long way in a relationship. When people don't get them, they feel ‘empty’ and unappreciated. Their ‘love-tank’ needs to be ‘filled back up again’. Just as a car must run on gas, when the gas tank is empty, the car will stop running. It is natural for people to show love or give love in what ever ‘their’ love language is, and not natural for them to give love in a language which is not their language. You can find out what a person's love language is by seeing how they give love. Here's how it works: If your love language is physical touch, and I show you love in buying you gifts, you will not appreciate it or feel ‘full’, until ‘your’ love language is fulfilled first; as in, I must give you the physical touch first, before I give you the gifts. And vice versa!!! A person must be willing to go ‘out of their comfort zone’ and do what is ‘un-natural’ for them, in this respect in order to make your mate feel really loved and cared for and ‘filled’. This stuff really works!!! When the ‘love-tank’ is ‘empty’, it must be filled again. And over and over again and again and again continuously throughout the relationship. Everybody has a primary and secondary love language. The primary is the one which makes you feel ‘most loved’. Most men's primaries are physical touch hahahaha. My primary is Quality Time and my secondary is Gifts. And one of my favorite gifts is flowers.

op being I am in a different stage in my life ...
and have been married twice ... looking for someone totally different then those I married before ... which is not hard when you think about it ...since all men are not the same ... should be easy right

I have read a lot of books on relationships and things as such. Because the Earth is comprised of so many different people, you will have clashes of what is wanted and needed. Of course, each person has different things going for them.

I just think that the ability to understand each other and to have a true commitment to one another is the greatest gift to have in any relationship. If you don't have those, it is doomed to fail. Our ancestors and parents understood this. And this is why couples stayed together so many years in spite of differences in backgrounds, etc.

now I was watching the history channel the other night... where they had found these bones from long ago of a child ... and I mean long ago ... come to find out they where of two types of cultures ... so that meant ma and pa did not stay in their own culture even back then ...


this is why couples stayed together so many years in spite of differences in backgrounds, etc.



some do and some don't and divorce way back then was easier too ... its of high hope your love keeps going strong for the rest of your lives together but these days seems does not always work that way anymore ...

I'm looking for someone to help me find my keys......

and bounce

Come here.

The one that full of laughter..

I know a good woman in her 50 yr age, was going thru' her divorce after 5 yr of separation when her ex.. found someone new. She has a new friend they exchange personal photos. After 2 months of communication he told her he likes her photo and want to go deeper in the relationship and told her that he needs someone beside him, and he can't do without her....and want to spend the rest of his life with her. He doesn't mind to come and meet her. She had scammers before this man so she fears of new scammer and said; "if this one is a scammer that will destroy me."
I advised her to go to the end of their relationship and meet him as soon as possible even if she is in the divorce process. I know this process is very harmful to the woman especially if she is a mom. Do you have any advice to her?

Legal immigrant status.

North~> North American status and I nice conversation.
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Well, i am not looking for anything in particular, but, it'd be nice though if it comes with a mind blowing mating....and then some...(there.,i said it.)

Adventure.simple.respect, love

* oh goodie.. finely someone that wants to play*
Aaaahaaaahaaaaha... or I mean; thats a better attitude

One more time with conviction and a nice smile because men like the friendly happy woman.;~{

Coming

probably too much