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Topic: Tired Of Been A Virgin[Need Advice]
Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Mon 07/14/14 05:40 PM
virginity is something that can only be lost once, so make sure it is a nice experience, rather than a lousy night in the backseat of a car. plus everyone lies about it so just wait till it is the right time for you and lie to everyone else if it makes you feel better/ cooler. evn tough no one really cares nowadays That's my boy right there!!! he really shouldn't worry. it'll happen eventually. plus teenage sex is utterly disappointing and over too quick. and when you get older it is more satisfying and fun lasting so i guess everyone should wait till they are better equipped Nothing like the look on your teenage sweethearts face after premature ejaculation occurs but to be far she probably was expecting it, lol That's why I like grandma, she will clean me up and let me have another shot

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Mon 07/14/14 07:05 PM
Nothing like the look on your teenage sweethearts face after premature ejaculation occurs

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 07/14/14 08:20 PM
i think after a year without sex you get your virginity back

Amoscarine Joined Sun 10/20/13 Posts: 343	Tue 07/15/14 12:52 PM
If you want sex, get yourself together first. Become a fuller person and it will be a small part of your life and fall into its place.

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Wed 07/16/14 01:08 PM Edited by mysticalview21 on Wed 07/16/14 01:10 PM
op you don't know that a girl or women may not be a virgin if u wait ...and if you feel like you love that person & they love u ... then i see nothing wrong but just having sex to have sex to get it over with is not the way to go ... that does not work either ... I believe when it is the right feelings you will know ... saving your self or not ... and protections is always good to have ... your decisions no one can tell you... what situations you may be in later...

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Thu 07/17/14 03:12 PM
i think after a year without sex you get your virginity back that would be cool, but a year is a long time to keep avoiding sex. as it's an offer that is difficult to say no to. plus most of us will say yes

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Thu 07/17/14 03:15 PM
You should try it grasshopper, it frees your mind.......and makes it all the sweeter when you finally meet someone.

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Thu 07/17/14 05:20 PM
You should try it grasshopper, it frees your mind.......and makes it all the sweeter when you finally meet someone. i wouldn't say it frees your mind, it's a bit like a drug, and can be addictive. they say you are strong willed if you can pass on sex at least ten times. i'm up to zero, lol

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Thu 07/17/14 05:23 PM
it is in our DNA to mate, though one gender will have more of a compulsion for it, and in mammals it's usually the male, as it is more chance to keep the species continuing. so male is the process obsessive and the female is the result obsessive. not to make us sound like animals, but at the end of the day we are

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Thu 07/17/14 05:40 PM
I learnt long ago how satisfying it can be too pass up someone, you regret it at the time, but when you look back.....I have my standards....your young though.....it's on for young and old.

CowboyGH Joined Mon 10/05/09 Posts: 13651	Thu 07/17/14 08:05 PM
I started to feel that saving myself for marriage wont make any sense,because the girl whom i will be marrying [NO IDEA WHERE IS SHE]in future wont be a virgin.So why saving it?For sake of the religion or for the sake of saving the marriage?I am not desperate to loose it but i dont know if i should save it ??Please Advice Why won't it make any sense? Is it that important to loose you can't wait? What's the urge? the need? It is a very beautiful thing to hear you're still a virgin and could then potentially save yourself for that special woman. I truly wish I could say the same thing. If you find the woman that truly loves you, she'll appreciate you saving yourself for her and will be entirely worth it in the end.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 07/18/14 08:02 AM
i think after a year without sex you get your virginity back that would be cool, but a year is a long time to keep avoiding sex. as it's an offer that is difficult to say no to. plus most of us will say yes oats were already sown. not saying it won't change back to how i was but i have to like the guy a lot first. id have to know him pretty well.

petemcl Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 662	Mon 07/21/14 03:45 PM
i think after a year without sex you get your virginity back that would be cool, but a year is a long time to keep avoiding sex. as it's an offer that is difficult to say no to. plus most of us will say yes oats were already sown. not saying it won't change back to how i was but i have to like the guy a lot first. id have to know him pretty well. true , i wouldn't want a one night stand, it's best to only have sex with someone you have got to know a bit, strangers aren't satisfying

Unknow Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 5	Wed 09/10/14 02:45 PM
This bugger is desperate. Else, why would he talk about it and that's what makes him a liar.

Unknow Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 5	Wed 09/10/14 02:49 PM
You're really having fun here...

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Wed 09/10/14 02:57 PM
"Your body, your choice", OP. (Equality in action, and all that good shtuff.)

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Wed 09/10/14 02:59 PM
I started to feel that saving myself for marriage wont make any sense,because the girl whom i will be marrying [NO IDEA WHERE IS SHE]in future wont be a virgin.So why saving it?For sake of the religion or for the sake of saving the marriage?I am not desperate to loose it but i dont know if i should save it ??Please Advice Is this some kind of joke. I can't beleive you wrote all that crap and have the nerve to use a topless picture. There's something not right about this.